Women...Illegal or Unfair?

[bsusigep18]

Yeah, so im sleeping tonight..yeah, back around midnight, when my girlfriend decides to call me after a night of partying and whatnot and shes all upset. She was upset for a good reason but she had upset me earlier, and how UNFAIR is this? I can not stay mad at her, at all. Now, seriously, what am i supposed to do when earlier i was so pissed and now, i can't do anything but be my normal self. Do i have no backbone or do women have some kind of illegal gene in them that allows them to get away with anything? Those of you few women out there, i'd especially appreciate input. Also, does anyone out there know what movie my sig is from?

[Webmaster]

You must be young. Women are women. The most lovely and dangerous creatures in the universe. Guys generally use logic - women use emotions - thats why we have problems getting along all the time.

Its normal to be mad one minute and in love the next. It happens. The "Bare Naked Ladies" wrote a whole song about relationships and being mad and apologizing...

[bsusigep18]

Im not that young...two years shy of 21, i doubt i'll ever understand women fully...i won't even get started on my exgirlfriend.

[fenris69]

women...sigh

see...thing is guys dont care. we just cant bring ourselves to care about what they did 10 min ago. Women on the other hand make a point to remember for future use.not that they care so much more, but its really useful ammo to them. It's quite dirty and annoying by our standards but this is what you have to deal with. My gf was horrible for that as she loves to fight and I can never find anything to fight about...so I devised this system. Whenever she yells at you for something you believe is complete and utter bullflop, just cock yer head to one side like your thinking about it, stare off into nothing for a good 5 sec. and say "ok...what?? why are you angry again? hmmm...well why is that? uh huh... well I dont really understand why your this angry, but lets talk about it" and boom shes done like dinner, you can then pick her attack(usually emotionally fueled and not well grounded) apart. be careful they dont draw you into an argument by throwing stuff at you from yesterday...or last week, or that second sunday in june etc... they got good memories when needed and if losing will constantly barrage you with pointless and often hurtful stuff in an effort to confuse and turn the tables. such is woman.let it roll off you, it may sting you for days but theyll have moved on mentally in 15 min. and probly wont recall what they said(until they need it in a future argument) theyre not the same. theyll never be the same. and they love the drama...oh the drama...on the other hand you can play their game too. if they get mad? you get mad...dont need a reason to...just do it. i know, guilt tripping, emotional outbursts, etc.. is generally below us because it makes men feel uncomfortable. but theyre just using it as a tool, nothing more...so i say why not! good luck man we all need it.

[bsusigep18]

oh man, thats another thing...HOW do they do that? I can't remember anything she said yesterday, yet she can remember every single word i've said to her for the past 9 months. Thats unbeliveable...very bad for me because my memory is horrible and i try my hardest to remember that specific conversation on the third sunday of the month of smarch at 3 minutes after the third hour after noon. no clue what i mean? neither do i, yet she'd know exactly what i say...i guess thats what makes her so perfect...or evil...

[fenris69]

och i know...

i feel your pain..i do. im a burn and cant recall what i ate for breakfast...but you gotta realize that it DOESNT MATTER. When she's bringing an argument at you, it doesnt meant that its important, or even worth thinking about. Half the time its the need to argue about something, an emotional release that shes looking for. If she sits down and thinks about it she'll stop arguing...exactly why shes gonna try to avoid that at all costs. Your job is to try to get it into a discussion rather than a shouting match. BEst thing you can do is seem sincere. You probly do care because shes upset in the first place, so use that concern and ask her why , what can you do to help etc... she'll calm right down and usually something else entirely is eating at her. If it is a serious complaint then you need to deal with it. If you dont recall what shes on about, say so. theres bugger all she can do about it. just NEVER EVER GET ANGRY, REFUSE TO FIGHT UNLESS YOUR PLANNING ON LETTING HER WIN. then you lose and she wins, because our power is in rational thought and discussion(most of us anyway) not emotional ranting...we never win that way.

[fenris69]

course..

sometimes tho...she gotta win. as long as your not her beatin boy i dont see why she cant rant on once in a while... it makes her feel better after all. you know whats goin on...relax and itll roll by. remember that you care. and sometimes thats all that matters

[shartley]

Women remember every word? LOL Yah, right. Think again...

What they do is remember what THEY want to remember, and do so the way THEY want to remember it. They however, take advantage of most men's lack of memory. LOL How can you argue if you don't remember? ahhhhh

So many misconceptions.

I would suggest getting Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. Not all things are quite on target, but MOST are. Me and my Wife love watching that guy, he has it down pretty good. More people should read his book, or go to one of his seminars. My Wife and I end up laughing a lot.

[fenris69]

hmmm

yknow ive never picked that up. think i will today...id hate to have some of my misconceptions shattered tho right on the memory part usually, but my gf is an expection im afraid...her long term memory is nasty. she remembers what she used to eat for lunch in gr.3(she told me but i forgot hehe). actually...i find most womens long term is better than short. perhaps try to recall something more recent and use that as ammo id rather not play the same game if i can help it.

[DRAGONSLAYER]

OK, I brought my wife here to answer this- so here is MRS.DRAGONSLAYER...

first of all maybe you need to look at the kind of girls you are dating. yes, we women can be a little o.k. alot annoying but it is our God given right. when you have to suffer with the once a month monster or child birth then you can complain. i think that in general women are spoiled rotten however not all of us are like that. some women do take it to far though. when i see MR. DRAGONSLAYER'S face turn bright red and his head about to explode in flames i know that i is time to run and hide.

[X-Plosive]

that sig is on the tip of my tongue but with 12 HBO channels its so difficult to remember. Is it "the muse"? How about "three to Tango" or........? I dunno, I need more time to think.

[fenris69]

somethin funny

that reminds me of my buddies mom...he gets home after a hard day at work...goes to roll one up and finds nothing, goes into his kitchen. Theres his mom smoking his stash! her excuse? "i gave birth to you" so naturally he couldnt say squat but I think it's a little overrused. Show me a woman that doesn't want a child , and SHE can use that one. heh...damned funny tho. :P

[Flamebo]

Females are the devil's greatest plague to man...

Sorry Sarah and Lizza, but it's true...

[DRAGONSLAYER]

MRS.DRAGONSLAYER...

You see I can use this excuse because I don't really want children. As for your buddy maybe if he didn't smoke so much smack he would have been able to hide his stash a little better.

[shartley]

Flamebo:
Maybe someone should tell those sending the Anthrax around that. I wonder how the U.S. Postal Service would handle THAT one? hmmmmm