What does it mean when a girls says...

[slateman]

"I'm sort of seeing someone right now"

Background: I've known this girl for a few years (wen to the same school and church, ect.) and we were always friends. But lately (past couple of weeks) I've really started to think about her more and more. I realized she is one of the few girls that I can stand for more than 5 minutes. So I asked her out to dinner. Nothing big just, Bennigans, and she said yes.

Well, she drove me home and on the way I asked her if she had a boyfriend (I've had that happen to me once before). And thats what she said.

Any ideas what that means (I have my own theories but I want some others).

[LittleKrems]

1) has a boyfriend

2) is 'involved' with someone(if this is so, keep trying and be nice to her and show her you are something special)

3) she didnt want u to ask her out, thats her excuse.

hope for #2 dude~!

[FalconGuy016]

I hate to say it if you dont really know what that means... but basically yes, she has/trying to get a boyfriend

Edit: Krems seems to know more

[Python14]

Well Professor, all my indicators are saying that she was eing literal. I don't think that statement is really available for disection.

In other news, I'd abandon ship if I were you. Not that you ever really actually got on that boat, but because your not gonna be captaining this ship anytime soon.

Better luck next time Skipper.

[than205]

= cold showers

[ChucktheMAGician]

Not married = available! If you really like her don't give up, but don't do something stupid to turn her away either!

[-J�ker-]

well we all have our own interpretation most carying but dont give up! heres my 2 pennies

A. she is interested in somebody
B. she actually is dating somebody (but she did go on a
date with you so that seems doubtfull)
C.shes not intrested in you other than a friend

you can always change her mind. keep asking here on dates (without nagging lol) and seem like your interested but dont seem desperate

[-Carnifex-]

Maybe she has a *Gasp* boyfriend?

I bet she's seeing Jesus, you can't top Jesus dude.

[-J�ker-]

Originally posted by -Carnifex-


I bet she's seeing Jesus, you can't top Jesus dude.

so true, so many dateable chicks lost to a 'religious' 'figure'

[graycie]

even if she is "seeing someone" , she doesn't want to be "seeing" you.

[ZSigErik]

heres a little quote of mine that I have been living by as of late...

"Never Get Your Hopes Up, It Makes Disappointment Alot Easier."




but IMO, she is seeing/talking to someone, and this means, in most cases, the girl is testing you to see if YOU care enough to try harder or to impress her more. this has mostly been the case for girls I have talked to about this issue.

OR

she just flat out isnt interested, sorry bro...

[langrage]

either the following:

1) your just a friend
2) she has a buy friend
3) she is sorta of seeing someone right now but doesn't know if it'll work out, so if it doesn't work out with the other guy, you may have a chance.

Its simple every person looks to "upgrade"

[-Carnifex-]

Originally posted by langrage
either the following:


2) she has a buy friend

I wish I had a bi friend..

[WicKeD_WaYz]

I think your reading way too far into it. Mayb she is seeing someone, someone that likes her and got their first. Half of the time those will never even work out anyway. And if so only for a short period of time. Thats when you go in for the kill. Best of luck



Or, she doesnt like you, girls like to make excuses

[joeyjoe367]

Holy Crap, why can't women be more straightforward instead of playing these gray-area mind games? Every time I hear someone talking about a relationship, it's all about "She said this, but she really means this, or I think It means this"



I'd rather have my feelings hurt and then get over it than have to try and figure out what's going on in a woman's brain.