hot women (how do they always know)

[MantisMag]

LMAO! oh my god. this is funny. nobody who knows me say anything. oh the joys of not being in any pictures on AO. hahahaha.

"something being free is like a chick being hot. it's not everything but you can forgive a lot for it." -me in an AIM conversation with mango

are we REALLY confused yet?

[Miscue]

Being a jerkball is interpreted as strength, dominance, power - an alpha male... and can substitute for actual power or wealth. Biological switches in a girl's brain pick up these features, and they find this desirable. The chief is the one who can best provide, and protect - this is the guy they want. Most girls are too dumb to be able to turn off these biological switches... much like how most guys get really stupid when they see a girl with large bazookas. And the pretty one's are almost guaranteed to be dumb (even if they had the potential to be smart) because they figure out at an early age that being pretty will get them way further than using their brain - thus they have no need to develop it. This is why the ugly girls have the personality, you see.

Being a rat bastard is to a girl, what boobs are to a guy. Girls say they want a nice guy. guys say they want a girl with personality. Translation: Girls want jerkfaces, guys want honkers.

They go for the nice guy after they experience being treated like dirt, taken advantage of, or beaten repeatedly. And then, they take out their aggression on this guy cuz he'll let her - he is easy to manipulate and control because he cares too much. A reversal in roles.

[Sooky]

You sound bitter.

[Miscue]

Originally posted by Sooky
You sound bitter.

I've earned the right.

[Sooky]

Originally posted by Miscue


I've earned the right.

Care to elaborate?

[Chojin Man]

Originally posted by MantisMag
LMAO! oh my god. this is funny. nobody who knows me say anything. oh the joys of not being in any pictures on AO. hahahaha.

"something being free is like a chick being hot. it's not everything but you can forgive a lot for it." -me in an AIM conversation with mango

are we REALLY confused yet?

Ya that doesn't really help me figure it out either. I'll just ask Mango.

[breg]

Wow, this got ugly real fast.

I've seen both sides of the argument, and some wound up happy. Most did not.

I was in a relationship with a lovely young female than is still ending badly... four years after we broke up.

In a nut shell, she is not too bright, hypocritical (sp?), two faced, and dense.

I put up with a lot during that million day year. She got on me about everything I did. My fault is that I am as stubborn as a mule. She would try to dress me: She thought that my jeans and t-shirt style of ward robe was horrible, and pulled out a JC Penny's catalogue. She told me to quit smoking then asked me for a cigarette, almost in the same breath. She got made at me for drinking the way I do, but would get trashed all the time.
The final straw was after I got to my duty station, and my bank card got shut off (they did not have my address, and there for shut my card down until I got them my address.) So, I had no money for food (my entire squadron had BAS at the time),; let alone pens and paper to write her or a phone card to call her. I called my mom collect about three days later, and she told me that my grandparents had put some minutes on my phone card, and I was all aflutter with the idea that I could talk to her again. Well, I called her. The first words out of her mouth were not of concern, They were of a tone that conveyed annoyance that I had not called her for 4 days. She then chewed me up one side and down the other about how I never listen to her, that I was not paying her any attention, etc. This went on for about an hour, not something you want to hear from you first love, and finally when I was about to tear the pay phone from the wall, I told her that I had to go. That was the last I spoke to her for about three months. I was so mad at her that I could not speak to her. That is the only sure fire way to tell that I am mad, I won't talk to you.
She, on the other hand: cheated on me once that she admitted to, told me that everything about me was worng, mannipulated everything that I said, and generally made life more unbearable than it already was.
Some where along this whole train wreck she got my phone number, and began calling me. I didn't mind this too much execpt for the fact that she would call me literally 9 times a night when I was not home. When she did call, she would chew me out for never being home (I went out to the movies a lot with friends on Fridays). I was also having tourbles with insominia at the time. She would call me and tell me that I could not sleep because I wanted her back and could not have her. Or that the migraines I got along with the insomina, were because I could not have her back. Let me tell you that not sleeping makes the world surreal enough, but putting up with that makes me wonder why anyone would need hallucinogens.
Finally after about two years, she realizes that I don't want her back.
I still can't understand what cranial trauma induced me to ever go out with her in the first place. For example, she calls me one night and tells me that her then current boyfriend broke up with her because she went to another ex's birthday party and stripped down to her thong for him, and couldn't understand why! She kept saying that she was honest and told him about afterward. Or while we were dating would say, "I love you," and then ask why I loved her when I said, "I love you too." Try doing that everyday, and retaining some small measure of sanity.
She still calls me once in a while. I guess that she got engaged to the guy who got her pregnant (NOT me).
All I ever did was treat her like gold, and I'm still paying for it.
There have been good relationships that have that ended on good trems and we still get along today. We broke up because I did not want to get married at the time and she really wanted to get married. We talked for a long time the night we broke up and I told her that if I could not give her what she needed in a relationship, then she should find some one who could. She's one of my best friends to this day.

