Thinking up a title that fits sux sometimes doesn't it?
I was really more wanting to inquire about something and see if its prevelent among other "team" players.
Since we all became a team and play in "real" tournaments, I have noticed this wierd political crap going on at fields and with other teams. Seems like every time we want to play against another team to scrimmage, or just even for the fun of it, some BS has got to arise and interfere. Its like there is nothing but drama in place of all the comraderie that used to be there between people you "played" against vs. people that you "compete" against. And whats funny is that most of the people are not even tourney players or even in the same league or division. Its SO retarded.
The past three times we have tried to scrimmage with or simply rec ball with any other team, there has been backlash either during or after the event. Accusations, allegations, arguments, bad sportsmanship...its unreal. And not JUST with other people, among our own as well.
How do any long term successful teams ever make it through all this crap?
Some time ago, we had an altercation with a local team which I detailed somewhat in a previous post. The end of it all was that we decided that we would not play them on their home field again, and were done with it. The showed up at another field we were scrimmaging the home team. The owner of that field prohibited them from playing for his own reasons, and we caught the blame. Then the home team goes and pulls off a bunch of less that honorable moves...anyway, we come out as the bad guys over a couple of different situations that amount to "crap" and everyone is all riled up over it again.
The same crap that got in heads and caused us the worst performance to date a couple months back. Does everyone deal with this?
People are nice on the phone or by email, you get on the field and its like someone is this or that, blah blah...can't simply just play a friendly game anymore.
I am at a point right now where I have already "tested waters" on selling all my gear and walking away. It blows me away to consider that after ten years of playing paintball that less than six months within the tourney scene has me thinking this way.
Whats really screwed up is that I really enjoy the tourneys. The reffing is good the competition is good, and everything seems to work out fine. Its just all the crap in between that is drving me crazy. What got left behind once we decided to step up?
I was really more wanting to inquire about something and see if its prevelent among other "team" players.
Since we all became a team and play in "real" tournaments, I have noticed this wierd political crap going on at fields and with other teams. Seems like every time we want to play against another team to scrimmage, or just even for the fun of it, some BS has got to arise and interfere. Its like there is nothing but drama in place of all the comraderie that used to be there between people you "played" against vs. people that you "compete" against. And whats funny is that most of the people are not even tourney players or even in the same league or division. Its SO retarded.
The past three times we have tried to scrimmage with or simply rec ball with any other team, there has been backlash either during or after the event. Accusations, allegations, arguments, bad sportsmanship...its unreal. And not JUST with other people, among our own as well.
How do any long term successful teams ever make it through all this crap?
Some time ago, we had an altercation with a local team which I detailed somewhat in a previous post. The end of it all was that we decided that we would not play them on their home field again, and were done with it. The showed up at another field we were scrimmaging the home team. The owner of that field prohibited them from playing for his own reasons, and we caught the blame. Then the home team goes and pulls off a bunch of less that honorable moves...anyway, we come out as the bad guys over a couple of different situations that amount to "crap" and everyone is all riled up over it again.
The same crap that got in heads and caused us the worst performance to date a couple months back. Does everyone deal with this?
People are nice on the phone or by email, you get on the field and its like someone is this or that, blah blah...can't simply just play a friendly game anymore.
I am at a point right now where I have already "tested waters" on selling all my gear and walking away. It blows me away to consider that after ten years of playing paintball that less than six months within the tourney scene has me thinking this way.
Whats really screwed up is that I really enjoy the tourneys. The reffing is good the competition is good, and everything seems to work out fine. Its just all the crap in between that is drving me crazy. What got left behind once we decided to step up?
little whiners being total idiots over a simple GAME.
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