friends dad dieing

[Konigballer]

My dad died of cancer when I was nine. We had him moved into our house the last few weeks but he couldnt even leave his bed, he didnt even know who I was the week before he died. All you can do is let her know you'll be there for her, but dont force her to talk about it if she's not ready. The most annoying thing is when people think they cant say anything to you without talking about what happened so dont smother her. She's gonna' have a lot of emmotions to deal with an they are'nt all nice either so you gotta watch out for that. Sometimes I would think I was doing alright untill something triggered all kinds of emotions. Three months after my dad died, this kid at school who hated me came up in the hallway and said he "was sorry about my dad being dead", real sarcastically with a smile on his face. I didnt even know what I did until it already happened but I broke his nose without thinking right there in the hallway. Not very bright, but I did'nt even know I was that angry about the whole thing until that happened. Good luck with your friend man.

[penguinpunk555]

Update. Her dad died this morning while she was at school.I just got back from her house we had a few people over and just hung out tried to get her mind off of it.I talked to her for a lil bit and she said that she was happy that i was here for her i told her to call whenever.I told my parents that if she calls to wake me up. Please guys pray for here she realy needs it right now.She is one of the nicest girls i know and she doesnt deseve it...

[breg]

My father died of cancer when I was 18. Now, my grand mother has Adrenal Carsonoma (sp?)

When it happened for me, I was grateful for everyone that talked to me and told me that they were there for me. Just remember that when she wants to talk, she will. It may not be right away, it maybe tonight, or never. But the thing is that you need to be there when she needs you. Just let her know that you care.

[chunk_daddy]

wow........tell her im srry for her......and hey if she ever needs to talk im here too.......i know how it feels to lose someone.....hope everything works out ok for her

[penguinpunk555]

She is not doing good today.
Her dads funeral is monday. i think im going not sure yet but please keep her in mind . thanks guys i want this thing to be up here for a lil bit if possible.

thanks