Whymillywhy's Girl Problems Thread with Pics

[Warrior_Rocker]

Dont know who said it but im 15 (this is Echo419 posting this on my bros comp real fast) I've been in love with this girl for 3 years, we're still best friends. It is possible and it blowwwwws... I really almost killed myself at one point, only girl thats made me cry on the phone with her... tear tear

[whymillywhy]

That is another thing, a few years ago I was real good friends with this girl, I waited on it, and now, she left me, and hangs out with a bunch of *****y girls, thats what happens when I wait

[Duzzy]

Well, I know it will be different if we break up, its just I think if we got through the whole beginning thing, we would be good together, but I think her friends with affect her, and if I did ask her, it would be all over the school and I would be reduced to nothing

(Puts on yellow polk-a-dot dress and "Dear Abby" name tag)

I realize that I am a very apathetic person but why do you care? If she is going to let her friends dictate her life than do you really want someone like that?

(Takes off dress and name tag)

Personally I like girls who are independent.

(Puts dress and name tag back on... Chases away weird guy from Dorm Room next door who was looking through key hole...)

Your preference may be different but if she is just going to please the crowd then she has no sense of identity. And you will never know who she really is because she won't know either, she will only know that these people want her this way so she is.

(Take off dress and name tag)

I like girls who are independent, have a sense of humor, are willing to be silly and have fun doing stupid things, and is intelligent (don't care about book smarts I want someone who can think).

[Warrior_Rocker]

I like girls who are independent, have a sense of humor, are willing to be silly and have fun doing stupid things, and is intelligent (don't care about book smarts I want someone who can think).

I just saved that to my computer, cuz im the same way but i never can word it

-Echo419

[whymillywhy]

She is somewhat indepent, she has a sense of humor, She does stupid things at time, I like her personality, but I better get to bed

Anyone else notice that when you can't sleep, Your cat goes and sits next to you until you get to sleep or it that just my Intelligent Cat? I was thinking about her last night and I couldn't get to bed, and my cat came right up next to me until I could get to sleep...Weird

[the badman]

to young to be serious

hi i have to say somthing ,
I really think you should let her get to know the real you after you get to know the real you ....... first things first what do you like , if you don't know that then how do you know if you really like her ....

[Duzzy]

I just saved that to my computer, cuz im the same way but i never can word it

Make sure you change the "is" to an "are". Nothing like gramatical correctness to get the ladies. On a side note, I read somewhere that if you do talk to girls via electronic means that do not involve audio, it makes them feel important when you use correct diction/grammar/punctuation, it makes them feel like someone you care about enough to take the extra time and effort to make things clear.

[Duzzy]

hi i have to say somthing ,
I really think you should let her get to know the real you after you get to know the real you ....... first things first what do you like , if you don't know that then how do you know if you really like her ....

That could take a while, most people spend years trying to figure out who they are.

However, my theory is this...

Identity is defined by your beliefs, the inner core of who you are as a person are beliefs that you would die for i.e. Freedom, Religion etc.

To me, people who are willing to die for nothing have no identity because sooner or later they will give in and change to avoid something unpleasant.

You have nothing to live for unless you have something to die for...

[billybob_81067]

and well me, not being the most popular kid, has no girl skills.

Chicks dig the guys with the skills... You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills... Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills.

Do you think it's right to post a picture of this 7th grade girl on the internet where a bunch of hungry pedophiles can look at it?

You aren't talking about Unka Phil are ya???

[ImpLin]

Just ask her out if you like her, whats the worst that could happen? If she regects you will probally feel like crap but you gotta learn to deal with these situations sometime.

My first serious relationship was at the age of 15, we were "in love" and were gonna "last forever" but she ended up screwing some 19 year old guy and we broke up very shortly after. I felt like crap for a while but got over it, got into another relationship, broke up, felt like crap for a while then got over it. Lifes a journy not a destination.

[RevBrown]

Im just afraid if I wait, I will lose my chance, and she is into older guys too

This won't mean squat in a year. In ten you will be laughing at your self.
Of course she is into older guys,she is in seventh grade. Alot of kids have themselves convinced they are older than they really are mentally. Slow down you still have alot of time ahead of you.
I can guarantee you this won't be the omly girl you feel ATTRACTION to.

But relax and be yourself.

And give up the "I am more comfortable online" stuff. Thats a fast track to turn off's later in life.

[nippinout]

AO. You gotta love it, da?

Grow some balls and ask her out.

But keep in mind that there is no such thing as love in high school. That doesn't mean that you can't have fun though.

I like Jonneh's idea.

[RogueFactoryKid]

A) You have not fallen in love, maybe just your penis.

"You gotta follow your Penis' Heart." -The magical Negro

[SIGSays]

how is this a problem? you didn't even talk to her about it.... i'm in the same situation.. but not with a 14 year old.. and i'm gonna talk to the girl.. common sense man... just do it.. and if she's your friend she'll take the time and listen to you... if she don't.. then forget her...

[MayAMonkeyBeYourPinata]

Tis true, but if you go into a relationship with only yourself in mind where will it be when you don't get what you want consistently? Oh yeah, with someone else most likely. On the other hand if both people go into it seeing what they can give the person then in theory everyone should be happy. You give to them and take what they give to you, give and take. Like I said, I am still working on it myself, but the principle is not a bad one.

Exactly