Big date coming up, need ideas.

[MoeMag]

[MayAMonkeyBeYourPinata]

I just have to say walk softly. Going from a friendship to a relationship after so long a time is risky and often results in the loss of your friendship

[Rudz]

wisk her away

take her somewhere where u can be alone..maybe a weekend getaway..somewhere like the mountains..desert..a lake...spend the night..maybe some wine..just the two of you alone with eachother..

[MoeMag]

I just have to say walk softly. Going from a friendship to a relationship after so long a time is risky and often results in the loss of your friendship

You are right, I should have said something about that...
Thats why nothing has ever really happened, we dont want to mess up what we have, but it is getting harder and harder to ignore that there is something between us. I am so frikken nervous I am going to mess things up.

But am I wrong in wondering, can we be more?

take her somewhere where u can be alone..maybe a weekend getaway..somewhere like the mountains..desert..a lake...spend the night..maybe some wine..just the two of you alone with eachother..

I have a friends cabin up in the mountains, but thats reserved for when things are a little more... interesting.
Small steps for now.

[Rudz]

me

i was put in this situation..i spoke up and we decided to go beyond being freinds..it was wierd and we both kinda backed outd..i knew if i screwed it up, we would never be the same towards each other..so now we are still good freinds..but i always have those what ifs...

[kosmo]

Relationships with friends are tricky... Id reccomend you just stay friends. But demand "benefits".

Really though, I think the best date Ive been on was we went skydiving and then got plastered and watched some German exchange students shoot each other with roman candles. You could always try something like that.

[Soopa Villain17]

taker her to a nice resterraunt , take her shoppin , bring her home and giver her teh butt seks , jk just be nice . do what you did with your x ( unless u did something bad to make that relationship go by by) just make sure yur pimp hand is strong

[Dayspring]

That was a fantastic post...

[Hexis]

I think your best bet is to not ask for advice on the Internet.

[MoeMag]

[Altimas]

Lol the buut seks almost killed me... but seriously thought take it easy make small steps. Me and my wife were best friends our whole lives and even dated for 6 years before we got married...

[MicroMiniMe]

Go hiking and try and sneak in some skinny dipping as its getting dark just before you leave.
If she isn't ultra modest, and you can still play it off as being silly and not romantic.

[kosmo]

Woah woah woah, you saying the last few were bad includes my post. Thats total bull, chicks will do anything to see Germans blast each other with pyrotechnics. As far as Soopa, Im pretty sure we all knew he was going to suggest a restaurant,"teh butt secks", and pimp hands; he probably learned everything he knows about women while hanging out behind Ruby Tuesdays begging for scraps.

[MoeMag]

chicks will do anything to see Germans blast each other with pyrotechnics.

So very true, but how often does that situation present itself...

[cowboy_00]

maryland

Come to maryland and my brother and I would be honored to shoot at each other...its not like we dont anyway.


I've dated a few of my friends and just make sure that before anything happens you have an agreement that it will not mess up your friendship, make sure she knows that friends are still friends even if your arent seeing each other. If that doesnt work find some chloroform.



(no i dont actually encourage knocking her out and making her forget any events)