Pretty depressing things I overheard today.

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  • CaptaiN_JacK
    will get you high tonight
    • Jan 2003
    • 947

    #1

    Pretty depressing things I overheard today.

    I was taking a spanish test in our library today, and a small class was doing some work at the two tables next to me. The class was, how can i explain it, not an Options class, but the program between mainstream school and the Options program. It was comprised of girls and guys ranging from Seniors to Freshman. So anyways, as I'm taking the test I overheard some of the things they were talking about:

    A Senior was bragging to the younger girls sitting at his table how he wanted to move out when school was over with (but he also mentioned the school wasn't letting him graduate, aka he didn't have enough credits) but his parents said he couldn't care for himself. He talked to matter-of-factly and proudly that it made me depressed, thinking about how this kid has no idea what the outside world is like, and that he probably can't take care of himself on a level higher than plainly surviving. I don't want to seem all high-and-mighty, but it's completely true: he will be flipping burgers for the rest of his life.

    Another girl (I'm guessing a freshman or sophmore) said that she was moving out RIGHT when she turned 16 (the legal age to move out). Why do they continually sell themselves short of what they could possibly become? Moving out at 16, and I'm guessing not finishing high school, is dooming yourself to a miserable life.

    The teacher had to explain to a girl, sophmore or junior, what unintentional meant. I probably knew what unintentional meant in 5th grade. Kids these days do not understand the massive importance of a good education. I'm sure there are easy words that I don't know, but the fact that this same girl was laughing, talking, and goofing off the entire time they were supposed to be studying and doing their homework just sickens me, The teacher said multiple times, "You guys aren't even doing your homework like you said you would," and they lied and said they were.


    I'm sure while you were reading this (if anybody even did) that you thought "Wow, what a cocky kid," but I didn't mean it to be like that at all. Occurances like this have really started to depress me lately, thinking that this is the future of the United States, wasting away the only free education they will ever recieve. You can't blame them, however, because I'm sure most of them have learning impairments. I'm sure their childhood and their parents also played a huge role in what they are today, because a lot of them probably grew up in poverty stricken homes and broken homes, and their parents probably weren't nearly as loving and giving as mine. I wish I could help them, just get right up in their face and say, "Do you realize the life you are choosing?? Do you realize that you could be so much more, live such a better life, if you would put only an hour or two into your schoolwork a day?? Do you realize that you are putting your future kids in a position to continue the cycle of poverty?"

    /depressing rant

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  • SAW
    It's a trap!
    • Nov 2004
    • 846

    #2
    A large percentage of todays youth present themselves as oblivious to the real world. I see it all the time within our HS, an almost complete lack of initiative. I don't know, it seems that their "current events" consist of what happened on MTV the previous evening. I find it difficult to carry on a respectable conversation with most of my peers. Now I usually wouldn't care, but the majority of these people are GOOD kids. They have potential to be better.

    Now don't get me wrong, I'm not the spitting image of a Honor Student either. I put in, both in school and out, and reap what I sow. I don't see any problem with my standards but that's just my POV.

    Oh, well. Life sucks, we'd better get used to it now.
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    • gc82000
      LNIB just a few scratches
      • Mar 2004
      • 1346

      #3
      Very good rant I myself see this in not the poor kids but also in the rich ones aswell. And I think it is the rich kids That would worry me more.
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      • spyderkiller
        Intellectual Giant
        • Jul 2001
        • 438

        #4
        Here in college it's the same but different...here it's not kids throwing away a free education. Here, it's kids throwing away an education that most of their parents have either saved for years to provide or gone into debt for...which is maybe even more depressing ot me than the though of people throwing away something that is given to them for free. I can't say that I don't struggle with it too. There's so much freedom and so little expectation on the part of professors that you can't help but have at least a partially apathetic attitude toward the whole thing...But yeah, I can see where you're coming from. There are so many people at all levels of education and walks of life that are just throwing away every good thing that is basically handed to them. It's sad, but I just remember that for all of those that don't care, there are those who do, and will keep picking up the slack just like has been forever.


