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  • InfinatyBPS
    Dead Black Rose
    • May 2001
    • 2404

    #1

    Ever wonder why kids...

    commit, school shootings and violent acts at school, well I was thinking about it and I know, most of what I am about to tell you is from experience.
    Imagine what I am saying is happening to you.

    You walk into school, as soon as you do you hear people calling you names from accross the campus. Someone throws somthing at you. You just walk away. You goto your first class, your teacher gives you an assignment, you are working on it and without noticing, you start to click your pen. You teacher walks over, looks at you, noticing that you were clicking your pen you stop and say you were sorry. Your teacher walks up to you and says, "NO!! I don't think you are sorry!!! You know that you did that to annoy me!!! You are a lier. Thats why you have no friends you always annoy people and then lie about it." You say, "I realy didn't mean to." and then she says mostly the same things again. Then you are taking your break and your principal walks up to you and starts picking on you about your paintball magazine and takes it away, later she gives you garbage pick up because your shirt isn't tucked in. You goto lunch, people push you out of line, and then you have to goto the back, but before they do that they start saying that you pushed them, then you get yelled at. You get into the cafeteria, get your food and people start throwing stuff at you, and calling you names. You just ignore them. You go outside and just hang around with a couple of friends and people start throwing food, rocks, cans, whatever they can get their hands on at you. It's time for PE next. You walk into the locker room, get to your locker which is full of writing on it, calling you names and pictures that show a more detailed description of what people think of you. And you go to open your lock and it has gum on it, you pull it off and go wash your hands and when you come back someone spit a big lugey on your lock, you get a paper to clean it then take off your lock and clean it in the bathroom, come back and your PE clothes are missing and you find them spread throughout the locker room, everyone laughs at you and calls you names as you look for your belongings. Finaly you ask who the heck did all this stuff and then like 4 people step up and say that they did and what are you gonna do about it, you try to act tough and say that you are gonna mess them up and they imedietly push you into the locker and start hitting on you, you get a few shots in but not many, the teacher breaks it up, and sends you out to class. Walk outside the locker room and get to where your teacher will be and people start throwing stuff at you once again, and you just try to ignore it till the teacher gets there. After the laps and people pushing and hitting you then running away, you go to the sport playing, people throw balls at you and pretty much of what has been happening the whole day happens again. You go to get dressed, you look for your backpack, it isn't anywhere to be found, you look around and find it in the shower trampled and half of the contents either wet or in the garbage. Your glasses that you left in your backback broken and the frame bent, your $50 electro dictionary broken and scattered everywhere, you gather up your stuff and, go to get dressed, your shirt is also missing now, so you have to wear your PE shirt. As you are getting dressed there is someone trying to stab you with a sharp, jagged metal object. You try to run away and still get stabbed, you get back to your locker relizing that your walled is missing out of your pants that were left in your locker because you were being chased. Well its time to go home. Take the bus and people start throwing stuff at you. Calling you names, slapping you in the back of the head. When you finaly get off someone trips you and you almost fall but luckily you don't, well you are home now, home sweet home.

    Well if you now don't know why students commit violent acts, like shootings and such then you are truly thick headed. Imagine having to go through this everyday, no break from it. Not wanting to goto school in the morning knowing what is going to happen like always. I had to go through this. I am lucky now to finaly be out of there and in a new school where people are kind and friendly(most of the time) and my school has it's problems and stuff but anything is better than what I had to go through. I welcome your comments on what you feel about my experiences.
    Last edited by Army; 11-18-2001, 08:35 AM.
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  • FooTemps
    HURRRR
    • Sep 2001
    • 6702

    #2
    Wow...what a story. This is pretty true. Luckily, it's never happened to me but at this suicide and voilence thing I had to go to there were several accounts of stuff like this a couple years ago at my school.

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    • Bonx0007
      AO SOCAL OG
      • Sep 2001
      • 1388

      #3
      I am sorry to hear you had such a bad experience. I have seen this done. I was the captin of the wrestling team in my school. Here not many football players wrestle and for some reason feel the need to pick on other people in the locker room. In twelth grade I was pretty big 6'3" tall and about 200 pounds of rock solid wrestling muscle. Some kid started to push me from behind while I was changing(I was sitting down and was just pulling the dhirt off over my head) He thought I was one of my smaller friends. He got a surprise. I stood up and his mouth dropped. That was one of the greatest feelings in the world. You see i was bullied by my older brother all my life and I really never had the upper hand in any fight with my brother. well having that upper hand in a real fight for once felt great. The guy wasn't all that much smaller than me but he still just stood there and apologized. By the time he was done apologizing I turned to my locker and saw two other football player friends of his looming about challenging me for punkin his friend. I picked the biggest guy and I told him that I would not fight him in the locker room but in the wrestling room.(I didn't want to hurt him that bad) This guy was able to bench press 410(I didn't know this until after the fight) well it wasn't much of a fight he threw a few punches and I simply grabbed him put in a head and arm and threw him over my back. he landed on his back and got the wind knocked out of him. From that point on i was not messed with.

