Ok ir eally just need to rant and rave about my gf for a moment

[FatMan]

Originally posted by The Frymarker
Oh God Is this what I have to look forward too?? If my son or daughter is doing dirty dirty no no stuff at 16 I think I'll shoot myself!!!!!!!!!

You guys are way too young for this stuff. You have your whole life ahead of you to be worrying about this now is too much.

I am 28, I didn't have my first date until I was 18, and I didn't even think about dirty, dirty stuff along way down the line......long long long long way down the line.
But that is how I was brought up and I am glad for it.

So basically if she is doing this now can you imagine all of the people she will be with by the time she gets married???

I think you should just stick to your schoolwork, friends and paintball. You don't need to be with girls to have a good time.

I know I'm a mom and those are mommy words...can't help it.

Fry, I realize this isn't "analyze the grip gurl" but who told you it is "dirty dirty" stuff?

Biologically its pretty normal to become aware of sex by 16. Though I agree it isn't healthy to be engaging in too much sex at that age.

This is pretty normal for these guys, and the GOOD thing is they are talking about it and getting some advice - and some of the advice is pretty good. I'm glad you spoke up - because you are right, they need to ease off this, but there are extremes in all directions.

OK, I didn't intend to go on like this - now you'll probably hate me - so I'll stop here.

FatMan

[Timmee]

I believe Jeff Foxworthy said it best when he said, "OMG, she's wearing a WHITE dress!".

Ditch her, and move on. It may be tough at first, but she made her decision when she hooked up with that other guy. You need to find someone who will remain faithful. I do agree you shouldn't get super serious until your older (a friend of mine got married right after high school, and he said it lasted maybe 6 months). Hope I've helped.

[The Frymarker]

AAAAAHHH Fatman no I don't hate you.

I just think Puritanical. I can't help it. My husband says too that he is going to lock our daughter up



I actually don't remember thinking about.....you know when I was that age, I was too busying drawing and painting in my room, infact I remember my father saying to one of his friends.. "yeah I have my daughter under lock and key" inwhich he did because I didn't go any where back then.

I just see so many children, and they are still children, that are dealing with adult situations and they aren't adults yet. They don't have the answers and don't know how to deal with them. I have heard about children 8 years old engaging in....you know, and that is a 3rd grader???

I can also remember when I went out on my first date, I guess my dad didn't like it too much because he took the distributor wires out of my car

I don't know it is just a really scary subject for me, and as always I don't like seeing people get hurt.

[FatMan]

Originally posted by The Frymarker
AAAAAHHH Fatman no I don't hate you.

I just think Puritanical. I can't help it. My husband says too that he is going to lock our daughter up

Yeah, I understand. I have kids myself. And daughters are different (sorry to be a pig, but that's just the way it is).

I agree with you about kids getting into adult situations too quickly - and 8 years old is rediculous - somebody GOT to that kid! By 16 guys are getting a good surge of mother nature. Girls don't always get going that quickly - peaking at a later age.

I agree with you in principle in everything except the idea that its "dirty" or "bad". Sex is a beautiful thing. Further, I would much rather my son or daughter talk to me about it than we pretend it doesn't exist - then they have NO guidance on their first experience, or maybe the guidance of one they shouldn't trust (but don't know that).

I think its more healty to be imformed about what is happening to you. I think most of the cases of kids getting in over their head don't come from too much information, but too little or the wrong information. Our kids are going to learn about it - its all over the place. So I'd rather they know the REAL scoop, so I'd rather they learn it from me.

Of course I have experience with that - as a religious ed teacher I taught sex ed to kids in the 14-16 range. When they are ready for it (and you have to take the time be sure they are) they quickly move to a mature attitude with a little guidance from someone they trust.

Anyway, I didn't mean to get all preachy! I appreciate your point of view. So, thanks for sharing!

FatMan

[The Frymarker]

You said the "s" word. JK

Yes I agree with you that I hope my kids do come to me when the situation arises....and not their father because I think he might have a mental break down.


