Tell me if im wrong here.

[WicKeD_WaYz]

Im in a fight with my gf and I need to know if im being retarded or not.

I think its ok that I sometimes kiss my other best friends who are girls on the cheek. Ive always done that. Its not like everytime I see them or anything just every now and then a peck on the cheek I mean ive known them like over half my life.

She claims that when I do that im cheating on her.

Am I being too hardheaded about this should I just apologize and not do it anymore or should she get over it? Its not really that I get off on kisses on the cheek, just more of the principle that she thinks she can tell me what to do. Weve only been dating 2 months.

Opinions?

[BlackWeenie]

thats not cheating in any way shape or form, its just a friendly greeting... stand your ground brah.

[tropical_fishy]

I don't think you're wrong. Tell her to get over it or get out... if you're telling the truth about it only being a peck, she's overreacting. I actually wouldn't use that phrase, on second thought. Ask her why she doesn't trust you and if you've ever given her anything to mistrust. Ask her if it's the kissing or if it's the fact that other girls have your attention. I'm betting it's the latter. You do have to understand that it's something that bugs HER. She's probably just jealous, but with girls, if she's jealous enough to fight wiht you over it, she's jealous enough to dump you over it. If you don't like her telling you what to do, tell her that. She'll probably bristle and get even more angry but she'll be thinking about it. If she comes back and admits it was stupid or is willing to work something out/talk, I'd say she's worth it. If not, rethink your relationship .

[bleachit]

she sounds a lil paranoid.. she doesnt own you, its the cheek for crying out loud...

if you really like her, respect her, and think this relationship has a good shot.. then apologize and dont do it anymore..

if you really dont care if the relationship continues or is "just for fun" then let her know she is being dumb.

[DaveEllis]

Kiss a man infront of her, see what she says.

[rifleman wi]

Kiss a man infront of her, see what she says.

^^^ i agree with this man it be hilarious

[Tunaman]

Dump her quick...

[Maggot6]

Well, personally I can't imagine going to a few friends (who are girls) and "pecking" them on the cheak...But that's not really your point. IF you honestly just sorta peck them on the cheak, and nothing else then I don't see the problem. Although, if you actually like the 2 month girlfriend then I'd just stop doing that, but as said before if she doesn't matter ALL the much, then just contiinue and argue your valid point.

[sbpyro]

Smells like trouble. Low self esteem. bad things will happen if her self esteem ain't fixed.
Case and point my buddy's fiance (was gf) has a major issue with him going to Hooters. And when she found his private stash on his computer she threw it. See for me that would have been it
1. not trusting me enough to go to a damn restaurant.
2. Invading my privacy instead of asking.
3. Throwing a computer that is worth over $2000.

Heck my fiance offered to buy me a lap dance.
God I'm lucky

[SpecialBlend2786]

Ask her if she trusts you. If she does, then this shouldn't even be an issue. She's probably just jealous.

[JMAN]

Tuck and roll, get out of that car before it crashes...

I kiss all girls which are my friends on the cheek and all my g/f's friends. I don't know what area you live in, or what ethnicity you/her are but I live in Miami and am Latin and it's common practice down here. If that is a common practice where you live and she is jealous refer to my first line, if it's not well then she has a point. Regardless it's something you need to address, if anything you'll be feeling her out for future conflicts.

[RamboPreacher]

Im in a fight with my gf and I need to know if im being retarded or not. ...

yes, you are being "retarded".

You already answered the question - don't fight with your girlfriend. Friendly kiss or not, why give excuse for your girlfriend to wnat to argue with you. sounds like you need more "get to know eachother time".

[Jonno06]

dont argue with your girlfriend. every. you WILL lose.


also, ide be pissed if she kissed her guy friends on the cheek, so i agree with your girlfriend.

[SlartyBartFast]

A kiss on the cheek is freeking her out?

RUN FOREST, RUN!!!!!!!!!!!

Heck, I live in Quebec where it's customary for two-cheek kisses for all acquaintances of the opposite sex.

If that's all you're doing, you're going to have serious trust, and control freek issues in your relationship if you stay together.

It sounds corny, but if you really like her take a trip to the school councillor with her.

[SlartyBartFast]

You already answered the question - don't fight with your girlfriend. Friendly kiss or not, why give excuse for your girlfriend to wnat to argue with you. sounds like you need more "get to know eachother time".

Actually, he's already got to know her now. If she's paranoid now, she'll only be worse latter.

why give excuse for your girlfriend to wnat to argue with you

Why devote your life to being put down and hen-pecked? When someone is being irrational, don't argue, but don't just roll over. Discuss the issue calmly and rationally.

If she can't discuss it calmly now, what other issues will be hot button issues she can't be calm about later?

Edit:

Considering your location RamboPreacher, I can understand your position on the issue. (and the fact "preacher" is in your username ) But, not everyone nor every culture believes that innocent human contact is evil, dirty, or wrong.

It amases me that football players in the most orthadox religious areas can grab each other in innapprpriate places, participate in group hugs, etc. but as soon as equally inocent activity or friendliness involves the opposite sex, the weak-minded always immediately equate the action as sexual.