In case anybody cares, an update on that girl I went to homecoming with...

[Sir_Brass]

Originally posted by Flamebo


Truer words have not been spoken on this forum. Everyone's gotta learn the hard way, unfortunatley.

not exactly. don't trust them immediately. NEVER do that with ANYONE. However, if you've grown to know her, then if you know that you can trust her, then trust her.

Don't let a bunch of us ego-inflated guys tell YOU about how to deal with YOUR friend. YOU are the one who knows her, NOT us. We can say that you shouldn't trust her and that she's being shallow, but that's the cynical attitude in many of us who were betrayed by less-than-moral women. However, there are women out there who are virtuous and who you can trust. One of those women is the woman meant for you to be your wife someday.

Oh, and here's another tip: never date someone you could never see yourself possibly marrying. this'll help you determine the kind of girl you DO want to marry.

[InfinatyBPS]

Originally posted by Sir_Brass


Well, here's a tip: inspire her to hold off on sex till she gets married. I can't rattle off all the reasons why this is a better idea, but the number 1 is that statistically (and she better not say she's an exception), the VAST majority of people who did not have premarital sex had a MUCH happier marriage and a vastly more enjoyable sex life than with those who lost their virginity before marriage.

just a thought

We have this little joke going, I said "What the hell would you do if you found out you were supposed to be the new virgin mary?" and she says, "Oh ****, I ****ed up... alot." So ya, too late, sorry But I did inspire her to "stop being a ho" She realized that she shouldn't just be putting out for any guy that walks along, she wants to only do it with guys who she really cares about. And we are pretty much as close as friends can get(mabe we will get even closer now that we are together), its weird, we've only known eachother scince like the beggining of the school year, but I'm closer to her than I've ever been with anyone else, and the great thing is she feels the same way about me. So ya, if I stay with her, looks like I'm gonna be a virgin for another year, but its all good. Gives me something to look forward to.

[-Carnifex-]

Originally posted by Sir_Brass


Well, here's a tip: inspire her to hold off on sex till she gets married. I can't rattle off all the reasons why this is a better idea, but the number 1 is that statistically (and she better not say she's an exception), the VAST majority of people who did not have premarital sex had a MUCH happier marriage and a vastly more enjoyable sex life than with those who lost their virginity before marriage.

just a thought

There are so many variables it would be intensely ignorant to say people are less happy because they didn't wait.

[Sooky]

Originally posted by Sir_Brass
statistically (and she better not say she's an exception), the VAST majority of people who did not have premarital sex had a MUCH happier marriage and a vastly more enjoyable sex life than with those who lost their virginity before marriage.

Yes, I have a reallyhard time believing that too. I would think having variety would be quite pleasureable.

I have read that those who wait till marriage have a lower divorce rate than those who do not. However, its most likely that those who do wait are more religious than those who don't, and are less open to divorce than others.

[Sooky]

Originally posted by InfinatyBPS
So ya, if I stay with her, looks like I'm gonna be a virgin for another year, but its all good. Gives me something to look forward to.

And yet your user name is "Large Throbbing Member"? LOL Maybe it should be Blue- nevermind...

[InfinatyBPS]

Lol, don't tell anyone but im cheating on her... with palmela haderson