Help

[grEnAlEins]

1st off, happy valentines day. Ok, now for the help me part, today i found out this girl likes me. I like girls, if you know what i mean. This girl is my buddie, but thats all. Now she likes me more, but i dont like her past buddies. What should i do? Like i said she is my friend (so i wanna be nice), and she is cool, but not girlfriendish style cool. If there are any AO'ers out there who can tell me how to say what i want to say without being a reel jerk, it would be appreciated.

[boss_automager]

eww toughy.I hate it when stuff like that happens.well stay cool, tell her you wanna stay friends, its nothing against her and some other stuff.Ill get back to ya

[Jack_Dubious]

What are you too good for her or something?

Give her the whole "i like you too...but I value our friendship more. If we get together it will just turn into some big sexual relationship that will ruin everything. Cmon baby, if i break it off something good you wont want to let me go....and you know im just a straight up playa, yo!" .....or however you kids today talk....you get the point...




JDub

[Remington]

Originally posted by Jack_Dubious
.....or however you kids today talk....you get the point...

JDub

Haha . . . we don't always talk like that, at least I don't.

[boss_automager]

yeah youd have to search pretty far for some"i da playa,yo,g my crib"talk like that.or you could go in an alley...

[grEnAlEins]

i also do not speak in that nature, and that friendship stuff wont fool girls, they pull that all the time

[boss_automager]

yeah prob not.you could call her(stay away from looking straight at her)and tell her that since you are such good friends it just wouldnt be right if you went out.it could interfere with your long term friendship.and tell her that you hope she understands.

[yeahthatsme]

say something like this..." i dont want to risk our friendship, its too important to me, so lets just be friends" then give her a big smile, but most of all keep treating her the same, the worst you could do is start acting different around her...

[Collegeboy]

Be honest, that is the best policy if you want to remain friends. Don't use lines. Just speak as if you normally would.

I have never lied to a girl, and all of my ex girfriends are still my friends.

Honesty speaks highly.

[boss_automager]

how many ex's there collegeboy?


you could be honest.

like someone before said dont act diffrent to her.BAD THING!

[Ultimator]

There's no wasy way to say "I don't like you in that kind of way." She's going to get her feelings hurt no matter how you say it. So I'd take Collegeboy's advice.

[boss_automager]

ive been thinking and usually girls take it pretty well.it wont be as bad as you think.shell still be your friend.take collegeboy's advice

[grEnAlEins]

thanks guys, i will take collegeboy's advice, i want to honest, but not a dill hole, so ill try to do both.

[boss_automager]

goood luck man.if you want let us know how it goes.we are in suspense