how to tell if its a date?

[dre1919]

Ok, I gotta jump in here and say the very fact she called you from a NOTE you left on her car should tell you something. Girls don't call guys anyway...they don't have too...and she went ahead and called you from a note on a car? You gotta be kidding me! That's a pretty good sign bro. What you need to do is this: wear something casual but not too nice, and just go somewhere "in the middle". What I mean is, take her some places that could really be regarded as either one...just hanging out or a date. Then, as you spend time with her, pay attention to her body language. Does she seem interested in what you have to say? Does she constantly make an effort to touch you physically, even when it doesn't seem necissary? Does she touch her hair a lot? These are all body cues that she's into you. Play it cool, but be assertive. Almost every woman I've ever met likes a man with confidence and a real idea of what they want. Even if they aren't quite into you at first, many a lady has come around seeing how determined a guy is in wanting to be with them. That impresses them. Good luck, Juggalo.

"There's only three way to stop me from doing what I do...what?...You think I'm gonna tell you?"

[JuggaloDave]

cool dre thanks, that prolly the best info ive gotten. and yeah, i know alot of people told me not to leave a note on her car, but i was getting tired of wondering around wal-mart every other night looking for her for a week. and she was the one who was always trying to talk to me(i usually keep to myself, so its kinda, i dunno i've never had a girl just come up and start talking to me, they usually just give me acward looks like wtf is wrong that guy.
i accedently sent an im to her phone that was sapposed to be going to a friend to thank him for dropping off my cocker, and to tell him i finally asked her out, that pritty much said that i hoped she thinks it is a date cause really like her and hopfully i can finally get a girlfriend for once, so, yeah, i guess she knows what im thinkin now lol.

[Caffiend]

If you take her out and afterwards she drops her pants for you - it's a date.

not if she just wants to be a friend with benefits They each pay and then she drops her pants...

Good tip on the touching part Dre. If she breaks the physical contact barrier it's most likely a date, but don't you go breaking it, in case it's not. When she's talking, look at her eyes, it'll show interest, if she's looking back in your eyes, it's a good sign. Along with the touching her hair part, if she's touches her mouth alot, that's a good sign too...but you are eating so maybe she's just making sure she doesn't have any food there Don't get too worked up about it though, she's probably just as nervous as you are.

[FutureMagOwner]

looks like you solved the problem yourself lol