Some girl advice...

[Kai]

A quick hint...


Don't say "lol" in your little spiel.

[yeahthatsme]

haha at kai....


anyways. do what they have been saying. say what you feel. all truth.be you and if she likes you you'll get yourself a girlfriend. but dont be all fake and scared. just walk up to her and ask her to the dance. be straight up you. if she doesnt like that than it wasnt meant to be.

[EsPo]

Re: Some girl advice...

Originally posted by InfinatyBPS
"eww, wtf are u asking me out? Get away EWWW!!!"

ive heard that line plenty of times.... i dont like girls anymore, i dont like guys either though...

[LittleKrems]

ill stick with paintball and guitar thats completely my decision not theirs

[Zumina]

Give it a shot man. I found out a few days ago that a girl whom I had an enormous crush on throughout highschool felt the same way about me. Kinda sux finding out a day late and a dollar short. Oh well.....

[EsPo]

Originally posted by LittleKrems
ill stick with paintball and guitar thats completely my decision not theirs

thats right man.. D&D and drums dont tell me i suck, like most girls do.

[FooTemps]

Dude, I would ask outside of school in person. I mean, I tried to meet w/ the girl just to hang out and ask her to homecoming... too bad her friend had to hook her up the same day... lol, now she isn't going to homecoming so we (all my friends) can hang and do stuff... lol

[gibby]

I say go for it...never assume things either. If you're that tight with her and communicate well, there shouldn't be anything you couldn't ask her. Believe me, spending hours upon hours wondering isn't going to help any. Best thing to do is to face your fears and ask.

Remember, be confident...but not arrogant. Be yourself and don't try to impress too much. Afterall, she knows you and would probably get turned off if she found out you're trying to be someone you're not.

There's much to be said about a good friendship. Sometimes, the hottest looking girl will look towards a guy's personality rather than looks. And if you can make her laugh, that's an even bigger plus.

GOOD LUCK!! And keep us posted! I'm sure we'd all like to know!!

Cheers,
Rey

[InfinatyBPS]

Well, I was going to do it today, but ya, I wussed out, I will try again tommarow. And I will try my best to be confident, well I am already kinda confident, I'm me and if you don't like it, sux for you!!! :) I will be myself WHEN(notice not if) I ask :)

[gibby]

Originally posted by InfinatyBPS
I will try again tommarow.

I've qouted you on that one!! Don't let us down! We all know you can do it! Also, when she accepts, don't run away and say cya later...hang around and show her how happy you are that she accepted. It's like running away when the other person has their arms wide open to hug you...LOL!!

And yeah...like someone said above...don't say LOL!! That might freak her out some! JK!!

[FrAuStY]

Ok...

Here's what you do.. next time you see her.. take a deep breath, don't think about anything. Calmly walk up to her. Start conversation, ask her about the dance, be like "Hey, you know the dance thats comin up right? You want to go with me? I'd really like to take you. It'll be fun I promise." and if that doesn't work.. stalk her.. worked for me LOL just kidding bout the stalking thing.. had to make you laugh.

But on a more serious note, as it's been said before.. be mature about it. Be a MAN about it. If anything, and if she says no.. don't sweat it mang, it's her loss. One day, you'll find that one, that makes you feel all tingly inside, the one that is like your other half. Things will click. Trust me, I used to be the dork no body wanted to date/dance with. Now...I have a wonderful, beautiful girlfriend who would give the world for me.

Just remember, you're young, have a lot of years left in front of you. Right now, it's your time to have fun! Not to worry about "She doesn't like me.. OMG, the world is going to end now" Trust me, the sun will rise the next day. It always has.. and always will. BTW, make sure you're wearing clean undies.. hehe (laughin?)

[InfinatyBPS]

Originally posted by FrAuStY
Ok...

Here's what you do.. next time you see her.. take a deep breath, don't think about anything. Calmly walk up to her. Start conversation, ask her about the dance, be like "Hey, you know the dance thats comin up right? You want to go with me? I'd really like to take you. It'll be fun I promise." and if that doesn't work.. stalk her.. worked for me LOL just kidding bout the stalking thing.. had to make you laugh.

But on a more serious note, as it's been said before.. be mature about it. Be a MAN about it. If anything, and if she says no.. don't sweat it mang, it's her loss. One day, you'll find that one, that makes you feel all tingly inside, the one that is like your other half. Things will click. Trust me, I used to be the dork no body wanted to date/dance with. Now...I have a wonderful, beautiful girlfriend who would give the world for me.

Just remember, you're young, have a lot of years left in front of you. Right now, it's your time to have fun! Not to worry about "She doesn't like me.. OMG, the world is going to end now" Trust me, the sun will rise the next day. It always has.. and always will. BTW, make sure you're wearing clean undies.. hehe (laughin?)

Yes, I do have clean undies :) hehehe. I know if she says no, I'll be ok, I won't freak out or anything, I'll just be like, oh well, I tried.

[Devil]

Well...from a female...
Does she talk to you about other guys?
If not...then that means maybe she thinks of you more than just a friend...if she just has you as a guy FRIEND then it would be her always asking your advice on other guys...which doesn't mean she doesn't like you...but maybe that it's not exactly what you want right now...I think she'd go to homecoming with you...I mean if she's a friend and all...
Whatever happens....Good Luck!

[Archangel Damien]

you can do it

[shartley]

Originally posted by Archangel Damien
you can do it

You can do it... alllll night longggggg!

(sorry, every time I see or hear "you can do it" I get flashbacks)