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  • impostal22
    disgruntled...
    • Apr 2003
    • 1623

    #46
    Originally posted by Trigger_Happy
    very informative and well thought out post. i only have two real problems...

    number one...you're stating that making laws regarding marriage strengthens the institution. it can be argued (pretty solidly) that making laws regarding marriage (most of which are fiscal in nature) actually detracts from the institution. you're arguing that laws are made to strengthen marriage and therefore strengthen families. by throwing money into the scheme of marriage, it complicates things greatly. look at the extreme marriage and divorce rate of our country. one must wonder why it's as high as it is. the obvious response would be that people are rushing into getting married, without thinking of all that it implies. now we must wonder what makes people rush into getting married? it is VERY obvious that by making fiscal law regarding marriage that money becomes a big factor in getting married; i think we can all agree to that. so if it's a very big factor in the decision, it can be assumed that a good percentage of marriages decisions are pushed into action through monetary persuasion. so in the end, fiscal rewards for marriage actually detract from the institution, and at least help raise the number of divorces in this country.

    number TWO, you're saying that raising a kid with two moms or two dads is different, well OBVIOUSLY it is. but is it necessarily different for the worse? being raised by one mom or one dad probably has a MUCH more adverse affect on the child than being raised by two of the same. so then with that logic, shouldn't divorce be illegal too? since it completely undermines the institution of marriage, not to mention the family unit and the lives of the children that are oh so important?

    and in the first part of your post you said that lawmakers care about families being strong, so the kids can grow up and become good kids etc. who are you to say that two homosexuals cannot raise a child and have the SAME broad effect on society? if that was what lawmakers TRULY cared about, they wouldn't make it unlawful for gays to marry. why? because they are JUST as capable of contributing to society in that sense as heterosexuals.

    sooooooo then we must wonder what actually drives lawmakers to disallow gay marriages? religion quite blatantly plays a huge role in this debate. according to christianity, the dominant religion in america, homosexuality alone (not even marriage) is BAD. and if the majority of the nation feels that something is bad, it isn't about to become legal in the traditional way. i'll therefore only justify judicial activism because everybody knows that the legislature is corrupt beyond belief with ties to special interests, etc. judges become judges independent of special interests, so i trust them a little more than i do legislators. while it is probably a bad precedent to set, there are plenty of other precedents we're setting that you guys aren't complaining about. for instance...reneging out of foreign treaties simply because we don't care anymore, INVADING ANOTHER COUNTRY WITHOUT THE PERMISSION OF THE UN. think about that last one. any other country can now use our precedent as an excuse for invading a country. russia could go invade whoever they wanted, using our precedent as a crutch. and if we try to stop them, how hypocrticial do we look? and hypocrites don't have too many friends. i think THAT precedent is far more grave than judicial activism.

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    • Trigger_Happy
      Magic Elf #02485
      • Apr 2002
      • 807

      #47
      I like that line of thought. Very good argument. I'd like to a bit of research, but I need to get my communications homework done before class. I'll pretent to be on-topic by closing with: "I'll be bach"

      Really quickly, please don't even make me think about the UN and all of its communist ties. I wish we'd pull out and stop funding that socialistic load of crap of an organization. Did you know that during the founding of the UN a couple of the delegates the united states sent were later found to be russion spies and convicted of treason!?! Those were OUR delegates! Not to mention all the other openly communist countries that worked to found the UN! Some other time in some other thread we'll have to talk about the UN and its utter worthlessness, but not here. We've got enough on our hands.
      -For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain. Philipians 1:21

      -Don't try to use your fancy smancy "logic" on me! It won't work!

      -It is better to stay silent, and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

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      • joey d
        yes, I run akaowners.org
        • Apr 2003
        • 2030

        #48
        hey

        is anyone here old enough to remember the emotional charge that interracial marriages caused? we sure got over that pretty quickly


        **edit**

        i also want to nominate this thread for the best thread hijack ever. i love this board for the reason people can talk about a subject like this on such a rational level. :)
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        • impostal22
          disgruntled...
          • Apr 2003
          • 1623

          #49
          Originally posted by joey d
          i also want to nominate this thread for the best thread hijack ever. i love this board for the reason people can talk about a subject like this on such a rational level. :)
          LOL i was thinking the same thing...my thread was seriously hijacked...but i think this is far more interesting/contraversial anyway...

