Well, one day she got angry at me because she was here (in my dorm) and my father called. I was on the phone with him for about 10-15 minutes, I guess it was a little rude, but then again she just showed up without telling me she was comming. Anyway, she was threatening to cheat on me with some guy she knew. I convinced her into not leaving. Then she got angry at me again because she didn't like my roomate who came back. So after she informed me she was going to cheat on me she went back to her campus (not very far from here). I called her cellphone, pleading with her. She just kept verbally abusing me saying what she could to upset me and make me feel even more horrible.
I will take a break here to point somthing out here. She frequently threatend suicide if I did somthing to upset her. I knew that she wasn't serious, and she knew that I knew she wasn't serious. Despite this her threatening this as a result of somthing I did nomatter how stupid it was or nomatter how much is wasn't my fault got me very upset.
Anyway, I decided it made me feel horrible, it must make her feel horrible to. This wasn't the first time I had done it. I had started doing it back to her about a month before the "incedent" (we went out for almost 2 years). So I told her I was going to kill myself because she was threatening to cheat on me. Now I know for a fact she knew damn well I wasn't serious (I wasn't, and she even admits to it now).
So what does she do, phone call to the police that I was threatening suicide, and claim that I beat her on a regular basis (complete lie, I never touched her although she was physically abusive to me).
She convinced me to come over to her dorm which I did, there were about three security guards waiting at the door which was odd but I thought nothing of it. Then the RD came over to talk to me before I got to her room telling me how I shouldn't kill myself and demanding my car keys, he grabbed me trying to take them, and I pushed him onto the ground. After about five minutes of talking to her the police showed up. They proceded to take me to the emergency room for a mental evaluation. I told them my story and they let me go. The RD guy is now threatening to take action because I pushed him (although he was a care theif assaulting me for all I knew, so I don't think he has anything on those grounds). They let me go from the hospital, she didn't get in any trouble as she should have lieing to the police to get someone in trouble she should be sitting in jail right now for that. Humiliating me, causeing me to fail the test the next day. Anyway what really gets me now is the extreemly bill I recieved from the hospital for $1751.87. No way in heck i'm paying that, i'm talking to my uncle right now who is a lawyer to see if I can make the PD pay for it since they forced me to go although I said I did not want any medical treatment, or if I would be better off taking her to small claims.
This was a few weeks ago. Anyway right now i'm dateing this girl I met in one of my classes, and she is showing me how horrible that relationship I had before was. It was great for about the first year after that it just started to fall apart. I only wish that this one goes better for me. Atleast now I know when the heck to get out before somthing really bad happens.
I dunno why i'm posting this, like anyone will actually think anything of it besides comming to the conclusion that i'm some sort of freak. But I really have noone to talk to, my new girlfrined wouldn't want to hear about my X, my friends I just woulnd't hear the end of it. Although i'm not sure I will here the end of it either. I guess i'm just drunk enough tonight that I realize how much not saying anything is killing me and that I need to get it out somwhere.
I will take a break here to point somthing out here. She frequently threatend suicide if I did somthing to upset her. I knew that she wasn't serious, and she knew that I knew she wasn't serious. Despite this her threatening this as a result of somthing I did nomatter how stupid it was or nomatter how much is wasn't my fault got me very upset.
Anyway, I decided it made me feel horrible, it must make her feel horrible to. This wasn't the first time I had done it. I had started doing it back to her about a month before the "incedent" (we went out for almost 2 years). So I told her I was going to kill myself because she was threatening to cheat on me. Now I know for a fact she knew damn well I wasn't serious (I wasn't, and she even admits to it now).
So what does she do, phone call to the police that I was threatening suicide, and claim that I beat her on a regular basis (complete lie, I never touched her although she was physically abusive to me).
She convinced me to come over to her dorm which I did, there were about three security guards waiting at the door which was odd but I thought nothing of it. Then the RD came over to talk to me before I got to her room telling me how I shouldn't kill myself and demanding my car keys, he grabbed me trying to take them, and I pushed him onto the ground. After about five minutes of talking to her the police showed up. They proceded to take me to the emergency room for a mental evaluation. I told them my story and they let me go. The RD guy is now threatening to take action because I pushed him (although he was a care theif assaulting me for all I knew, so I don't think he has anything on those grounds). They let me go from the hospital, she didn't get in any trouble as she should have lieing to the police to get someone in trouble she should be sitting in jail right now for that. Humiliating me, causeing me to fail the test the next day. Anyway what really gets me now is the extreemly bill I recieved from the hospital for $1751.87. No way in heck i'm paying that, i'm talking to my uncle right now who is a lawyer to see if I can make the PD pay for it since they forced me to go although I said I did not want any medical treatment, or if I would be better off taking her to small claims.
This was a few weeks ago. Anyway right now i'm dateing this girl I met in one of my classes, and she is showing me how horrible that relationship I had before was. It was great for about the first year after that it just started to fall apart. I only wish that this one goes better for me. Atleast now I know when the heck to get out before somthing really bad happens.
I dunno why i'm posting this, like anyone will actually think anything of it besides comming to the conclusion that i'm some sort of freak. But I really have noone to talk to, my new girlfrined wouldn't want to hear about my X, my friends I just woulnd't hear the end of it. Although i'm not sure I will here the end of it either. I guess i'm just drunk enough tonight that I realize how much not saying anything is killing me and that I need to get it out somwhere.
no one should go through that
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