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        • empireblue
          Registered User
          • Feb 2005
          • 6

          #5
          re: depressing things heard at school

          If those kids have parents like i had then i can see where they are coming from. When you live in a crappy situation at home you look for any means of escape, like moving out as soon as possible, or for my sister she took drugs and moved in with her druggie boyfriend when she was 17. Yes things were that bad at my house. I stuck it out and moved in with my grandma a week after i graduated highschool.

          When you have a poor home life, it tends to make school work almost impossible. Most teachers at my school didnt like the lower class students. it was obvious, they would treat you like you werent as important as the kid who was super smart or the kids from the wealthy families. it sickened me.

          fortunately for me i met my husband in highschool at a honor band try out.(music was a way out for my frustration and bad home life) we ended up dating for 3 yrs. We just celebrated our 1 yr wedding anniversary in january. We built our first house 6 months ago and we both have great jobs. and putting my husband through college.I know im young (23) but if you dont realize there is more out there in life you will never have anything.

          What im tring to get at is that you can rise above what you came from. I did but i have had to work very hard for what i have. and i am very proud of what i have. My sister on the other hand eventually married a brain fried druggie and they are living with the in laws with a 16 month old kid.its not cool to brag about being the sanitation captian at long john silvers!

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          • krusty
            AGD,ICD,CCM & CCI (Gunho!)
            • Mar 2004
            • 1400

            #6
            As a 37 year old could have been, I'LL tell you this now. Dont ever let the slackers get to you. If you have the drive to further yourself do it. In the end you will know that you did it right. Those people at the end of the day will honestly have little impact on your life.
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            • -=Squid=-

              #7
              Originally posted by krusty
              As a 37 year old could have been, I'LL tell you this now. Dont ever let the slackers get to you. If you have the drive to further yourself do it. In the end you will know that you did it right. Those people at the end of the day will honestly have little impact on your life.
              And without them, who's gonna flip my burgers?

              See... They do play an important role in life.

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              • SAW
                It's a trap!
                • Nov 2004
                • 846

                #8
                Originally posted by -=Squid=-
                And without them, who's gonna flip my burgers?

                See... They do play an important role in life.
                Touche.
                Back at this...

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                • billybob_81067
                  A.O.'s official Redneck
                  • Jan 2001
                  • 1682

                  #9
                  Originally posted by krusty
                  As a 37 year old could have been, I'LL tell you this now. Dont ever let the slackers get to you. If you have the drive to further yourself do it. In the end you will know that you did it right. Those people at the end of the day will honestly have little impact on your life.
                  Thats right!!! Don't let those lazy bastards drag you down too... just keep working hard and you'll end up excelling.


                  At my ripe old age of 19 I think I've already acomplished more than a lot of people twice my age. I graduated highschool valedictorian of my class and college with an associates of arts degree. I completed both with a 4.0 GPA. I also took all the automotive classes they had at the college just because that's the kinda thing that I like to do. Now I'm married with a 4 year old step daughter and a son on the way. I work with my father on our farm where we farm about 500 acres, sell horse hay, and run about 150 head of cattle. It keeps us super busy!!!

                  Now... does that make you feel any better?
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                  • felony
                    Awesome
                    • Feb 2002
                    • 1216

                    #10
                    Originally posted by spyderkiller
                    Here in college it's the same but different...here it's not kids throwing away a free education. Here, it's kids throwing away an education that most of their parents have either saved for years to provide or gone into debt for...which is maybe even more depressing ot me than the though of people throwing away something that is given to them for free. I can't say that I struggle with it too. There's so much freedom and so little expectation on the part of professors that you can't help but have at least a partially apathetic attitude toward the whole thing...But yeah, I can see where you're coming from. There are so many people at all levels of education and walks of life that are just throwing away every good thing that is basically handed to them. It's sad, but I just remember that for all of those that don't care, there are those who do, and will keep picking up the slack just like has been forever.


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                    I could not agree more with your statement of college kids. Goin to college over the past years I see alot of kids wasting away oprotunites left and right. I am fortunate enough to have my parents be able to pay for my education, and I do not let that slip my thoughts, ever. I can count the numbers of times I have skipped class on one hand in 2 years of college now. I work hard during the week and party and play paintball on the weekend. I see how nice it is to have my education payed for and understand that I am lucky. When I grow up, have some kids.. I want to be a able to do the same thing for them. Money doesnt make things better, just makes things easier in some cases.

