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  • bound for glory
    retired bootboy
    • Sep 2004
    • 368

    #1

    no use for this old timer...i guess

    let me say first, that i'm more likly just a bitter old man of almost 42, who, after being a player scince 1985, i've been semi retired from our great game. yeah, i like the idea that i'll get another emag(or tom will come back and make me something new, in which case i'll HAVE TO come back), and play with my boy when he is old enough to play on a field. but, whatever, people get old
    i'm a teacher. i teach history at a tech high school(which means the kids are there to learn a trade, not about history, which most kids, sadly, could care less about), and i work a part time job(most recently at m&m...if you eat the plain ones, i probly have had my hands run through them but i've recently bought a house in a nice little town in pa. and bad enough i have to drive every day to my beloved and missed new jersey to teach, i just could'nt keep up also driving there to make sure, by shifting through buckets and many buckets of m&ms, that most are not chipped or broken. so i quit the m&m gig. and i saw an ad in the local paper asking for "refs" at good old skirmish, usa in the lovly town of jim thorpe, pa. hey, i think, i'm in, baby! well, not really...
    still with me? hope so. anyway, i apply, get told i was in, that i would be contacted by phone or email for my training weekend, then get an email saying they had enough "refs" for the year. ok, its getting late in the year. 3 weeks later i get a call from the "head "ref" himself asking me if i was still interested. yes, i say. the jakass then proceeds to butter me up like a piece of corn, and tell me some of the "kids" he hired have found that being a paintball ref does indeed include some work, quit on him. "you(he sez to me) would, with your experince and know whats would be a fine addition to skirmish" (i am not kidding you, he said this to me...really).
    so i go to my "training weekend", which was cold and very rainy, and sit through all this happy what have you, with 8 teenagers and one house wife who, no offense, did;nt have a clue. all the time, especally when the kids went to smoke breaks, this head ref is telling me how hes been in the game scince 2001 and its all great and the best guns were made by smart parts(but the only owned a tippman 98) and hes never heard of agd of mags in general, but he has shoot a cocker(so you know hes cool) and so on and so on..over and done i get told i'll be emailed or phoned telling me if i passed this training and when i start(mind you, this two day, 17 hour training was unpaid, we got free lunch, which was'nt bad, tbh).
    3 days later, i get a call from "head ref" himself..."sorry he sez, we can't use you now, but if we do you have to go through training again". i ask him why i've been jurked around? i did more than the kids did, even stayed lated to help out. so, wtf? he sez i missed a few calls during the castle game and, get this, "my ways are too set" again, wtf? because i yelled at a "customer" to keep his f'in mask on(3rd time that day, same guy) i did'nt respect the job. so i tell him to stick his job, and hung up on him.
    am i wrong here? am i, becauce i had the termitidy(i think its spelled like that) to shout at some one to KEEP YOUR GOGGLES ON, KEEP YOUR EYES, IDIOT being pushed aside because i disrespected the job? with the mill that skirmish is, i think so. but i bet the little girl with big boobs who was kissing "head refs" *** all weeekend got a job slot.
    Last edited by bound for glory; 11-01-2009, 02:30 PM. Reason: spelling
  • warbeak2099
    That is my foot!
    • Jan 2004
    • 4447

    #2
    I wish more refs would verbally abuse customers who acted like morons. I honestly just don't have any patience for people who act like dicks on or off the field, I don't see why a ref taking them down a peg would be a bad thing.
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    • teufelhunden
      Registered Bamf
      • Jul 2003
      • 2691

      #3
      hackettstown?
      SwallowBleach: It's good for you.

      www.seckspb.com: for all your third party needs


      Where have all the scooters gone? -BobTheCow

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      • GroovYChickeN 2.o
        Groovy...

        • Jan 2007
        • 322

        #4
        Originally posted by warbeak2099
        I wish more refs would verbally abuse customers who acted like morons. I honestly just don't have any patience for people who act like dicks on or off the field, I don't see why a ref taking them down a peg would be a bad thing.
        We tell our customers at Sudden Impact that we are mean and will shout and scream at you and kick you out if you break our 3 main safety rules. There have been many a times that we have pissed people off because they think we are too strict or mean. I however, would like to keep this whole never had an insurance claim on a customer thing going. Oh and we have been open for 17 years.

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        • behemoth
          SVSTC?
          • Nov 2002
          • 7750

          #5
          John,

          It aint you, or your age, brother.

          You cant begin to tell me you've never come across some dumbasses before?

          It just so happens they've hired one to be the "head ref"

          Years ago, this guy woulda got a boot party, today, alls you can do is laugh about it.

