how to tell if its a date?

[JuggaloDave]

yeah i know, it sounds kinda stupid, but i couldnt ever find this girl to ask her out, so i left a note on her car asking if she wanted to go-out or go paintballing(yeah, shes perfect, seriously). anyway, she called me back the other day and we gunna go out tommarow or tuesday, but i dont know if shes thinking the same thing i am and it is a date, or its just 2 people getting togeter and getting some food. i kow i could just straight ask her, but if she isnt thinking its a date i dont wanna, i dunno, it seems like it would be a bit ackward.
and yeah, im a dork, 19 and this is the first girl ive ever asked out lol(and no, it has noting to do with my being a juggalo), so now thats out of the way.

[ryanshep]

imo, if u take her to a "fancier" sit down restaurant then its a date, but if its just like fast food drive through then its more just grabbing a bite to eat.

[1ofkind]

Hanging out, dating aren't they the same?

[dwab3000]

well juggalo...is she a juggelette

anyway...ask her...really shyness is in your mind...and millions of people have done this many time before...

just get what you want down, and be clear about it

[Mikey B]

Don't feel like a loser, I aksed my girlfriend out over the internet(not blind we go to school together). But id say the line between dating and friendly get together would be if it goes well or not, as in don't make her upset by saying so,ething stupid or if you want awkward, ask a girl out but not knowing she already was going out with another guy

[fuzzynutzipper]

well... when you go to pick her up or meet or whatever... ask her if she has any raisins as soon as you see her. When she says no, you say how about a date. That way... you'll make her laugh, if she gets the joke, and it'll show that you want it to be a date.

[FutureMagOwner]

lol, that is a terribly lame joke but it may just work, simply ask or go out with out asking and youll find out maybe

[Adrenaline_Junkie]

Just see how this time goes and stuff then the next time you wanna ask her out on a date make it clear its a date. This is your oppurtunity to just have fun with her and stuff without being worried if its a date or not.

[Kevmaster]

why does it matter?

no, seriously, why?

[Adrenaline_Junkie]

I was wondering the same thing lol. I mean either way they are hangin out and stuff so imo it shouldnt matter if its considered a date or not.

[PyRo]

well... when you go to pick her up or meet or whatever... ask her if she has any raisins as soon as you see her. When she says no, you say how about a date. That way... you'll make her laugh, if she gets the joke, and it'll show that you want it to be a date.

I don't get it

[PyRo]

I was wondering the same thing lol. I mean either way they are hangin out and stuff so imo it shouldnt matter if its considered a date or not.

It may be a little awkward if he tries to kiss her and she says "wtf are you doing, I have a boyfriend"

[Adrenaline_Junkie]

Simple fix, he just doesnt kiss her that night.

[Kevmaster]

It may be a little awkward if he tries to kiss her and she says "wtf are you doing, I have a boyfriend"

i think the two of you will know whether a kiss is right...

play it as it unfolds.

[JuggaloDave]

i dont think shes seeing anyone as of right now, and i know her ex, and hes a cool guy. seems like hes been a bit nicer/more talkitive to me seince she called me though, although its like hey dude whats up and not im gunna kick your *** so i guess thats cool lol.
part of why it matters is i dont wanna dress freash make her feel like an *** cause she is just wearing what ever, i guess im just nervous and **** cause i realy like her...ohwell, maybe if all goes well she can come play paintball with us and later on i can let her use my co.....hmmmm, that could be taken 2 ways