From a girl's stand point, most people have given some sort of advice that will prove useful, and I will also back up the fact that being yourself and having confidence does work. Everyone who has said something along those lines, and said that it is the best advice, is right basically. If you find yourself being extremely nervous, just take a deep breathe and relax and let yourself know it's not all that big a deal, it does sound cheesy, but it works. And when you go up to talk, hopefully you can be your normally cool and collected self.
I do agree with the points InexactMelissa made. It really does depend on the type of girl. In general though, high school girls...wait I take that back, women, especially high school girls, are whiney and indecisive, and quite mean for that matter. And frankly, I know lots of girls who just like to take advantage of their boyfriends, just to be manipulative and get what they want without having to spend anything/do any work, but that's a whole other story. Back to the point, I'm trying to prove that being yourself works. If they like you, they like you, and if they don't, they don't. It may be sad, but it's true. If a girl won't talk to you for something as shallow as not making good conversation once or twice, then she isn't worth your time. So don't worry about looking 'stupid' in front of someone, because if they genuinely enjoy hanging out with you/talking with you, then they aren't going to care. Hopefully they would be able to take some of the awkward silence of small talk and painful conversations away by making some of their own. If they don't, then chances are they are probably nervous or shy about talking too. Just remember, the more you talk, the better it will get.
I do agree with the points InexactMelissa made. It really does depend on the type of girl. In general though, high school girls...wait I take that back, women, especially high school girls, are whiney and indecisive, and quite mean for that matter. And frankly, I know lots of girls who just like to take advantage of their boyfriends, just to be manipulative and get what they want without having to spend anything/do any work, but that's a whole other story. Back to the point, I'm trying to prove that being yourself works. If they like you, they like you, and if they don't, they don't. It may be sad, but it's true. If a girl won't talk to you for something as shallow as not making good conversation once or twice, then she isn't worth your time. So don't worry about looking 'stupid' in front of someone, because if they genuinely enjoy hanging out with you/talking with you, then they aren't going to care. Hopefully they would be able to take some of the awkward silence of small talk and painful conversations away by making some of their own. If they don't, then chances are they are probably nervous or shy about talking too. Just remember, the more you talk, the better it will get.
, I can be myself around girls but thats the problem with me.. its just that no one takes me seriously.
I'm just a guy that makes everyone laugh.
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