fighting trouble

[1stdeadeye]

Okay, time for some adult advice.

Fighting never solves or proves anything. Any guy can look like a tough guy beating up someone smaller then him. Walking into a situation where you may be harmed is idiotic.

My advice is to not show and ignore him. Let your parents knwo who may in turn inform the school. With the zero tolerance policies in place for violence and bullying nowadays, maybe a 1 or 2 day time out is what he needs.

Now you did bring this grief upon yourself. I would not see that young lady again until you are sure she is single. You "hooked up" with her? What do you mean? When I was in high school and College, that meant sex. Are you talking just about kissing? If so, it is definitely not wirth a fight.

Again, the first thing you need to do is inform your parents and someone at the school. I am going to give you the same advice I give to my friends when they get extremely angry at someone: "5 years from now when you are off in college/life, is it really going to matter to you what this goof/moron/bully who is now working at the quikiemart thinks of you?"

Don't do it!

[magking1971]

All of this over a girl?
You will learn that it is not worth it in the long run.
You do need to learn not to mess with a girl when she has a BF, always make sure she is SINGLE!
She does sound like a girl that keeps a BF around untill she finds something better, not worth the pounding you will receve.
For all you know you might go and fight, then next week she will find another guy and go with him.
We gave you advice now learn from it.

[GhillieGuy]

And let us know what happens!

[MagMan5446]

Ooh yeah I didn't even look at the fact that you're fighting over a girl. Thats dumb, you shouldn't have time for dumb hoes. Girls ain't worth it.

[sharpshooter1286]

hey guys, i just got back. we didnt fight...i used big words and "fancy talk" to persuade him not to. he didnt even understand that we just kissed like once.
if theres one thing i learned from this, its dont make retarted mistakes that put me into situations like this. i wont be able to talk my way out of it every time.
now, im going to have fun at my christmas eve party.

thanks for the advice, and merry christmas

[magking1971]

Grats on not fighting!!
Fighting should be the last thing you could do.
Now you are the bigger man for not doing it.

[GhillieGuy]

i hope you can sleep at night jk

[PyRo]

Hmm, bring a friend with a video camera. Have him hide in a bush, let the guy beat the hell out of you.
Then laugh at him when he is in jail with a lawsuit shoved in his butt

[laxkid]

pyro had a good Iea but I dont like just getting the crap kicked outa me what I try to do is make the kid think I am crazy there used to be this one kid in like 5th grade that used to beat me up for no reason except for him feeling insecure and in 8th grade I was really tall and he didnt grow that much and he thought he could still mess around with me he was wrong and any way your fight was over a stupid girl and always weigh the pros and cons of fighting I mean the cons are usually higher and you shouldnt fight and it was a girl one time both of you should be slapped you for kissing the girl and him for picking the fight with a smaller kid over a girl you both should have learned one lesson atleast FIGHTING ISN'T THE ANSWER that is the lesson

[Sir_Brass]

Originally posted by 1stdeadeye
Okay, time for some adult advice.

Fighting never solves or proves anything. Any guy can look like a tough guy beating up someone smaller then him. Walking into a situation where you may be harmed is idiotic.

My advice is to not show and ignore him. Let your parents knwo who may in turn inform the school. With the zero tolerance policies in place for violence and bullying nowadays, maybe a 1 or 2 day time out is what he needs.

Now you did bring this grief upon yourself. I would not see that young lady again until you are sure she is single. You "hooked up" with her? What do you mean? When I was in high school and College, that meant sex. Are you talking just about kissing? If so, it is definitely not wirth a fight.

Again, the first thing you need to do is inform your parents and someone at the school. I am going to give you the same advice I give to my friends when they get extremely angry at someone: "5 years from now when you are off in college/life, is it really going to matter to you what this goof/moron/bully who is now working at the quikiemart thinks of you?"

Don't do it!

Normally I'd agree, but he brought it on himself by doing something rather dishonorable, and that was to hook up with a girl while she was dating another guy. I don't CARE how much of a sleeze he is, one does NOT hook up with a girl while she's still dating another guy.

He needs to learn an object lesson, it looks like. One that will make him remember to never do that again.

It's true, fighting usually never solves anything, but it certainly teaches the loser a good lesson.

[sharpshooter1286]

for all your information, it was more her kissing me...then she stopped and was like UH OH..then she was the one who told him...he has cheated on her alot, but that still doesnt make what i did alright. im not sure this is "rather dishonorable" more of a "ur an idiot, that was kinda dishonorable" i only kissed her once for less then a second, that doesn't make me a bad person whose going to hell...it makes me an idiot that lied. im actually going to confession...my school has it so i figure why not?


EDIT-BAD NEWS, this moron figured out that he did not fight me, now he wants to again. honestly, he forgot that yesterday was christmas eve...then he forgot that he didn't beat me up? whats the IQ for mental retardation again? because i swear this guys is below the number for room temperature...