Life . . . Fairness.

[punkncat]

I cry for you. I really can't say why. I don't really know you or her, but that just pulled tears right from me.

I suppose you can rejoice in that this happened after giving birth, and a bit of her lives on in that beautiful baby girl.

I can understand hard times. I can understand that which doesn't seem to be fair. Just know that everything in this world happens for a reason. Lots of times we don't know the whats and whys of it all, but even though its beyond our comprehension at the time, the Lord has a plan.

I wish you all the comfort possible. Its hard now but as time passes and you see the sparkle in that little babys eyes you will eventually feel better.

BIG HUG.....

[RRfireblade]

Thanks everyone , bug hugs back.

I think I'm going to take a break from stuff for a while. I've got a couple weeks of custom work to do , think I'll get that done , put my other stuff on hold and just get away and let stuff settle. It's been a long tough year.

Thanks again for listening.

Jay.

[txaggie08]

Why does someone you love have to Die to get you to . . .

When you figure that questions out, get back to me, I really want the right answer. I've been pondering that question for the last 11 years......since mom woke me up one morning to tell me dad had died.


I Feel for you in this loss, I truly do.

[warpig13]

I just got back from my 20th funeral in 2 years, all of people I knew well.

Sometimes life isn't what you want it to be. To be honest, it almost never is.
But you got to hang in there with your head held high. Part of human nature is death, and mourning it won't make any progress.

What's done is done, life will never be fair.
Condolences

[wetwrks]

Hey dude,

sorry to hear that. Prayers are with you and the family.

[Lenny]

This reminds me of my friend Emily's funeral. Only she was 17 and wasn't starting a family.

It sucks no matter how you look at it.

You have my condolences, Jay.

[CoolHand]

Damn man, and the hits just keep on coming.

I'd tell you to keep a stiff upper lip and all that, but the truth is that were our rolls reversed, I'd likely have two broken hands and a lot of stuff to fix around the house by now.

You're a better man than I.

[kylyo123456]

My heart goes out to you. Loss is a very difficult thing to deal with, and something every person will experience. I want to encourage you that there can be hope through all this and comfort. If I may, I would like to suggest a good read for you.

http://www.amazon.com/Cries-Heart-Ravi-Zacharias/dp/0849943876/ref=pd_bbs_sr_5?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1194996212&sr=8-5

Ravi Zacharias is amazing person and he tackles some issues I am sure you are struggling with right now. I would be more then happy to Paypal you the money to pick up this book (including the 3% those crooks!) just send me a PM or email me [email protected].

You don't have to experience this alone or rely on your own strength to get through it.

Please look into getting that book!

[electriceel125]

From experience I suggest you go out and play some paintball and just relax. Dont worry about if you win, lose, or shoot anyone. Just forget about the world.


Good Luck with tough times, AO is with you.

[Warwitch]

Sorry to hear that Jay

I've always been under the belief life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you perceive it. Sure, sometimes that 10 percent can seem overwhelming, but we just have to keep moving along. The manner in which we react to experiences builds character... and life continually tests this character. Knowing you (from the internet) I have no doubt your character will prevail for you and your friends.

Getting through the bad times is what makes the good times worth it.

Good luck.

Damn dude. Reading this I would think I wrote it. QFT

First off, very sorry to hear. Ive lost a lot of close family members at a young age (mother, grandmother, grandfather). And a few friends in the years since. I truly believe we never "get over" their loss. But its a loss that everyone will have to deal with at some point. And if we are to lead a meaningful, sucessful life we have to be able to come to terms with the mortality of our loved ones. That doesnt make it any less tragic, because it certainly is. I dont wish growing up motherless upon my worst enemy. And I truly feel for your friend. Hopefully he will find some solice in the light of his new child. And Jay, hang tough man. Keep your friend in your heart and not your head.

[Rudz]

funerals suck but sometimes it only brings us closer as a family, we are all brothers here, and we got your back man

[AirAssault]

Sorry for your loss. I guess for me death is a part of life but that doesn't make it any easier for sure. It's ok to not have all the answers and its also ok for you to take a break from being the strong one. I know men are supposed to be tough, but I call bunk on that. YOU need to take the time to grieve in what ever way works for YOU.

[blamtro]

best wishes

[rawbutter]

My deepest sympathies. That's a hard burden to bare.

Hey... the reason we're on this planet is to take care of each other. Reach out to those around you who are hurting, but also let people reach out to you (and I hope someone is).

[turbo chicken]

You, your friend, her husband and child will be in my prayer list.

Take your time off and heal.