                    I can't stand it when I see people who are naturally talented just skip class and fall behind. Can't stand watching good people with poor work ethic slip behind. Don't know.. crap happens I guess.

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                    • empireblue
                      Registered User
                      • Feb 2005
                      • 6

                      #11
                      must be nice

                      it must be really nice to have your parents pay for your school. I wouldnt know, because i had to put myself through school. But i do know that when i have children, that they will have their college paid for. I will see to it they will have what they need so they dont have to go through the crap i did.

                      I dont want to see my children working for 5.50 an hr. flippin burgers!!!

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                      • Muzikman
                        Everything AGD
                        • Dec 2000
                        • 6229

                        #12
                        On the matter of living in the real world at such a young age, they are saying this now, but I bet you none of them will actually move out.

                        As for being stupid and not caring, that will change once the are out of school, flipping bugers and go, damn this sucks, there must be better. This happened to my younger brother. He graduated a few years ago from HS, worked at Big Lots and said "This sucks, I don't want to be doing this the rest of my life". He is now still working at Big Lots, but also going to school. He was one of those kids in HS that, Just didn't get it. Although he graduated, it was not with high marks.

                        Kids will be kids. Most will wise up a few years out of school, some won't, that's life. You would also be shocked at the number of decent students that flunk out of college because although they were smart enough, they were not mentally ready for it.

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                        • wanna-b-ballin'
                          Pump Player
                          • Jan 2005
                          • 1380

                          #13
                          Originally posted by billybob_81067
                          Thats right!!! Don't let those lazy bastards drag you down too... just keep working hard and you'll end up excelling.


                          At my ripe old age of 19 I think I've already acomplished more than a lot of people twice my age. I graduated highschool valedictorian of my class and college with an associates of arts degree. I completed both with a 4.0 GPA. I also took all the automotive classes they had at the college just because that's the kinda thing that I like to do. Now I'm married with a 4 year old step daughter and a son on the way. I work with my father on our farm where we farm about 500 acres, sell horse hay, and run about 150 head of cattle. It keeps us super busy!!!

                          Now... does that make you feel any better?

                          your only 19 and you have graduated college, got married, and have children? wowzers
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                          • Glickman
                            *Insert Witty Phrase*
                            • Sep 2003
                            • 2673

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Muzikman
                            Kids will be kids. Most will wise up a few years out of school, some won't, that's life. You would also be shocked at the number of decent students that flunk out of college because although they were smart enough, they were not mentally ready for it.
                            say it like it is atleast college is a buffer between high school and real life. think about not having that talk about a wake up call.



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                            • ProX9
                              Registered User
                              • Sep 2003
                              • 336

                              #15
                              It amazes me how many people at my school are completely retarded, for example, when one girl was asked, "what was the first city the atomic bomb was dropped on?" Without hesitating, she replied , "Pearl harbor." Now if she said Nagasaki Id be ok but pearl harbor, come on. Things like, failing the first year bio class or general chem make me sick to my stomach, what are these people going to do with their lives if reading three pages of a textbook on the weekend is a confounding amount of homework?1!1 People that are too cool to go to all their classes also piss me off, try cutting work and achieve getting fired. People that think playing sports is an excuse to slack off in their academic classes can keep on doing that because Ill need someone to wash my car and bag my groceries later in life. The .000 000 000 1% of those who go pro can give me the finger. The remainder can fix my roof. Now for the stoners or basically everyone I hang out with (dont ask how it happened) who smoke during lunch because getting high after 3 is lame also make me wonder what the world is going to be like in 10 years. I actually smoke a little weed every once in awhile but I also get a 4.0 gpa so Ill be ok, the ones who get 2.1 and less are in trouble. Now I guess that since Im not very popular, I failed in one aspect but I always remember that once highschool is over you start with a clean slate and its your academic success that gets carved in stone and your school popularity goes up like tissue in a fire. Being cool will not pad your wallet but it is fun in highschool. I know that if I keep up what Ive been doing in school that Ill get into a good college and with that, a Phd in chemical engineering that will put me in high demand and my wallet occupied. Think of the bright side, with the increasing number of idiots the demand for people that work hard will go up, along with the amount of people they can control under them.
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