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          • shartley
            paintball player
            • Mar 2001
            • 9169

            #50

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            • Kai

              #51
              Trigger. I liked your post. Although I don't agree with it, at least it was well thought out, and not religion-based.

              Sam. What about democracy? A majority of the people would have opposed the abolition of slavery. A majority of people hated to see segregation go the way of the dinosaur. Sometimes, it takes the intervention of someone with a clear head to do what's right. (And yes, I know the above could be abused. Don't bother to point that out.)

              A large majority of people I know are homophobic. (Lemme give you an up to date definition. It not only encompasses fear, but hate, and a lack of understanding.) I hate to see the general population opposed to gay marriage because of ignorance, but that IS why a MAJORITY of them support a ban.

              How is two gay people getting married IN YOUR FACE? How can you fault them for wishing to lead as normal a life as possible, and pursuing what they (and all heterosexuals)have been raised to believe is a neccessary step in the road of life? You act as though they CHOOSE to be gay, and so should not be allowed to join the party.

              Civil Unions are NOT the same as marriage. Sam, would YOU be content being united civilly with your wife, as opposed to being married? Anyone else?

              Marriage is no longer exclusively religious, as was pointed out earlier. It is something that people of all religions, sexual orientations, etc... strive for. Why should they settle for a second rate imposter?

              Also, on a side note... Are homosexuals allowed to adopt?

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              • RoadDawg
                Degeneration X is back
                • May 2001
                • 4023

                #52
                Originally posted by Kai

                Also, on a side note... Are homosexuals allowed to adopt?
                I believe they are able to. Whether or not it actually happens is hard to say. Kai I agree with you 100% on your above post. Hit home the point I was trying to make.
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                • shartley
                  paintball player
                  • Mar 2001
                  • 9169

                  #53
                  Originally posted by Kai
                  Sam. What about democracy? A majority of the people would have opposed the abolition of slavery. A majority of people hated to see segregation go the way of the dinosaur. Sometimes, it takes the intervention of someone with a clear head to do what's right. (And yes, I know the above could be abused. Don't bother to point that out.)
                  Sorry, but you may want to look at how that all came about. You are being over simplistic to a complex change in laws.

                  A large majority of people I know are homophobic. (Lemme give you an up to date definition. It not only encompasses fear, but hate, and a lack of understanding.) I hate to see the general population opposed to gay marriage because of ignorance, but that IS why a MAJORITY of them support a ban.How is two gay people getting married IN YOUR FACE? How can you fault them for wishing to lead as normal a life as possible, and pursuing what they (and all heterosexuals)have been raised to believe is a neccessary step in the road of life? You act as though they CHOOSE to be gay, and so should not be allowed to join the party.Civil Unions are NOT the same as marriage. Sam, would YOU be content being united civilly with your wife, as opposed to being married? Anyone else? Marriage is no longer exclusively religious, as was pointed out earlier. It is something that people of all religions, sexual orientations, etc... strive for. Why should they settle for a second rate imposter?Also, on a side note... Are homosexuals allowed to adopt?

                  I believe so.

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                  • joey d
                    yes, I run akaowners.org
                    • Apr 2003
                    • 2030

                    #54
                    on another note. has anyone ever spoken to a person who is homosexual on the issue? ever get their point of view? anyone have parents that are? care to admit it?

                    :raises hand:

                    i will come out full heartedly and admit that my mother is homosexual. she was once married, had the family thing going, got divorced from her husband, and is STILL an excellent mother. are you trying to tell my me, that my mother, is now denied the right to marry again, to another person she loves?

                    (now, before you use the divorce against my mother. know that there was an infidelity on her husbands part with resulted in the divorce. so, you can't say that she wouldn't love the person she is with now. which, from being around both of them, i know she does very much so.)

                    so, I ask you. who are you to tell my mother that she cannot marry her girlfriend. (also, she has more insight on all of this than any of us. for starters, well, she is part of the gay community. and second, she is a lawyer, with a PhD.)
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                    • shartley
                      paintball player
                      • Mar 2001
                      • 9169

                      #55
                      Originally posted by joey d
                      on another note. has anyone ever spoken to a person who is homosexual on the issue? ever get their point of view? anyone have parents that are? care to admit it?

                      :raises hand:

                      i will come out full heartedly and admit that my mother is homosexual. she was once married, had the family thing going, got divorced from her husband, and is STILL an excellent mother. are you trying to tell my me, that my mother, is now denied the right to marry again, to another person she loves?

