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[1stdeadeye]

Originally posted by Emily


ROFL we aren't married yet but you can still call him my hubby the only difference is we don't have that piece of paper. We do however live in 2 different states but heck we see each other so much it's like he just works out of town.

Well Hubby sounds so much nicer then Special Friend with Privlages!

Hey I like Enigma. At AO SC he regalled Newt and I with some real cool training stories from his military time. We used them against CollegeBoy!

[Enigma4you]

SO confused

Girls are evil, they cant help it. It goes all the way back to the Adma and Eve thing. She ate the apple and Adma took the rap and tried to cover for her. Had Adam said yep God she did it I hate it but shes gotta go all he would have lost was another rib, but nooooooooooooooo he had to try and stand up for his mate and look what happened?? All the evil in the world is due to a Teenage Girl. Now they do grow out of it...I see these 15 16 17 year old girls walking around like they are Gods gift and getting all the boys at or near the same age all worked up but they do grow out of it fopr the most part, Like we men grow out of wanting to run climb trees playing games that could hurt another person..ummm well the girls grow out of it anyway.

Its like this, be yourself and you willl find someone that likes you for yourself and that you like for who they are. Then you grow together. It wont matter if they are hot or not becuase in your eyes they will be what you were looking for. Love is blind lust is not unless it involved a six pack

Peace

[Emily]

Originally posted by 1stdeadeye


Well Hubby sounds so much nicer then Special Friend with Privlages!

Hey I like Enigma. At AO SC he regalled Newt and I with some real cool training stories from his military time. We used them against CollegeBoy!

I remember that

[Butterfingers]

Originally posted by Emily


Most girls want that, not all. There are some out there that have to have drama in their lives.

From your recent experience, she was not ready for a new relationship. She just go out of one that was bad and needed time to get over him.

Its not that she wasent ready... if she wasent ready she would be alone not with the wanker that cheated on her.

I can tell you most girls SAY they want that but they dont RESPOND to it. What girls say they want and what they RESPOND to are 2 diffrent things.

Alot of guys are too quick to cater to women because thats what they are told that they like... WELL OF COURSE THEY LIKE IT!!! When they are done with you like a favorite toy they stash you away and move to another adventure.

Your not there to be daddy she already has one. You are there to be a person that she loves and RESPECTS and by catering to her every whim and desire shell get bored for you before you know it. She will loose intrest and ultimately respect.

In order for her to love you she MUST RESPECT YOU!!!! This means having a backbone and not to be afraid to stand up to her when you honestly have an opinion. Also not waiting on her hand and foot like some sort of mindless slave...

I mean how boring would it be if you acted like a robot and gave her what she wanted all the time. She would love it of course but she isnt stimulated by it. She quickly looses intrest in a person who isnt a challange that dosent have his own opinions...

[Emily]

You didn't read what I wrote. She needed time to get over him, not go into a new relations. It was obivous that she wans't over him since bandifo let her cry on his shoulder and then she went back to him.

Of course you need to be yourself in the relationship or it won't matter in the end casue the relastionship won't last.

[Butterfingers]

Well,

The way I see it

The EX stimulated her more than he did...

You mean to tell me If you were dating brad pitt you wouldent get over that loser that cheated on you.

Not being ready to move on only means that the new guy is more of a loser than the old guy.

[Morally0Confused]

a lil joke no one kill me for it

Adam is walking around kind of lonely and he prays to god, "hey god life is good but im a little lonely down here". God tells Adam ,"I will make you a woman" Adam ask, "what is a woman". God then tells Adam "Woman will be the most beutiful thing you have ever seen, she will always cook for you, clean for you, never argue with you and do everything you say" God pauses for a min then adds, "but it will cost you 1 leg, 1 arm, 4 ribs, and a lunch". Adam thinks for a bit and then ask " hey god what can i get for a rib".
And Thus Woman was Made

[Enigma4you]

Yea she is hot...
MILF
Her oldest son is gonna have problems in a few years with his friends going Dude your mom is so Hot...


I cant get the signature thing to work, I wnat so bad to be cool...

[Emily]

Originally posted by Butterfingers
Well,

The way I see it

The EX stimulated her more than he did...

You mean to tell me If you were dating brad pitt you wouldent get over that loser that cheated on you.

Not being ready to move on only means that the new guy is more of a loser than the old guy.

another person is not going to make you get over the old love. It dont work that way. You have feeling and have to deal with them and learn how to live without that person in your life reguardless of what happened in the relationship.

As far as Brad Pitt or any other person goes, they would not get me over anyone. I have learned in my life that it is up to me to "save" me from whatever has happened in my life.

[Emily]

Originally posted by Enigma4you
Yea she is hot...
MILF
Her oldest son is gonna have problems in a few years with his friends going Dude your mom is so Hot...


I cant get the signature thing to work, I wnat so bad to be cool...

MILF...OMG LMAO

[Butterfingers]

He cheated on her she CHOSE to leave... Didnt find anything better went back. If she was in love she wouldent be looking for anybody else PERIOD.

Its gonna be a vicious cycle. The dude is gonna know he can get away with cheating and shes gonna get upset again and shes either gonna find another loser or shes gonna find sombody that she can respect.

