Need advice from professional daters

[T-Bird]

I help out at this afterschool program for kids and there is this really cute chick that comes in to drop off one of the kids.

Now if this was any other situation, like if I met her at a party, resturant, etc... this situation would not be as complicated. I don't have a problem going up and asking her out for a date. The problem is if I had to dump her because she a bimbo, worships the devil, eats babies, etc... then how could I "let her down easy" without hurting her feelings.

Again, if this was any other chick that I would never run into again if things went bad, this would be ok. I would dump her (respectfully of course) and move on. But, the fact is that she comes in every other day to drop off this kid she babysits for. I don't want to have things end bad and have this wierd vibe in the air every time we run into each other. I also have a "reputation" to maintain if you want to call it that here at this afterschool place.

I talked to her a few times to get her name as she was rushing out of the door, however I guess I won't know if she has a boyfriend or not till I ask her for her digits.

Yall think this thing is worth pursuing even with all the "risk"

Thanx for n-e posts guys

[Woogie12]

I would say go for it. You don't have anything to lose by it.

[T-Bird]

In fact, i'm leaning more on the side of going for it. But again, I need some suggestions on how to "let her down easy".

Just remember, "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!"

[SIGSays]

get to know her first... i say just ask her to hang out... that way you not commited to anything

[Thordic]

Talk about pessimistic, you havn't even asked her out yet and you are trying to think of ways to break up with her?

One step at a time, grasshopper.

[Mango]

As Thordic said, if you are already worrying about "how to let her go easy" then don't even persue it. Don't waste her time or yours. Get your priorities straight first.

[T-Bird]

Good point guys...thanx

[ShooterJM]

Hey now, nothing wrong with having a plan on how to get out of a tight spot before getting into one.

[MagMan5446]

If she isn't the right one, hit it, split it and quit it.