I am very depressed, my g/f broke up w/ me.

[1stdeadeye]

Originally posted by aaron_mag
Shartley has a point. I can definetely say I have gotten finishing the entire process in record time down to an art form. Not to mention the fact that my wife has figured out how to multitask during the process. Can't tell you the number of times I've caught her planning out her day/week while supposedly caught up in "passion"

Sorry. Getting way off topic here. But at least hostage you can get some humor out of it to amuse you.

So we should call AM the nuclear missle of AO, you know the Minuteman!

I guess that smirk on my wife's face when she said it should be a hint then.

[Daroach]

Originally posted by Miscue
Living with a girl is a cardinal sin. Frequent sleep-overs are fine though... but you both need your own place. Oh, and don't ever leave anything valuable/important at her place... and don't let her leave stuff. Nothing is certain.

Does that mean i need to quit leaving my Xmag with Postitnote in Austin rather then taking it home to houston?

[ShooterJM]

Originally posted by Daroach


Does that mean i need to quit leaving my Xmag with Postitnote in Austin rather then taking it home to houston?

You let it out of your sight!?!?!?

[Daroach]

Originally posted by ShooterJM


You let it out of your sight!?!?!?

yea and quite often too, altho i only do it when i know i am going to go play paintball up in austin the next weekend or so

[.bolink]

My gf dumped me about a week ago now. We were each others first everything (holding hands, kiss, ahem, ect, ect) and went out for two years. Bottomline is we moved way to fast for our ages (we were 15 and 16 at the time) and we ended up just burning ourselves out I geuss. I still love her though, I geuss you will probably never get over your first relationship, especially when it was as good as the one I had. Its been a rough week, ive lost 15 pounds, and have gotten maybe 6 hours of sleep. But ive decided that I am actively going to make an effort to move on. I allready have a few dates lined up and am very excited at the prospect of trying something new.

Thats all the advice I can offer...suck it up, get out, get some dates, and get your mind off of it.

[MicrOMag]

[MicrOMag]

Originally posted by shartley

Eh thats the idea of foreplay tho, u want it to last awhile. It takes no skill to 'get a girl off' quickly, but to be able to make her rise and fall at your every touch and tease her along the way is what makes the finish completely satisfying and truely a climax.

[Torbo]

my friend got shut down couple days ago. I had loads of people over at my house. him and his gf went outside, i guess to get away from all the rest of us. They went to second in my driveway. (it was dark, i wasnt watching, its all what ive been told) Anyway, he told her that he loved her, and she said "no you dont". So that on top of other struggles between them (the girl flirting with other people even when the guy is around, the guy being not very turthfull), i guess theyre probably not going to last real long. So ill have to like keep him from emotionaly imploding.

[fenris69]

ah the pain... I feel really bad for you man, that's not pleasant.

Don't be surprised if she calls you up at some point tho, so if you still really dig this girl and believe that you love her then don't run around dipping your wick till your sure it's through...or she wouldn't mind, either one.

Someone mentioned love is a chemical effect, and that's true. 2-3 years is generally the breaking point for most marriages, about that time the chemicals, like all drugs wear off to a point. It's possible to renew the effect with a LOT of relationship effort...but ppl are generally too lazy. When you hit this turning point there has to be a general deep affection and desire to enjoy each others company, that's what gets you into the rest of your life. She may have woke up, realized she didn't have that "in love" feeling...cause you get used to it and suddenly it creeps up on you that ... hey! i dont feel the same anymore... uh oh.. *panic time* I think I've gone through that with my current relationship 2-3 times already, and each time it gets easier as I realize why I want to stay with her. But... you never know how things turn out, I hope it all works out for you man, with the same chick. If not? there'll be another, sure as hell. But keep in mind, the loss of that feeling is natural, and you may wanna get your emotions under control and mention that to her in an offhand manner...

wait a bit tho, women I find are more attached to the, er... man I'm not trying to make them sound materialistic exactly, but lets say...
"the benefits" of a relationship rather than the intangible aspects I find, so she'll miss that closeness and emotional comfort etc...

well, thats my 2 dollars and 50 cents, good luck bro.

[ZSigErik]

Ahem, it was ME who made the chemical reaction post...sorry.....Im Done....