Not so much when it comes to our son, but our daughter... it is funny that we think this way??

Sex I agree is not dirty or bad.....if you are an adult. I just wish that the media didn't push it on children so early in life.

Look at Britney Spears, Christina Agulara(not sure that is spelled correctly)and so many of the young women today are portrayed as sexual icons and they aren't ready for it in my opinion.

Yes Britney says " I'm a virgin" but dresses as a hootchie?

I think they need to have some more respect for themselves.


I think I got off the beaten path with this, yes Fatman I totally agree with you, but Magman007 you have a long life ahead of you don't waste it on girls at this point

[Jonno06]

sex icons...such as keely watson!?


u said keep ur mind on paintball

[The Frymarker]

Oh Jonno

[Tyril]

My favorite relationship advice:


-Mike

[Flamebo]

Step 1: Dump her, and ***** her out.
Step 2: Kick his *** and don't hold back.
Step 3: Get with as many girls as possible.

If she's gonna pull that crap and blatantly claim she still loves you, she's got issues you don't want any part of. You're getting played, put an end to it.

[ThePatriot]

Some girls are just plain weird, my neighbor instance. We had a little something going but it ended, she has a boyfriend now and she is like, hey sean wanna come over and watch a movie with me(this is at like 10pm.) I am thinking what is wrong with this woman...

Then the next day she was practically begging me too, and im like woman, did u breakup with your boyfriend? She claims she just wants to be friends, and her boyfriend lives an hour and a half away, and she claims, "oh he has no problem with me being friends with you"

Now, if you lived an hour and a half away from your "partner" and they were best friends with their next door neighbor of the opposite sex, would u feel comfortable?

[RTMAGBOY13]

hahahhaha i had a crazy idea but it might have been said u could back at her by sleeping wiht eighter her sister or her best friend hahahhahaha paybacks a b*tch hehe

[selfdestruct]

Was she hot? thats usually the only reason to want them still if they do such a thing lol. But I wouldnt even talk to her again. Get a girl who knows what she wants!

[Wheelman]

I tried to be that "friend" in high school, but I'm fugly.


But he should no pain, with lots and lots of duct tape.

[Flamebo]

On a similar note, I just found out (about 3 hours ago) that my filthy whore of a girlfriend cheated on me last. Apparently she felt the need to stick her tongue inside some dead man walking last night to "see how strongly she felt about me".

Her side is that she wanted to make our relationship stronger.

My side is that she's a little slut and the last year of my life was bull****. I'll never trust another human being again.

My reactions: Initial rage, as evidenced by the wall ripped down, several holes in my door, and the stitches I have to go get in my hands and feet now. Then complete disbelief and hysteria. Now I feel emotionally dead. I used to be pretty good at not showing any emotion, but I can't say I've ever felt like this. Complete lack of anything whatsoever.

You might not think kissing someone is that big of a deal, and I suppose it doesn't sound like one to most of you, but I can say that in this case I'd rather have taken a bullet to the head then had this happen.

If I followed the steps above I would have dumped her as soon as I heard the news, but as it turns out I decided I'm gonna spend a week without any contact with her and see if I still feel anything for her, which I'm doubting at this point.

However, tomorrow I'm driving down to Buffalo, NY and taking out the same level of adrenaline-fueled aggression on him as I did my innocent wall. I don't know why I take out anger on my walls, all they do to me is provide me with a little privacy, but it seemed like a good idea at the time. I now realize it wasn't my walls that cheated on me, it was my girlfriend and some kid that's goin down hard enough that it will be worth the lawsuit I'm sure I'll get.

There's my little venting. I don't expect this to really hit home on anyone but it's the beginning of at least one socially-withdrawn week for me. I haven't played paintball in almost a year, and yet AO is the first to hear this story.

[Jonno06]

"AO,where you,hear it,FIRST!"(guy from mtv news)

that sucks flamebo,but walla are cool to hit,it can hurt,but they dont swing back

i myself enjoy punching my door,which is covered by tons of stickers and stuff,which covers up the many holes