AO: We are back from the dead... again! After an 18 day outage, we are finally alive and well. Who knew how complicated updating software/databases from 2008 would be. I still have alot of tweaks to make, but my main goal was getting everything patched and updated to 2026.
Vbulletin 6 has changed alot since 2008 so we will have a ton of new features to dig into.
AO, I have some bad news. This morning at 12:30am, Darren took a turn for the worse. He had major seizures, and was coughing up blood. Apparently he had some internal bleeding that couldnt be helped due to his weekened state. His life support and drugs were shut off this afternoon, and he passed peacefully with his wife by his side.
I believe things happen for a reason, while his passing might not have a reason at this moment, I have no doubt that he will be there to show me and his famliy why life is precious. I just found out a little something today, his baby wasn't due till next week. Yet, when it came time to deliver the baby, he just smiled and said "today is a good day to have a baby!" He went to the hospital helped deliver the baby, had a beautiful day with hic baby Connor Darren, and his wife, even though he was very sick the day before and the day after the birth. Coincidence? I think not. Like I said before, his baby wasn't due till next week, and yet Connor came early... Why? Things happen for a reason. This is proof, I believe it with all my heart.
I thank you for your kind words and thoughts in this time of loss. I am still going to try to raise something for his wife and new baby. With Darren gone, she will need all the support she can possibly get. I don't want to sound like someone begging for money, but I really think we could help this young family. Please help if you can, if no, then please say a prayer or think a kind thought of this family in thier time of great sorrow.
Damn man, I know how you feel. I had a friend die a few months ago, after battling cancer for 3 years...
So I've got a pair of brand new silver/black fade Frymark Emag grips, start the bidding at $30. PM me if you want them and if/when they sell I will contact CMayhem to find out how to send the money to him.
Dang i feel for you jeremy. Tell his wife good luck and get us some pics of the baby. its real nice he held out for the baby. He sounds like he was a great guy. im sorry i never got to meet him. i hope all is well for his wife and connor if hes anything like his dad sounded like he was im sure he will be a great kid and when hes old enough to play bring him to an AO event. im really proud to be on ao man guys are bein so nice makes me happy bein part of this family.
I pray thee to watch over the family that Darren had to leave in this time that was to be joyous. I pray you give his wife and child the strength, courage, and understanding to overcome their emotional burdens,hardships and grievances. Please stand by to watch over them, comfort them, and show them that Darren didn't "leave" he just grew wings, and in fact he's going to watch over them for the rest of their lives.
Please take care of Darren's wife, give her the opportunities and resources that she'll need to take care of little Connor, and herself. Love them, and take them under your arm, shelter them from this hardship which has come upon them. In your name I pray, Amen
Jeremy,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss, it's hard to lose a friend, but like you said, everything happens for a reason. No one knows when it's their time, but when your clock hits that point... it's time to go. You know he's in a better place, free of all his ailments and pains. Be thankful for the good times, and possibly the bad times you had. Remember him as he was.. not as he is. You know my number, and I'm a shoulder to lean on if you need it. Take care of yourself, God will take care of Darren and his mother (never got the name)
CM I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and I am also for his wife and family. If there is anything at all I am here, always.
I would like to put up for auction 2 original drawings of Clare. Each will be signed, framed in a box frame, and issued a certificate of authenticity. I will mail them out from here. I also placed them on my site and any bids I recieve through email I will put here.
I also have a batch around 30 sale grips that you can have that I will place up on the charity page of my site. Once all are sold I will give you the proceeds.
Jermey, I'm so sorry for just now reading this, my strengh goes out to you and the ones involved, if you ever need a friend to talk to, you know I'm here for you man.
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