Now single

[Lenny]

Them Italians can be hairy, though, so watch out.

[paintballfiend]

Them Italians can be hairy, though, so watch out.

Maybe he's into that.

[Steelrat]

Well guys, it seems the whole married thing didnt work out for me, and I now am finding my self single again. any one have any advice whos been there before. I really think im going to be having trouble getting in to the single mind set, and dont want to just sit around the house all day doing nothing. where do you find girls any way, im dont think im much for the bar thing.
/yeah
t

Aw man, I'm sorry it didn't work out. I remember the whole thread where she had cheated on you, and I was hoping things would end up working out well for you.

Instead of the bar thing, maybe try nice coffee houses, or taking some night classes at a college. Possibly even hanging out at a smaller book store. I guess it really depends on what kind of woman you want to meet, and how you are at meeting them (i.e. do you hook up quickly, or does it take you a while to have them warm up to you.).

[Lohman446]

STEP ONE, trust me on this.

Take time out of the dating world. Now, this does not mean no women, but understand that anyone you happen to hook up with is only that.

Take time to establish your identity as a person without having someone else (most advise on month for every year of the relationship). Establish who you are, and teach yourself how to live without being in a relationship. It makes you stronger, less likely to jump into a relationship, and far more likely to enter an "equal" relationship.

Seriously, I know.

[BigEvil]

STEP ONE, trust me on this.

Take time out of the dating world. Now, this does not mean no women, but understand that anyone you happen to hook up with is only that.

Take time to establish your identity as a person without having someone else (most advise on month for every year of the relationship). Establish who you are, and teach yourself how to live without being in a relationship. It makes you stronger, less likely to jump into a relationship, and far more likely to enter an "equal" relationship.

Seriously, I know.

^
QFT

Remember.. any relationship you are in within 1 full year of the divorce being final will almost always end up in failure. I dont remember where I learned that, but its the gods honest truth.

[ahellers]

yeah, Im taking a few weeks leave and going home (AZ), I plan on taking a trip and drinking some beers in mexico.
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[Chobahk]

And remember now you don't have to ask to go play paintball...

[PyRo]

Buy a sports car ?

[ahellers]

I have been thinking about spending an outragous amount of money on somthing frivulous(sp?). I was thinking a custom shop strat
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[Thordic]

Hit the bars, it'll make you feel better.

Avoid relationships, just bone your way through a sea of women. Thats my reccomendation.

And yeah, wtf are you doing married and divorced by age 21?

[ahellers]

wtf are you doing married and divorced by age 21?

apparently not somthing right
t

[Thordic]

Which is exactly why you need to get as much tail as possible now.

Trust me, you'll regret it later if you don't. Life is too short. I'm old and wise :)

[kosmo]

What Kosmo said, except go to Eastern Europe. It's far cheaper, less tourists, and more approachable wimmens.

I didnt meet my Italain in Italy though, she was out on a trip too. But Eastern Europe is fantastic. Gotta be kinda careful though, the local women love you and the local men hate you for that. Can cause some problems every now and then.

[mag_lover05]

turn gay...




sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo jk

[gibby]

Go buy yourself a cute dog or a big handsome dog and take them to the dog park! I've seen some really good looking women walking their dogs and having that common interest will make it easy for you to approach that woman and break the ice.