Need AO's relationship help

[WicKeD_WaYz]

when i do something stupid like that with a girl i make fun of it myself before she can. It will give you something to talk about plus you would maybe make yourself seem so much more mature or whatever now.

kinda like

"hey remember back when we were freshman and I had a crush on you and I wrote you that stupid letter."

and then make fun of yourself for getting rejected....i dont know thats what I would do and i have pretty good luck in these areas.

But I would be straight up about it and go in and say hi to her, talk a minute, and then tell her the real reason you came in was to see if she would wanna go catch a movie or some food or something. Becuase she knows the reason youre there i mean cmon shes not that dumb your dad was already in there talkin to her about you. Dont go in like the next day though....give it a few days so you dont look desperate.

[SlartyBartFast]

Keep it simple.

Find out where she works.
Go there.
Say: "Hey, good to see you. My dad said he ran into you. Would you like to get together sometime?"

Perhaps suggest the consumption of whatever random meaningless foodstuff or liquid grabs your fancy. (Which movie is it the guy suggests going out to eat toffees of something. and after the puzzled reply, says that it makes as much sense as going out for coffee?)

If she wants to talk, she'll tell you when she ends her shift or suggest a time and place. If she doesn't, well nothing ventured, nothing gained.

[SlartyBartFast]

Dont go in like the next day though....give it a few days so you dont look desperate.

Desperation isn't a question of time. Just make the whole thing casual.

As long as he's not sweating, drooling, and staring at her, what does it matter if he went right after speaking to his father?

[SlartyBartFast]

Make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend.

He shouldn't care. If the motivation is simply physical, the girl will undoubtably turn him down, boyfriend or not.

And you'd have a better chance with a stranger on the street for that. She already knows he liked her in the past. Now he has to show whether his attraction was deeper than simply physical.

So, go into it as re-establishing or building a friendship. If it clicks, go further...

[WicKeD_WaYz]

Desperation isn't a question of time. Just make the whole thing casual.

As long as he's not sweating, drooling, and staring at her, what does it matter if he went right after speaking to his father?

well I would give it a couple days to make it seem like I wasnt just running in to see her first chance I got. You cant give a girl an advantage like that. Shes on your schedule. But thats just me. Ide go in a week later and no less.

[Echo419]

Yah well its all the same with your eyes closed

[danheneise]

well i went to where she works just now and she wasen't there as i was driving up there was a girl walking out but i couldn't tell if it was her. so i'll just have to keep going in probably just on my way home from work/school since that was about the time my dad saw her.

[WicKeD_WaYz]

well i went to where she works just now and she wasen't there as i was driving up there was a girl walking out but i couldn't tell if it was her. so i'll just have to keep going in probably just on my way home from work/school since that was about the time my dad saw her.

ive got a much better idea. when you find her, dont talk to her, just hang out across the street and watch her. then when she leaves, follow her home. Girls really like this kind of thing. You could even use pick up lines such as....

"hey baby, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

[danheneise]

ive got a much better idea. when you find her, dont talk to her, just hang out across the street and watch her. then when she leaves, follow her home. Girls really like this kind of thing. You could even use pick up lines such as....

"hey baby, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

[AGDlover]

ive got a much better idea. when you find her, dont talk to her, just hang out across the street and watch her. then when she leaves, follow her home. Girls really like this kind of thing. You could even use pick up lines such as....

"hey baby, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

LMAO omg thats the best line ever

[SlartyBartFast]

well I would give it a couple days to make it seem like I wasnt just running in to see her first chance I got. You cant give a girl an advantage like that. Shes on your schedule. But thats just me. Ide go in a week later and no less.

Your relationships will go much better if you don't view them as games.

Treat this situation just like it was a guy you used to know (albeit minus the mushy letter ).

How would YOU react if you ran into an old friends parent and then they didn't bother to contact you until a week later? You'd figure the guy couldn't care less, so why should you?

[WicKeD_WaYz]

Your relationships will go much better if you don't view them as games.

my relationships with girls go just fine i promise