AO: We are back from the dead... again! After an 18 day outage, we are finally alive and well. Who knew how complicated updating software/databases from 2008 would be. I still have alot of tweaks to make, but my main goal was getting everything patched and updated to 2026.
Vbulletin 6 has changed alot since 2008 so we will have a ton of new features to dig into.
I would say if you don't want to leave the deal see if there is a way to work things out.
As far as I am concerned the deal was made as soon as you shipped the item so he should do his part instead of trying to back out because of some unknown reason.
Well Phizz I would say to complete the deal straight up as well. BUT we all know sometimes some folks find that harder to swallow than just renigging and cancelling it.
Sooooo if Party B is for sure not happy with it, and will NOT complete as agreed then the least he should do is return the parts at his expense to Party A. To make it FAIR he should return the parts PLUS pay for the shipping that Party A already paid for to send him the goods first. It does take a good bit of trust to ship to someone and wait for your goods in return.
We both entered the deal. The pics were approved and I followed through. Now he wants to ditch. But I want to finish this. Maybe he got the bad end of the deal, but nevertheless, he agreed.
If he's waiving it off hes paying for shipping and will get a ton of bad vibes. Don't press the issue and try to make him trade, because then things get uglier.
i want to revise my statement, do not let him back out. a Deal is a deal, You were out the items and possibly passed up other options to sell while he was joy riding your parts. If youlet him send back you will set a precedent for all other trades that a deal is not set in stone and if you get the other party to send first you can jsut blow them off and joy ride the stuff for a weekend. Imagine if it was a solenoid and he blew it by over pressurized then backed out of the deal.
if he refuses to follow through and sends back either damaged items or none at all depending on how you shipped you might be able to threaten with mail fraud. that is if it comes to it. it might just be a misunderstanding between the 2 parties it might be one side being rude/childish/ etc etc either way just know your options
We both entered the deal. The pics were approved and I followed through. Now he wants to ditch. But I want to finish this. Maybe he got the bad end of the deal, but nevertheless, he agreed.
Was it good deal for you? Do you think he may have 'realized' he made a mistake and wants to back out because of it? Is he 18+? Can you give some more details about the deal, what was it for, how much? Maybe this info will tell us something about whats going on.
I have worked with papa, as many here have and nothing but good things to say. You can't really make someone finish a deal. Sure he should follow through, if not he should ship back and pay you back for your shipping too. Good luck.
Oh by the way papa, the ace works and you can barrow it if you need to.
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Was it good deal for you? Do you think he may have 'realized' he made a mistake and wants to back out because of it? Is he 18+? Can you give some more details about the deal, what was it for, how much? Maybe this info will tell us something about whats going on.
I'm not going to do that till it's finshed, that would be wrong, I don't want to jump ahead and slam him while we are still working it out.
I wouldn't want someone to do that to me, so I won't do it to them.
I have worked with papa, as many here have and nothing but good things to say. You can't really make someone finish a deal. Sure he should follow through, if not he should ship back and pay you back for your shipping too. Good luck.
Oh by the way papa, the ace works and you can barrow it if you need to.
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