Rest In Peace, Mike Stevens, my Father, 1940-2005.

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  • manike
    INCEPTIONDESIGNS.COM

    • Jan 2001
    • 3820

    #1

    Rest In Peace, Mike Stevens, my Father, 1940-2005.

    My Father died on Sunday. I just found out today when I made an emergency return to the UK.

    He was the most amazing man. Apart from the obvious there are many reasons why I wouldn't be here today, the person I am, or doing what I do if it wasn't for him. He truely was my hero and I loved him dearly.

    He got his last wish, he died at home in my Mother and Sister's arms. I can't believe what they have been through.

    There are several reasons for the nickname you all know me by, the main is that it is a combination of my Father's and Mother's names. Mike and Ann. It became the name of their boat (as seen below) and also reflects on a very difficult time in my life that my Father helped me through.

    He taught me many things, that I would never make a perpetual motion machine but that I should also never be stopped just because someone else thought something wasn't possible. He let me think I could do anything and helped me get there.

    He's the guy that let me use real tools at the age of 2, that had me help him and design things around the house my whole life, that told me off when I took new things apart but gave me broken equipment for my toys . He mentored me through my designs and ideas, helped me when he didn't necessarily believe in what I was doing, but believed in me and my convictions.

    He was a rock to our family.

    He was loved so much that the pain will take a very long time to go away. But the memories and influences on those who's lives he touched will last with them forever.

    The pictures I want to remember him by, Dad still with his boat after my parents shipwrecked last year. He could always find an adventure and had a story to tell.



    And in his dream car that I had the amazing privelege to give to him last summer.



    And by my side (with my niece and nephew).





    It's 4.30am in the UK, and I can't sleep and just had to share how great a man he was.
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  • Duzzy
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    • Apr 2004
    • 940

    #2
    I can only say that I am sorry for you, there isn't anything else to say...

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      • Nov 2003
      • 3180

      #3
      Simon, my condolences. He seemed like an amazing man and father. God bless him, and you and your family.


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      • magman007
        I <3 my Penis
        • Jun 2001
        • 7579

        #4
        simon, im deeply sorry for your loss, but im glad that you seem to be celebrating his life, instead of being somber about his passing. My prayers are with your family, and i wish you the best for you and yours.

        and, that is a beautiful elise as well.



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        • Dayspring
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          • May 2001
          • 9664

          #5
          My condolensces Simon...

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          • fire1811
            Firefighter
            • Nov 2002
            • 4930

            #6
            sorry to hear that.
            I cannot even imagine what its like losing a parent.
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            • rkjunior303
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              • May 2003
              • 4029

              #7
              Simon, buddy, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You were telling us how he was sick and how unfortunately he only had a few months to live... Regardless of that, this is all so sudden and a shock to hear. I will pray for you and your family to get through this with a strong heart! My condolences man.

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              • kosmo
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                • Dec 2000
                • 1642

                #8
                Sorry to hear about him go Manike. He brought a smile to my face just seeing the pictures. You cant help but respect and cherish a man who lives life to its fullest, and while I am truly saddened by his passing, Ill be sure to toast him and hope that in my life I can come close to achieving what he did. There is no greater thing in life than knowing youve raised a child who makes the world a better place.
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                • teufelhunden
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                  • Jul 2003
                  • 2691

                  #9
                  My thoughts and prayers go out to you. He sounds like he was a great man, a model father.
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                  • Cameo
                    Registered User
                    • Dec 2004
                    • 590

                    #10
                    Absolutley Lovely Pictures!!!
                    Wish your family the best and peace of mind... Big HUGs to y'all.
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                    • Duck Hunt
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                      • Oct 2003
                      • 434

                      #11
                      By the smile on his face it looks like he enjoyed life Simon

                      My best wishes to you and your family.

                      Sean

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                      • FooTemps
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                        • Sep 2001
                        • 6702

                        #12
                        It's good to hear your father was a great man. I know families who had their loved ones taken from them when they still had much ahead of them, but from what I can see your father did a good job raising a family and taking care of his loved ones.

                        I hope your family handles your father's passing in a good light. He left a good impact on the world.

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                        • Will Wood
                          Evil Monkey
                          • May 2002
                          • 3475

                          #13
                          Not the prayer type of guy, by you have my condolences. He sounded like a very hands on type of guy, and I respect people like that highely.

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                          • Kevmaster
                            Owners Group Div: Director
                            • Oct 2001
                            • 5475

                            #14
                            Simon,

                            best wishes to you and your family. It sounds like your dad was an amazing guy and lived on hell of a life we could all aspire to live. Wishing you the best,

                            Kev

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                            • MarkM
                              UK Cougars
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 2433

                              #15
                              Simon,

                              Very sorry to hear of your loss, my condolences.

                              Mark
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