When it rains, it pours...

[InfinatyBPS]

Wow, this is just a great week for me. First off, I get a girlfriend, I make out with her today for the first time and shes all in gaga land because shes with me and we did that. I got that one girl julie(the girl who everyone said liked me) asking me out to the movies because she says, "I miss you, we don't hang out that much anymore." and my ex Anna, saying how much she wishes I would hold her as we watch the fireworks at the fair, and how she almost cried when she seen me again. So I got my girlfriend out of town for the weekend, a date with julie tommarow. And a date with Anna on sunday. And wow, its like as soon as they know im unavailable, they like start getting interested and ****. It's weird. I know I probably should have turned them down... but I have self controle. I trust myself...kinda... You guys think im like getting myself in deep? Julie and Anna know about eachother, but my gf dosen't know about either... Should I be scared, its all innocent, isn't it? But anyways, I just wanted to share my newfound pimphood with you guys...(i have the right to be cocky after 17 years of not having a girlfriend)

[xmetal2001]

The whole thing is gonna backfire and were gonna get a whole new slew of "I can't get girlfriend" posts from you.

[Warewolf50]

The whole thing is gonna backfire and were gonna get a whole new slew of "I can't get girlfriend" posts from you.

Agreed, this is gona be the backfire of all backfires. I was even smartenough to not try to date 2 dif girsl at teh same time, evne though one was a senior and one was a sophmore, and i am a junior. Funny thing was both of their names was kristin.


btw, i picked the sophmore, and it has worked so far.

Dude u are making a mistake and getitng in way over your head. And u say u have 17 years without a gf yet an X wants to get back togeather. Uhhhh are u 17 or are u talking bout an x from 17 years ago.

[InfinatyBPS]

ok i didn't have a girlfriend until i was 17... actually 16 and 5/6th... so im a late bloomer u could say.

[ryanshep]

i say go for it, just dont go blaming me when it backfires

[xmetal2001]

I never said don't do it...it'll make for some entertaining reading on AO

[Warewolf50]

I never said don't do it...it'll make for some entertaining reading on AO

Dont listen to him he treid to convince me to try the whole date two girls thing, but it woudl make for some good reading, u know what Go for it.

[Trick]

Wow, just... wow. You must like being miserable and complaining, because that's where this is gonna get you. Word gets around, man, and posting this kinda crap on the net is just that many more people that know.

Stop shooting yourself in the foot. Kids these days...

[Steelrat]

Danger, Wil Robinson, Danger!

Dude, you are setting yourself up for a world of hurt. I remember that whole long series of posts about your girlfriend seeing other guys, and now you are doing the exact same thing to your current girlfriend. You should respect the feelings of others. If you want to see the other women, either make sure your girlfriend knows about it, or leave her for a different girlfriend, but don't run around behind her back.

And again, it sounds like you are placing way too much emphasis on your relationship issues. Take this from someone who is older and has learned the hard way what NOT to do.

[Linkwarner]

Trust me Dont do that, it will hurt you more in the long run, Same thing happend to me last year, and the year before, and the resulting outcome sucks, There is no safe way out of it, and by what it sounds like you are digging your own grave.

oh, and by the way, I was once dating two Kristens at the same time, I was a sophmore, one was a freshman, one was a senior, I went with the freshman.

[desslock]

like the good people at nike say...just do it!! if you think you can swing it give it a try. Your not married or have kids with any of these young ladies. Be perpared to juggle your time, you may find yourself playing less paintball!! LOL come on you only get oppurtunitys like this once in a while. Worst that can happen is that all the girls will drop you...oh well girls are like buses a new one will come along in a little bit.

[Lohman446]

Wake up and be reasonable with yourself about why your in the relationships - btw, be respectful enough of the girls to let them know what your looking for in the relationship to.

If all three of them and you are in the relationships for nothing more than a roll in the hay from time to time... well than I hate you . Just for the record, no way is this what there in it for.

If I recall Anna from your previous posts is a manipulative and you do not have the self control to stay away from her. She is so going to out you to the other ones afterwards and you and your new GF are done after that. Unless, as stated above, you have been honest with yourself about it and them. You have already stated you have not

If you intend for any of these relationships to be committed long term relationships you need to not have the other two. Make sure, if this is what your looking for, that that is what your partner is looking for to.

Relationships can be many things, as long as you are honest with first yourself and secondly the other person in them. I know a married couple where the wife has no interest in a physical relationship (or very little compared to the husband) and the husband is known to go out on dates. Whoever the husband is with knows the score going in - they are basically being used. They are ok with that (god knows why). The wife knows the score and there marriage is one of the strongest I know because of this. Why? Because they are totally honest wtih each other about their needs and wants.

What you are doing here is being dishonest wtih yourself in at least one of these relationships, and in reality all three. You are going to get screwed because of it (I don't mean that in a good way). Now... as long as your current GF knows about Anna and is accepting of you going out with her (which she's not) go for it. But if your not being honest with anyone here (I expect your not) this is going to blow up in your face. Fine, as long as you know that going in and accept the consequences. Never deny that nearly everything you do has a cost, look at that cost before you do it, if you are willing to pay it go ahead. If you are not willing to pay the cost... don't. Few things remain secret in any highschool that I recall.

[penguinpunk555]

What the hell does this have to do with rain?

[Cryer]

My council:

Call both girls, explain that you have made a commitment to another, and you wont be able to make the dates with them.

When your girl gets back in town, tell her what went on- what they said, what you said, what happened, and what didnt happen. She'll respect you for that if nothing else.

And no you dont have the right to get cocky about it. Not even after 17 years


Thats my 2 cents. Take it for what its worth.

On the other hand, you could inflate your ego with all this "I'm a pimp" bs, hook up with all 3 girls, get caught, loose all three girls and be back to your whiney, depressed, former self, and hopefully learn a lesson in humility.

[ZSigErik]

What the hell does this have to do with rain?

HAHAHAHA, I am still wiping the tears from eyes after reading that, whew...

Anyway, from my personal expereince, this is almost NEVER a good idea. Before I started dating the girl I am with now, I was seeing three other girls. This wasnt diffucult persay to really keep up with, I mean there ARE 24 hours in a day, but still. I figured since I am 18 and had no current attachment to anyone, I was going to do whatever I wanted.

But now I have a girlfriend, I dont normally have girlfriends, but this girl is special and different from all the rest /cliche. And if your current girlfriend is like this too, dont mess it up by trying to be a pimp. Karma will get you in the end.