Help! I Can't Talk to Girls!

[RiddalinJunkie08]

I have the hardest time talking to girls. Like there is this one girl in the band room where I eat lunch at school and I cannot talk to her. I am always nervous b/c I don't want to sound like an ***. The only times I can talk to them is after a really long time of talking online or being in a big group. But I can't talk one on one. And obviously this creats problems with getting girlfriends.

Please give me some advice especially from girls b/c they know what they want. Thanks in advance.

[Python14]

I talk to girls the same way I talk to guys. If you change your personality, it will only cause problems. That's my best tip ever.

[FalconGuy016]

Re: Help! I Can't Talk to Girls!

Originally posted by RiddalinJunkie08
I have the hardest time talking to girls. Like there is this one girl in the band room where I eat lunch at school and I cannot talk to her. I am always nervous b/c I don't want to sound like an ***. The only times I can talk to them is after a really long time of talking online or being in a big group. But I can't talk one on one. And obviously this creats problems with getting girlfriends.

Please give me some advice especially from girls b/c they know what they want. Thanks in advance.

hEY!

I HAVE THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM!
<B>EXACT!</b>
AS A MATTER OF FACT I MADE A THREAD TOO A LONG TIME AGO!
*tears of joy that there others like me*
Great timing too cause im asking my first girl to homecoming (asking my first girl for ANYTHING) on thursday... yeah... nervous breakdown insueing

[Daroy99]

Take a chill pill guys. I was like that when i was in the heart of puberty in 8th grade. I'm now in 10th and its very, very easy for me. It'll come naturally. Just be your self and you'll be fine. And everyone gets nervous asking a girl out..dance....etc... so don't worry about it.

[Multi-Colored J]

I had the same problem. I always would think I would fail, or look stupid, or something like that. Just kind of talk to her like you would any guy. If the girl is very...entergetic...you probably won't look stupid at all. If you get to know her really well (online) then it'll be easier.

-J

[FalconGuy016]

Originally posted by Multi-Colored J
I had the same problem. I always would think I would fail, or look stupid, or something like that.
-J

Its not really that, its more like... I just cant. I can even WATCH myself not being able to talk. Its strange

BTW im a junior lol

[SIGSays]

tip #1 start outside the band room

[Miscue]

Re: Help! I Can't Talk to Girls!

Originally posted by RiddalinJunkie08


Please give me some advice especially from girls b/c they know what they want.

No they don't. It's your job to figure out what they want, and give it to them... even though they don't know themselves.

Girl thinking: "I want something, but dunno what. But I will whine until I get it."

Guy Action: Hand her a cookie.

Girl thinks: "Wow, that's exactly what I would have wanted if I knew! Ok, I want something else now."

Guy Action: Doesn't know what to do, he's out of cookies.

Girl thinks: "This guy doesn't care about me... gee, there's a thug with cool tattoos... I'll hang around him now."

[Mango]

Here I got you the whaaaaaambulance.

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Suck it up and deal with it , be confident, if you make mistakes then it'll just amuse them and like you more, your a man show your position, take your stand, make your move

[RiddalinJunkie08]

shes not in band and neither am I. I have a bunch of friends who are on the drumline who eat there and she has a bunch of friends on colorguard (the flag people).

and mango.... <B>*POOF*</B> off.

<B>*Warning: No Cussing.</B> -Miscue

[Multi-Colored J]

Just don't forget, Riddelin and Falcon, the worst they can say is no, if you ask them to homecoming or something. What are you gonna do if they say no, go into a fetal position and cry like a baby?


Haha Falcon, i'm a freshman.

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Well get your friends to help then that you know, girls are always willing to help their fellow possie/clique member hehe, Colorgaurd, now thats diverse, what happened to the caucasions haha

[Will Wood]

Believe in your self. If you are confident with yourself, that's all you need.

There is no reason why they would have to NOT talk to you. Just start the conversation like you would with a boy. But be nice

[Mango]

Originally posted by RiddalinJunkie08

and mango.... <B>*POOF*</B> off.

<B>*Warning: No Cussing.</B> -Miscue

LOL! It's a joke buddy lighten up. This is not life or death. You want advice? I'll tell you what EVERYONE here will tell you. Grow a pair and TALK to her/them. They are not going to bite you.

Also, maybe if you layed off the Riddalin, that might help.