                      (now, before you use the divorce against my mother. know that there was an infidelity on her husbands part with resulted in the divorce. so, you can't say that she wouldn't love the person she is with now. which, from being around both of them, i know she does very much so.)

                      so, I ask you. who are you to tell my mother that she cannot marry her girlfriend. (also, she has more insight on all of this than any of us. for starters, well, she is part of the gay community. and second, she is a lawyer, with a PhD.)

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                      • joey d
                        yes, I run akaowners.org
                        • Apr 2003
                        • 2030

                        #56
                        not really personal to me. I do not care whether the law changes or not. It would be nice to see that it does to include homosexuals, as they are, afterall human like you and me (though some people may disagree)

                        also, we are worried about laws whereas that would allow gay couples to marry. what about states that have passed laws for cousins to marry?
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                        • shartley
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                          • Mar 2001
                          • 9169

                          #57
                          Originally posted by joey d
                          not really personal to me. I do not care whether the law changes or not. It would be nice to see that it does to include homosexuals, as they are, afterall human like you and me (though some people may disagree)

                          also, we are worried about laws whereas that would allow gay couples to marry. what about states that have passed laws for cousins to marry?

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                          • joey d
                            yes, I run akaowners.org
                            • Apr 2003
                            • 2030

                            #58
                            sam, i think you missed it. what I am saying is that, those laws were passed. as asenine as it sounds (to some, others, not so much...) on that same token, what would stop this law from being passed? again, we are worried about passing a law that would allow homosexuals to get married, but lawmakers have already passed one to allow cousins to be married in certain states.
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                            • impostal22
                              disgruntled...
                              • Apr 2003
                              • 1623

                              #59
                              Originally posted by shartley
                              you really REALLY need to stop using the "it isn't a law, so they can't do it" idea. ESPECIALLY if you supported the invasion of iraq, which was completely and totally ILLEGAL. BUT, let's not delve into that, considering how hijacked this thread is already.

                              the point is, the legislature is no longer a reliable place to get laws changed, whether you like it or not. if you don't have money (influence), then you won't get anything changed. the creators of the system of checks and balances did NOT intend for one of the (all of the) branches of government to become corrupted by money. so things have changed, and to get things done, you can no longer rely on the system of checks and balances.

                              people argue that the u.s. had to act illegally by ignoring the UN because the UN is no longer effective in this day and age. well guess what, NEITHER is our system of checks and balances. and here's the best part! if the law that judges create is unconstitutional, it will be challenged in court and if it is a big enough blunder, it will go to the supreme court and be decided on the federal level. so quit whining about judicial activism, because if the laws are SO unlawful, then they'll eventually be shot down anyway.

                              things are changing, and that's why judicial activism is REQUIRED to change the laws of our country. if you think for a second you can have any influence whatsoever on legislators without money, you need to wake up.

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                              • RoadDawg
                                Degeneration X is back
                                • May 2001
                                • 4023

                                #60
                                Originally posted by impostal22


                                you really REALLY need to stop using the "it isn't a law, so they can't do it" idea. ESPECIALLY if you supported the invasion of iraq, which was completely and totally ILLEGAL. BUT, let's not delve into that, considering how hijacked this thread is already.

                                the point is, the legislature is no longer a reliable place to get laws changed, whether you like it or not. if you don't have money (influence), then you won't get anything changed. the creators of the system of checks and balances did NOT intend for one of the (all of the) branches of government to become corrupted by money. so things have changed, and to get things done, you can no longer rely on the system of checks and balances.

                                people argue that the u.s. had to act illegally by ignoring the UN because the UN is no longer effective in this day and age. well guess what, NEITHER is our system of checks and balances. and here's the best part! if the law that judges create is unconstitutional, it will be challenged in court and if it is a big enough blunder, it will go to the supreme court and be decided on the federal level. so quit whining about judicial activism, because if the laws are SO unlawful, then they'll eventually be shot down anyway.

                                things are changing, and that's why judicial activism is REQUIRED to change the laws of our country. if you think for a second you can have any influence whatsoever on legislators without money, you need to wake up.
                                SIDE NOTE* impostal have you ever read "Best Democracy that Money Can Buy" by Greg Palast? Just wondering cause I'm reading it now and it's really quite interesting. I also just finished reading Howard Zinn's "A People's History of The United States", which was also a great book. If not I through out the suggestion of reading them. *back to topic*
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