      I even got that guy that I tossed to join wrestling. He turned out to be a cool guy he just needed some straightenin out.

      Moral: Slamming bullies to the floor usually changes their attitude.

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      • Minimag4me
        Registered User
        • Jul 2001
        • 779

        #4
        sorry man some people can be real ***s(edit: cant say that oops change to "dumb/stupid"), im glad u got out of that and didnt go blasting away at people.
        the best defence i find for things like this is friends. Just find paintball people or people with common interests and just hang youll fit in. I was new at my school a few years ago and found there is strenth in numbers. If you are with a group its less likely to bet picked on. If you are new with no friends the best thing u can do is not let people push you around(dont shoot anyone). Look cool and people will make that first impression. Get with hot chicks, they have amaising power over guys who pick on you. Another way is to make people think you are hard. Make them think you are some nazi or in a gang or something, shave your head, dont smile, act tough(if they think u are backed by scary people they wont f with u, some chicks like stuff like that too). If they do things and you ignore them they will do it again. Go to the gym get all buff and mostly people dont beat on bigger/stronger people and take self defence classes maybe(take on those 4 guys easily). Join a club to meet people also or play a school sport. If it gets really bad like in your situation i would find a chill teacher/guidencecounsuler/principal and talk to them about it(it may be nerdy but naturally humans will avoid trouble at all costs if people start getting busted for it they will stop or just get out of there like you did, start over somewhere else, good job.
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        • FooTemps
          HURRRR
          • Sep 2001
          • 6702

          #5
          Don't act hard or anything like that. Just don't be an idiot or a complete dork. People judge too much on looks. I am new to my school and most of the kids there went to school with each other. I was the few that went to middle school in another district and knew almost no1. I joined the tennis team so I made some friends and I had a good image. Then it grows from there. 2 friends become 4, 4 become 6, 6 become 13, etc. until you get to know hella people

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          • Minimag4me
            Registered User
            • Jul 2001
            • 779

            #6
            true, dont act hard unless you are(edit:i dont know what i was saying dont go out and join a gang or anything also, thanks foo for pointing out my stipidity), if its all acting they will know and beat u more, just fit in like(Edit:join a club/team is ver good) Foo said, it is true though if they fear you they wont do anything to provoke you. Also like Bonx did pick out the biggest/strongest or leader guy and take him down that will do the trick, Bonx is huge though, dont try this unless u can win and you must know how to fight and have that experience(not reccomended for little people too).

            edit: first impressions are important but over time they diminish
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            • MagMan5446
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              • Jun 2001
              • 2572

              #7
              Originally posted by Minimag4me
              If you are new with no friends the best thing u can do is not let people push you around(dont shoot anyone). Look cool and people will make that first impression. Get with hot chicks, they have amaising power over guys who pick on you. Another way is to make people think you are hard. Make them think you are some nazi or in a gang or something, shave your head, dont smile, act tough(if they think u are backed by scary people they wont f with u, some chicks like stuff like that too).

              Don't EVER act as a nazi. You live in San Jose and acting like you're a nazi is a great way to get shot. Don't act like you're in a gang either. You got to be yourself. If you're small, then you gotta watch what you say and who you say it to. I never had that problem, and no one messes with me anymore because I got into a whole lot of fights and never lost one. I've had a broken knuckle for almost 3 years now and I'm not too proud of it, but it got me through most of my school days.

              You shouldn't go out and screw around with people, especially if you aren't in elementary school. Elementary school is where your reputation comes from. If you suddenly go out and beat a guy up, you're gonna get beat up by his friends. Don't ever let another person fight for you, but don't fight unless you have to. I've never fought a guy without a good reason, and I don't throw the first hit usually.

              Getting a girl won't get you anywhere. Just because you have a girl doesn't mean anything to anyone that wants to mess with you.

              The best thing you can have is respect, but only to those who respect you. But no one seems to respect you so you don't have to worry about that. But if someone does respect you, it's best to respect them. That goes for anybody.
              Last edited by Army; 11-18-2001, 11:32 AM.

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              • Flamebo
                Registered User
                • Oct 2000
                • 1286

                #8
                Sounds like a bad day, but it's NO excuse to start shooting people. People who do those things should take some damned responsibility and stop looking for excuses, and stop blaming their mental issues on the actions of other people.

                Some people do get unfairly picked on in school, and that's unfortunate. I find it hard to believe that someone would repeatedly get attacked and assaulted on a regular basis when they did nothing at all to provoke it.

                I'm not saying it's right or excusable to continuously and cruelly pick on ANYONE who didn't ask for it, but those shooting sprees are infinitley worse. If you're going to even CONSIDER something like that because some people spit on you, or poked you, or stepped on your stuff then there's something seriously wrong with you...