All in all, there is a W.C. Fields quote that I live by: "My only regret is not sending a thank you letter to the woman who drove me to drink..."

[Mango]

blah blah blah blah blah



Everyone has so much to say about this, here is a thought: GO OUT AND FRIGGEN DATE!


Date as often as you can. Go on two sometimes 3 dates in one day if you can. It's fun and exciting, its like a social rollercoaster!! Or it could be a trainwreck. At any rate you get to learn what kind of person you are because there is no time to try to put on a facade. Just be yourself, don't try to be something your not because everyone will see right through it.

[Paladin]

"If ya want to be happy for the rest of your life, just make an ugly woman your wife".

From an old song, probably too old for most here to have ever heard.

[paint magnet]

Some interesting quotes on the subject:

"Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder"

"Beauty is only a light switch away"

"But my teacher says that 'real beauty is on the inside'!" "No, son, that's just something ugly people say to make themselves feel better." - from the movie Liar Liar

[Miscue]

"A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind"

That song is great. I have it on CD somewhere.

[badinfo]

Originally posted by Emily


Guys, I can tell you want a girl wants. She wants to be treated right, she wants to be loved and feel loved. GIRLS NOT DO WANT AN A-HOLE.

Emily, from my experience I would have to disagree. Most recent case in point is a girl I went out with several times that I was deeply infatuated with, treated her like a perfect gentleman, we talked about books and travel and all the things we shared as interests, let her cry on my shoulder over her previous boyfriend who was not very intelligent, and cheated on her with pictures of him in the act, which were sent to her by the other woman....we went out for a few weeks then I got the old line "you're a REALLY nice guy............but"
She went back to the wanker who cheated on her.......

I know its been here before but .....www.laddertheory.com

[1stdeadeye]

Originally posted by Emily


Some would say yes some could say no. Ask Enigma and he's say yes.

He better, he is your hubby!

Great reference Miscue! That is a funny old song!

As for Red Zone: She was probably just bored and had nothing better to do then mess with your head!

[Emily]

Originally posted by badinfo


Emily, from my experience I would have to disagree. Most recent case in point is a girl I went out with several times that I was deeply infatuated with, treated her like a perfect gentleman, we talked about books and travel and all the things we shared as interests, let her cry on my shoulder over her previous boyfriend who was not very intelligent, and cheated on her with pictures of him in the act, which were sent to her by the other woman....we went out for a few weeks then I got the old line "you're a REALLY nice guy............but"
She went back to the wanker who cheated on her.......

I know its been here before but .....www.laddertheory.com

Most girls want that, not all. There are some out there that have to have drama in their lives.

From your recent experience, she was not ready for a new relationship. She just go out of one that was bad and needed time to get over him.

[Emily]

Originally posted by 1stdeadeye


He better, he is your hubby!

ROFL we aren't married yet but you can still call him my hubby the only difference is we don't have that piece of paper. We do however live in 2 different states but heck we see each other so much it's like he just works out of town.