superficial attraction

[Cameo]

Just curious what other people are attracted to in the opposite sex....
If you are married then what traits does your signifigant other have that just makes you melt??

[billybob_81067]

Oh and boobs!!! Boobs help a lot...

[Cameo]

lmao...
and all this time I was to simple with nice eyes and taller then me..

[MicroMiniMe]

Just curious what other people are attracted to in the opposite sex....
If you are married then what traits does your signifigant other have that just makes you melt??

Nice smile, good sense of humor to start off.

Compliments your own qualities. Optimist to pessimist. Aggresive to laid back. Stuff like that keeps you thankfull of what the other person brings to the relationship, and also stirs discussion and some differences.

Good comminication and can compromise as well.

/The only answer I really need say is Large Tracts of Land!

[Alley]

Me, I look at what he drives first...then I can look at him ...

And, if you can get past the fact that he drives a 4 door intrepid then you know its gotta be love!!

I'm so glad I talked him into buying a new more trucklike vehicle <3 , that I get to drive a lot

[Miscue]

Just curious what other people are attracted to in the opposite sex....
If you are married then what traits does your signifigant other have that just makes you melt??

Physical: A magnificent arse and hips. Attractive face/natural beauty without makeup. Symmetry. Clear skin. Several things I can't mention while remaining G-rated.

Personality: Nice/kind. Intelligent. Wise. Accountable. Responsible. Level-headed. Mostly feminine - don't like completely girly girls, nor do I like those who are too much of a tomboy. Some kind of talent or drive. A bit quirky. Several things I can't mention while remaining G-rated.

[Cameo]

Me, I look at what he drives first...then I can look at him ...

And, if you can get past the fact that he drives a 4 door intrepid then you know its gotta be love!!

I'm so glad I talked him into buying a new more trucklike vehicle <3 , that I get to drive a lot

LMAO...
I remember your first comment about him "he's kinda cute, you think he's kinda cute don't you?"
But then I remember this one by him "No, I don't think you are THAT fat" (after a very heavy guy was poeinted out at 3 am in Eat n Park). Me thinks he just might have deserved the accident that night.. lol

:atting self on back:: you are welcome for 2 wonderful years...

Ps: post was a curious endevor... My sister said she lowered her standards to date a guy, then disliked every guy I pointed out.. wanted to see if people really do have things they look for..

[Duzzy]

LMAO...
My sister said she lowered her standards to date a guy...

Any tips on how to get a gal to do that?

Anyways, I have tried not to be a complete male, but it didn't work out very well... Good looking is definitely a very good thing, but some girls just have enough personality to make me ignore other painful realities (Like me being desperate.).

Mentally I like someone who can think, I don't care about book smarts I want someone intelligent. A girl who can laugh at herself, have fun, and be crazy. Other than not being a complete waste of my time almost anything else goes.

[AGDlover]

Physical: A magnificent arse and hips. Attractive face/natural beauty without makeup. Symmetry. Clear skin. Several things I can't mention while remaining G-rated.

Personality: Nice/kind. Intelligent. Wise. Accountable. Responsible. Level-headed. Mostly feminine - don't like completely girly girls, nor do I like those who are too much of a tomboy. Some kind of talent or drive. A bit quirky. Several things I can't mention while remaining G-rated.

lol i was gonna write that same thing also i like someone who would just sit there and lay with me not trying to come off all emo on that one

[kosmo]

For me to be initially attracted to someone, theyve got to have longish hair, no man-cuts (with the exception of Halley Berry. She is the only one Ive ever been able to accept having short hair) not too short or too skinny cause I dont want to feel like Im going to break her, I prefer well endowed women but its not a requirement, and at least semi athletic. For personality, theyve got to be smart, listen to rock music, and not too much of a partier, but I definitely get turned on when a chick isnt afraid of a little 151 now and then.

[Jeffy-CanCon]

Superficially?

Petite, with long dark hair. Add ponytail & freckles, and I am her willing slave.

[Lohman446]

Looks.

Ok, you know how some women just have this look on there face that says they are better than anyone else, totally annoyed in the world, and take things way too serious. That look, regardless of other physical attributes is a turn-off right there.

I'm an annoying person - I know that. I'm egotistical, arrogant, and generally a jerk. Im ok with that. Thus when I look at people and they have this easily annoyed "body language" about them I am immensely unattracted.

That being said... its gotten to the point that I think I trophy hunt... I'm as concerned about what my friends / family will think of anyone as I am about myself, so I have gotten rather shallow in that regard... I look for good curves, long hair, the right "body language" attitude, and someone not afraid to show off or pose.. yeh I think I might be getting more and more shallow...

But, my ex-wife was based on personality, and that didn't turn out too well, so I'm going to try the looks criteria for now.

[rkjunior303]

Honestly, for me...

Personality is #1 for me... Then it's usually something "little" or different about ones looks that catches my eye... I dunno, I have weird taste.

I like the irish girls.. Freckles, pale skin, redheads.. oh boy!

[tropical_fishy]

I like smaller girls-- as long as it doesn;t look like you can break them in half. I'm so picky with girls... I need her to be athletic and not a girly-girl. She needs to be cuddly. I don't like blondes, but I'm a sucker for brunettes/anyone with dark skin and hair with light eyes.

[kosmo]

Woah, kinky