                I'd say it's a much wiser decision to change schools or tell the authorities or simply stand up for yourself, which does NOT include mass-murder...

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                • InfinatyBPS
                  Dead Black Rose
                  • May 2001
                  • 2404

                  #9
                  ok...

                  Thanks for all your help an all just to clear things up a bit, quit acting like I am on the edge of suicide or killing someone, you keep saying something and then saying(dont shoot anyone) or don't join a gang, and stuff like that. I know all of that. The reson half of the students at my old school aren't under ground right now is because I am a mentaly and spiritualy strong person. But imagine if someone was extremely insecure and messed up. Imagine what they would do. I am not trying to say anything about your response just saying don't worry, I am ok, This year I have tons of friends, I lift weights, I take Karate, most people are afriad that if they mess with me they will get smacked around. So all is good
                  Oh ya Flamebo, ummm, not a bad day, that happened to me everyday, not just one day, different days had different things happen but, never a break from the same stuff. Also I am not acting like a NAZI lol, but yes most of the abuse was because I was white in a mostly Mexican/Black/Asian community, there was like a 1% white population at my school. But no I didn't act like a Nazi heheheh. I didn't act like a gangster or nothing like that. And when its time to vote for uniforms think of this, that was a uniformed school. It sucked.
                  Last edited by InfinatyBPS; 11-18-2001, 12:42 PM.
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                  • paintdevil1
                    Registered User
                    • Oct 2001
                    • 40

                    #10
                    what you need to do is start a big *** fight and win what they want is a reaction from you and until you give them a big reaction and stand up for yourself they are gonna keep doin it
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                    • Minimag4me
                      Registered User
                      • Jul 2001
                      • 779

                      #11
                      another thing you can do is go to a church, people are really chill there, join a church youth group

                      geez ive been talking crazy lately i better stop being on so late at night
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                      • MikeCouves
                        The Enemy
                        • Aug 2001
                        • 1877

                        #12
                        Man I feel what you're saying. I am like 4' 11" and it drives me crazy sometimes. Yup, you could call me a midget pball player. Man, when I grow (If it ever happens), I am going to kick the bleep out of every one that every pushed me around or something. I hate that feeling that you want to beat someone so bad, but there is nothing you can do about it...

                        Sorry for the language, but this is a topic/discussion that I really feel for, so that's what I did, I wrote what I thought.

                        I always think about going into the school with a gun or something and shooting all those bullies...but then again, are they worth the bullets? Then all the nerds and midgets could feel safe again...

                        But no. I am better than that. They aren't worth your trouble...

                        They are people too, they need a reality check, on what they are doing, what they are destroying...
                        Last edited by cphilip; 11-20-2001, 07:51 AM.
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                        • mitch
                          Team Canadian Eclipse
                          • May 2001
                          • 1053

                          #13
                          whenever i get real mad at someone i just invite them out to a paintball game.
                          lite them up, bunker them make them cry laugh at them and shoot them somemore.
                          they will never bully you again.
                          for awhile........
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                          • TylerDurden
                            Space Monkey
                            • Jun 2001
                            • 264

                            #14
                            I would have to agree with mitch. bunker'em and get a picture of the bruize to remind them later on.

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                            • CHl2IS
                              Proud SFL E-Mag owner
                              • Jul 2001
                              • 267

                              #15
                              man that must suck... im kinda like the person that woulda picked on you sortof.. but i pick on the cool people. theyre my friends and all so they know its alrite. im only in 8th grade and i make fun of the highschoolers too. for some wierd reason they respect me for that and they like me.. strange. i also defend the smaller kids who cant defend themselves. i just hate it when a bully picks on a littler kid. i dont get in much fights myslef but when someone is picking on a smaler kid... its just no. one day i was walking trough the halls and i saw some football players picking on a little girl, and calling her names. i walked up to them and said wtf are you doin?? they just looked at me and turned around. i grabbed the kid by the shoulder and said what are you doing??? the kid shoved my arm off his shoulder and said whats ur problem you dont know this girl. he turned around and started making fun of her again. i grabbed him by the shoulder again and said "thats my sister" that was one of the best feelings in my life when they apologized to my sister so much. later that day they came back with more kids and threatned to jump me. although i take boxing classes, they had about 10 or 15 peopple with them. a couple of people were gathering around in a circle wanting to see us fight. well the friends i had made in highschool came up behind them and patted them on the backs and said you best be runnin now kid. then the kids who were gonna jump me said oh yah thas right get to runnin kid. then the i was confused. then the kids said no. i mean you. the look on his face... it was priceless. the 10 kids just started running like crazy. it felt so good.. my advice is that most kids only say, but dont do. just stand up to them and say aight do it. also be prepared. dont do any fancy stuff... thatll just get you beaten up. take some boxing classes or kickboxing. if you dont do that watch the karate kid or something. gtg later
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