I don't like to see it happen but it happens every day. Relationships are all about respect FIRST respect for YOURSELF. Then respect for your partner.

In the afformentioned case its a loose loose situation. They have enabled each other to disrespct. Its just gonna get worse from there.

Thats the way I see it... I know reality has a way of kicking people in the arse but if you dont beleive in reality things tend to work against us.

[Emily]

Originally posted by Butterfingers
He cheated on her she CHOSE to leave... Didnt find anything better went back. If she was in love she wouldent be looking for anybody else PERIOD.

Its gonna be a vicious cycle. The dude is gonna know he can get away with cheating and shes gonna get upset again and shes either gonna find another loser or shes gonna find sombody that she can respect.

I don't like to see it happen but it happens every day. Relationships are all about respect FIRST respect for YOURSELF. Then respect for your partner.

In the afformentioned case its a loose loose situation. They have enabled each other to disrespct. Its just gonna get worse from there.

Thats the way I see it... I know reality has a way of kicking people in the arse but if you dont beleive in reality things tend to work against us.

yes she choose to leave but FINDING anyone better isn't the point. It dont work that way in real life. You choose to leave/break up with someone for whatever reason but being with a new person doesn't have anything to do with going back or not. She was NOT over this guy to begin with. You're not reading what I'm saying. There is NO way you can make a relationship work if you still ahve feeling for another person. Any time a relationship ends you need time to heal. You can't be in a healthy relationship if your not healty to begin with.

[Butterfingers]

I know we differ in opinion. I can understand what you are saying I just don't agree with it. However I still respect your input.

Society has a way of making love seem mystical and illogical. Thats just a myth.

Love is VERY easy to understand if you put egos aside and start looking at actions and not thought.

Men and women like to rationalize breakups and you can come up with a million reasons why sombody breaks up with you. But it doesnt matter it STILL happened.

We all gotta stop making excuses and trying to rationalize why things happened. This is the BOTTOM LINE.

Lets take this situation for example:

Oh she broke up with me... she must not be ready to move on. Well jee golly wiz how do we know that's the case? We dont... She could have broke up with you cause her dog died and she made a satanic promise to her deceased poodle that she would never see another man again.

Lets Bottom line this situation...

First we look at her actions:

She Broke up with me...

Then instead of MILKING you ego you tell yourself the truth.

The Bottom Line: She broke up with me because he wasnt intrested or was less intrested in me that she was her ex.

We dont look at the why we look at the WHAT.

Makes things easier to understand.

[Emily]

Originally posted by Butterfingers
I know we differ in opinion. I can understand what you are saying I just don't agree with it. However I still respect your input.

Society has a way of making love seem mystical and illogical. Thats just a myth.

Love is VERY easy to understand if you put egos aside and start looking at actions and not thought.

Men and women like to rationalize breakups and you can come up with a million reasons why sombody breaks up with you. But it doesnt matter it STILL happened.

We all gotta stop making excuses and trying to rationalize why things happened. This is the BOTTOM LINE.

Lets take this situation for example:

Oh she broke up with me... she must not be ready to move on. Well jee golly wiz how do we know that's the case? We dont... She could have broke up with you cause her dog died and she made a satanic promise to her deceased poodle that she would never see another man again.

Lets Bottom line this situation...

First we look at her actions:

She Broke up with me...

Then instead of MILKING you ego you tell yourself the truth.

The Bottom Line: She broke up with me because he wasnt intrested or was less intrested in me that she was her ex.

We dont look at the why we look at the WHAT.

Makes things easier to understand.

We do differ in opinion but I think we are thinking the same thing but we are going at it in two different way.

All I'm trying to say is another person can't make your feeling go away nor can they fix you. The older you get the more your eyes open up. I agree with what you're saying but i dont think she was ready for a new relationship. I'm sorry the guy in this got hurt. But if she is crying over the ex, that is a tell tell sign that she's not over him and you just might get hurt.

Look at the person's action and listen to them, not how they look only. You can figure out a person in a matter of minutes if you listen and watch them.

[badinfo]

Hey thanks Butterfingers, but I'd like to think Im not a loser lmao. I guess with her I was, my mistake. I treated her textbook, the way most women say they want to be treated. Took her to to fancy dinners, cooked for her myself, bought little presents to show I was thinking of her, opened doors, was willing to talk openly and all the other stuff that gets me the "really nice guy" award. I aint Brad Pitt, but Im not ugly either and have a brain, my own hair, manners and am generally considered a rather jovial fellow. She went back to the guy with the bald spot, highschool education and proven infidelity that makes fun of her love for books.....go figure

Found this while looking for a good quote lol.
"'m nineteen and have had three more serious boyfriends. The first was nice for about two weeks and then beat me up. The last was nice but completely oblivious to relationships and quite self-centered. The second one, however, was truly a nice guy.

The point I want to make is that I know nice guys really finish FIRST because the only guy I am still friends with is the truly nice one. Though we aren't romantically involved at the moment, we are best friends........Really nice guys seem way too few and far between and when I find one I'm going to hold on to him."

She had one, and played the friends card on him.........