help me with some kids at school...

[master_alexander]

note: some of this may sound racist, but i am not a racist.

i am an average 8th grade student, kind of. average meaning i am not a geek or prep or punk etc... just normal, gets good grades, not fat, not thin, not weak, not immensley strong, just an average joe..

anyway i am sick of most kids at school. (granted i have a fair share of being a smartass and scarcasm). The specific kids at school i will not name, but they always instigate with everyone, and if they were in a fight they wouyld call their friend over to take care of them (more like scare them), so they can't back themselves up. the 2 kids are preps (at my school it means they are rich, snotty, and wear ambercrombie and other clothes that are overpriced) and make fun of people for no reason. a specific thing they say to me is "go play your video games" and they say that when i am sticking up for someone, and then i don't really have a comeback... i don't even play videogames annymore. another thing they say as a comeback, to everything is "your mom", from that movie napolean dynamite, for some reason everyone likes it, i hate it, stupidest thing i ever saw (besides the guy killing the cow in front of the schoolbus). it is just a lot of little things like that with them.

and then there is this other kid, i must tell you his name, it is charmin. what kind of parent names him that? and yes he is african american. so after athletics i was going to get a drink of water, i had been doing lunges and sprinting almost the whole day and was really tired. i am at the water fountain and he steps in front of me and i walk into him on accident. he turns around (he is about 6 inches taller than me too, i am 5'7) annyway he pushes me and says something like "what are youdoing fool!" i go back about 2 feet, he pushes me again "i am from the hood" pushes me again "who the hell do you think you are?" they were not playful pushes either, he looked serious... i was too tired to do annything. one of his friends told him to back off and then the sub.teacher took us off to the sides and took names, i didn't even get a drink of water...

things like that have been happening and i am sick and tired of it...

anny recomendations on what to do? i know there is only about 15 days until i am out of school (i live in texas... we go back in august) and i can live with it... just today i came home about to break down my walls... and i mighthave been better off...

and please don't flame... just... don't...

[magman007]

carry a gun.




no but honestly, i dont like you as a poster, but you know, i endured this same crap as a middle schooler, highschool is just around the bend, and you have to realize that crap is gunna change. stick up for your self, dont let your typical bullies do crap like that. be like look Toilet paper boy, im drinking here, sorry for walking into you. if he says that hood crap, be like, since when was suberbia the hood?

then if he fronts some more, be like, oh im sorry, can i get you a tissue or some toiilet paper? because it appears that you are going to cry.

if he hits you, even better, thats his rear suspended, and if you want you can even call the race card

remember, black people can be racist too.

[Python14]

Just do whatever to stand up for youself, but don't be stupid. Let him make the first strike so if anything goes down....he's got that first hit going against him.

The other two? When they start, just fight fire with fire. Be as sarcastic and caustic as possible. Don't be scared to emotionally scar them.

[personman]

Tell him that you are from the trunk. That's way more hardcore than the hood. He'll leave you alone after that.

[magman007]

also, telling any one you had sex with their mom, usually gets to them

[Python14]

The key is to show them just how low you are willing to hit them......usually somewhere just below the belt does it. No one will mess with someone who will readily hit below the belt.

[master_alexander]

Tell him that you are from the trunk. That's way more hardcore than the hood. He'll leave you alone after that.

that is great... i will have to steal that..

[sharpshooter1286]

when will people learn, no where are there rules that say you cant fight dirty, use sand, except dont kick in the balls unless the kid really deserves it. if you threw sand in someones eyes and then tackled them and beat them senseless they probably wont mess with you again, and if they do, its not like sand or dirt isnt readily available.

[personman]

My best advice to you is in general stay out of peoples way. Sounds like you just had a bad day. Also dont act like a nerd (not saying you do). I dont act like a nerd, even though deep down I really am. I have plenty of friends at school. The stupidest thing you could ever do is something like bring your gameboy to school and play it during lunch. Or play magic, or something like that. That just puts you low on the social food chain.

Those preps that make fun of everyone? They'll always be there. It sucks, but it's true. The only solution is to ignore it. They're at my school, and I used to be friends with them until I realised how retarded they are.

As for the black guy, some people are just too cocky. They think they're the stuff. They wont change either.

Some people you just have to ignore, which you will find out more in high school. They cant do anything to you anyway. If they decide to beat the crap out of you, they'll get suspended or expelled.

And hitting below the belt is just dirty, man.

Stay out of people's way and they'll stay out of yours.

[68bird]

the same thing was happening to me im a junior in highschool. well one day this kid that was like 4 inches taller then me throws an orange and hits me in the head. i turned around and yelled who the fcuk threw that and he said that i said some things about his squair head and he was like what u gunna do about it. and i was like this and i headbutted him in the chops. his eyes started watering and he told me he would fight me after school cuz he doesnt want to get kicked out of sports. so we go to viva (mexican resturant) for a throw down but he dident show. him and his friends havent messed with me since. i messed up my head but i busted his lip pritty bad i think he needed stitches. one think about head butting if u do it wrong ur gunna look like a fool and knock ur self out but if u do it right its hard to see and it stuns the crap out of them cuz they dont know what happened. dont get hurt.

[PyRo]

Bring in dounuts and don't give them any.

[tropical_fishy]

Don't start any fights. From the sound of it, you won't win them.

This is how middle schoolers are. God, I hated middle school. It's not right, but what are you gonna do? Keep standing up for the people who need it. Don't let anything they say go to your head and make you angry. Don't swear at them, don't yell and scream. If they insult you, look at them like they're dirt on the bottom of your shoe and laugh, and tell them to get lost.

School's almost over. Hopefully high school will be better.

[bleachit]

Bring in dounuts and don't give them any.

glad to see you around again, your posts are the best.

as for the whole sleeping with their mom comment.... after that, tell them that their sister was better.

or just ignore them because they suck at life.

[nippinout]

Kids in junior high/middle school are the biggest jerks in the Universe. They think they are hot stuff.

Just ignore them and don't let it bother you. They have low self-esteems so they feel the need to belittle others to make themselves feel better. Do well in school and get a good job. You will live well while these jerks will be working for you or asking if you want french fries with your order.

BTW, video games are awesome.

[Python14]

BTW, video games are awesome.

He speaks the truth. I'm in college and can tell you that video games only get cooler as you grow up.


and no, I am not kidding. I've turned down sex for video games before.