I am an average looking male who is not very expirienced in the adult dating scene. What I want to know is if it is considered appropriate for me to ask out a young lady that works at the local grocery store. I dont know her at all. I go there about three times a week and whenever her line is available I go there. We usually chit chat for a litlle bit, but since I am usually only buying one or two things we dont get much past " Hi, how are you?" She always seems happy to see me though. So, should I just ask her out without knowing her at all? Or should I start buying a lot more groceries to try to get to know her better? Let me know what you guys think. I do hate asking these kinds of questions, but almost all of my friends are still with their Highschool girlfriends so they have no expirience out in the wild. Let me know. Thanks.
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Um, ask her out before you start stalking her. That would be a good idea. Its lame to stalk someone. Get confident, stupid!Kosmo For President '08, '12, '16... However long it takes
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I had no intention of stalking her. I just wanted to know if I should at least try to become on a first name basis with her or just go for it. Thanks.It came to a point in my life when it was either pay the rent or buy paintball gear. I think I made the wise choice. If anyoneone needs me I'm livin in a van down by the river.
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ask her the worst that can happen is she'll say no. kosmo is right no stalking. dating is used to get to know someone. by the way look at her when u ask and don't ask for a full blown date, ask to take her to lunch.
and yes i think i am qualified to give dating advice, Im 17 and have had the same girl for 2 years.
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that would be great if after all this, shes not single.
and dont buy more groceries, save your mula for the date
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well to me it would seem odd to go and buy some things an then after she gives you the receipt say "would you like to have dinner or somthing"Originally posted by Lakeview Bulldog
i would be clever and ask one of her co workers for a favor and try to surprise her.
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That is my luck that after I spend twenty minutes psyching myself up in the store and go to ask her that she would have a boyfriend. I know that the worst that can happen is for her to say "no" But why does that feel like youve been gutkicked? The getting creative thing is tricky. I dont really know anyone that works there so asking for a favor from one of the other people would be just as awkward as asking her out. It also doesnt help that I am not very smooth and that whenever I stop there I am always in my work clothes. But hey, if she liked me enough to say yes in my work clothes I should blow her away when I get cleaned up. Any other advice would be appreciated. Thanks.Last edited by Lakeview Bulldog; 07-12-2005, 09:44 PM.It came to a point in my life when it was either pay the rent or buy paintball gear. I think I made the wise choice. If anyoneone needs me I'm livin in a van down by the river.
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Next time you go grocery shopping, purchase the following items, and only the following items:
- Two plastic cups
- One box o' wine, of the finest available vintage
- Two candles
- One box of condoms
- One spray can of whip cream
- One package of Ramen
- One home enema kit
When you get to the checkout line, ask her if she'd like to join you for "a romantic dinner at home" after her shift.
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Originally posted by spantol
i think that the enema kit will scare her a bit
not to highjack this thread but i have a dateing problem as well
i would like to ask a girl i have known now for a year or soo out but shes 2 years younger than me??
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answer to both yours guys problems.. while she's checking you out... haha get it? works both ways... anyway...
just ask.. hey i was wondering if you'd like to grab some lunch with me... or dinner... whatever... or the famous.. want to hang out sometime line..
always works for me...
and the 2 year things... 2 years is nothing i guess.... as long as she's only 3 years and 8 months younger it's alright... that's law... 3 years 8 months and 1 day younger.. and your big doo doo.. unless of course she's 18+...My PBR Feedback
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Originally posted by SIGSays
see thats the thing im 15 shes 13 i was born in dec of 89 she was in march of 92??
i think that its kinda weired but i really like her and we know each other for a year and she acts and looks like shes a short 16 year old.
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Geezus, I feel old.Originally posted by atm743
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Just a thought from a girl..
She works check out counter.. Next time you are chekcing out her boobs how about taking a look at her name tag ::duhhh::
Use her name when you talk to her, if she seems surprised that you used her name pull a a cute little tag that says "hello my name is".. Now you can use this trick twice.. after you do the one with your name and sick it on you. if you get a good reaction from her pull out another one that says "hello my name is, your date for tommorrow night".. If that doesn't get her nothing will..
~steph
ps: it honelsty works.. I have a purse that has a tag on it that says "hello my name is, Your future wife". I can not tell you how many times i have gotten comments on it from guys and gals.. My guys actually says it was the cleancher that reeled him in
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Originally posted by Lakeview Bulldog
dude, i REALLY hate to break it to you. i work in a grocery store. we are supposed to do that. smile. greet the customer. "how are you? find everthing ok?" does that mean i'm hitting on the 80 year old dude who is on oxygen who comes up to the customer service desk to return cereal? no. it's just part of the scheme of getting customers to come back cause this store has better customer service and friendlier people than the other store. i hear it all the time being at the desk. "oh that jonny/suzie checker is so great. always so friendly. more stores need people like that."
once again dude, sorry to break your bubble, i'm just trying to save you from a really hard letdown.e-mag 226
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