Advice from strangers please

[MagMan5446]

what the hells wrong with sizzler??

[RevBrown]

OK so Mexican food worked. (She speaks Spanish fluently)
The Ol' Rev got himself a second date.

I used every question that Renegade proposed


And the kicker this girl has played paintball and likes air hockey



It's time for............................................

[lord1234]

no taking her home on first date? or does the banana signify otherwise?

[RenagadeOfFunk]

OK so Mexican food worked. (She speaks Spanish fluently)
The Ol' Rev got himself a second date.

I used every question that Renegade proposed


And the kicker this girl has played paintball and likes air hockey

...It's all in a day's work...

...I am glad to help...

(PS)
...Do i see a few paintball game dates in the future?...

...

...only if she asks to...because depending on where you go the atmosphere is not too mice/I don't think you wants too many welts on your date...

-Master Renegade

[RevBrown]

no taking her home on first date? or does the banana signify otherwise?

No the bannana signifies that there could be a paintball date in the future. She did smoke my *** at airhockey though.


They treat new girls out at our field real nice. They hook em up with the better players and he coaches them until they welt up the guy that brought them so I am not to concerned.

[Hasty8]

Some flowers wouldn't hurt.

Something simple, not too extravagant. A small bundle of pink roses would be good.

I always try to get the door, but don't do the chair as often.

Don't forget a bottle of wine. Helps get the juices going.

EDIT: I see that you're from MT. Sorry to heat that. AHAHAHHAHAHAHA

Back when I had a social life this is waht I did in the way of flowers. No roses as they are so typical. Lillies of the Valley are nice. Get three. Only three with soe angel breath and other small fillers. Nothing to big.

When she ask why three you tell her "One is for you, one is for me and one is for our future."

Yeah, it's corny as hell but it works on a few levels. First, it shows creativity. Second you said "our future" which instills the idea that you are not the typical commitment-phobe that most men are.

The other thing to try and do is to break the "physical barrier" as soon as possible. No, not sex in the backseat!

I mean actual physical contact. Again, I would try to do this quickly, usually before the date ever even started. Try helping her into the car by holding your hand out to assist her though this is a bit out dated.

If you go to a restaurant make the reservation for about a 1/2 hour later than you told her and spend the time sitting at the bar. Here is a perfect trick to get her hands in yours.

Without her seeing, rub one of your middle finders in an ashtray and get some soot on it. Then casually ask her if she likes magic. This is a loaded question as everyone loves magic so unless she is a total stick in the mud she'll say yes. When she says yes hold out your hands and ask for her hands. As soon as she puts her hands in your rub some of the ash onto the inside of her palm. Once that is done take your clean hand, rub a finger in the ashes agains and this time put it on the back of the hand that has the ash you snuck there just a second ago. Tell her that you are now going to make the asj jump to the back of her other hand. Wave your hands over the ash, make some magic words and frown. And comment on how it didn't work. Carefully turn both her hands over and then give out a proud ah! and point to the ash that has miracuously (ack) appeared on the inside palm of her hand.

Again, corny, but it demonstrates a few things to her. First, it again shows that you are creative and that you are willing to go the extra mile to impress her. Second, it shows that you have a good sense of humor. Thrid you not only broke that pesky physical barrier but you were also able to touch and stroke her palsm which is a very erogenous area on most people, including men.

[dave_p]

ive been married 10 years. here is my advice:
avoid all the "careful stuff" that goes with early dating. just be completely yourself and let it hang out. it will all come out eventually anyway so avoid the surprises and possible later conflict. it sounds cynical but is actually pragmatic. be true to yourself first.