          I'm sure you'll find something more lucrative anyways.

          -Josh

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          • punkncat
            One foot less
            • Feb 2003
            • 5841

            #6
            I hate that you got jerked around over the whole thing and had your time wasted.

            I am also very firm about mask and barrel cover safety. I actually apologize in advance in my intro speech for the fact that if I see a person with mask off on field that I, or one of the other refs (if not both) will be yelling at you to get the mask back on. No offence, or hurt feelings intended, but that we want everyone to be able to see just as well when they leave as they did when they came.

            With that said....I don't know you, and am not trying to make a judgement call, but not all people are meant for all jobs. I have no doubt that with your experience in the sport that you are well more than capable of the job. Without "hitting it off" with the people that you would be dealing with, perhaps it was just not what you were meant to be doing at the time.

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            • Old School 626
              Old enough to know better.
              • Nov 2007
              • 368

              #7
              Teuf, You in H town? As an ex-Martian I am interested too when I saw that. I was in Vernon, CA before the move to Nashville, Commercial.

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              • Richter
                Registered User
                • May 2001
                • 262

                #8
                no offence but when does a 42 year old use "sez" in a sentence? I know I missed type quite often and especial on a rant when i am emotional but "sez"....come on now; you seam way too old to be using that type of wording in a post

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                • teufelhunden
                  Registered Bamf
                  • Jul 2003
                  • 2691

                  #9
                  Nah, I've lived in Morris County since '96 though and have known a number of people who've worked there.

                  Live in Randolph, work in Florham Park
                  SwallowBleach: It's good for you.

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                  Where have all the scooters gone? -BobTheCow

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                  • bound for glory
                    retired bootboy
                    • Sep 2004
                    • 368

                    #10
                    well, yes, hackettstown. and i use "sez" here because it was a long(and most likely useless)post. if you missed the point, i'm at least glad my brother josh got it. yeah, josh, the guy needed the doctor martin dental plan.
                    i've refed at several paintball fields in my ao. bottom line is skirmish is just the mill that it is. nothing more, nothing less. buses filled with people from the cities(absolutly no offense to you nuts in philly and new york) with no idea about paintball. "oh, i'll buy a marker on line and some k-mart cammies and go to skirmish and pay $110 for a case of paint not where my eye protection(mostly because skirmish' gog's are beat) and then get bothered by some guy who yells(again, FOR THE THIRD TIME THAT DAY) KEEP YOUR MASK ON! can i be any more clear here? am i the only one who follows the f'in rules? when did it become "bad business" to be looking out for a stranger because he just did'nt care?

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                    • going_home
                      Hebrews 13:8

                      • Dec 2004
                      • 8343

                      #11
                      Chill Out Sonny

                      You are way to cranky to be as young as you are.


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                      • bound for glory
                        retired bootboy
                        • Sep 2004
                        • 368

                        #12
                        yeah, going home, you may be right. but i don't think i'm wrong.

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                        • gunman_2000
                          Registered User
                          • Sep 2008
                          • 118

                          #13
                          I say good for you, they certainly did jerk you around a fair bit on the "hiring" process. At least you got lunch out of it. As for yelling at the customer, thats what you're there for. One day that guy will have a customer hurt on his field cause there wasn't someone yelling at them to follow the rules. I love it when I hear my refs yelling at people, means they are doing their job

                          I'm another one of those people that when going through the safety talk, apologize in advance for how I'm goin to yell at people

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                          • splat15k
                            The Beast from the East

                            • Oct 2001
                            • 1227

                            #14
                            I played at skirmish 3 times this summer and every ref yelled at people who were doing stupid things, especially concerning proper mask and barrel condom use. One of the refs there has his own rule that if you do something unsafe or stupid you have to select somebody to shoot you (after the game) from ~15-20 feet away until a ball breaks. He does this in front of everybody so that it adds embarrassment to the punishment: I've seen this event occur twice and there were no repeat offenders...


                            Long story short, you didn't lose the job because you yelled or are too strict. Their true reasoning may still be dumb and unjust, however.

                            Side note: I was born in Hackettstown and my father has worked at M&M Mars for ~20 years or so. He also commutes from PA. Small world it seems.
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                            • breg
                              mean & hateful, fat & ugly
                              • Jan 2003
                              • 1037

                              #15
                              Glory, that is a real bummer. Imagine, yelling at a customer who kept taking off his mask! If you were not resposible, you could have seen Darwinism in action.
                              But, honestly, if you got the job it maight have took you from semi-retirement into full on "I hate this game and the young jerks that play it" mode.
                              Giant flying dogs are gonna give you a flame-thrower enema!!!

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