A theatrical/love dilemma

**billybob_81067** · 03-14-2006, 10:43 PM

Originally posted by slade

im sorry, didnt you have a wife and daughter?

go make a dollhouse.

So I can't talk about women wrestling in pudding???

Go play with your dollhouse...

**tropical_fishy** · 03-14-2006, 10:50 PM

Originally posted by billybob_81067

So I can't talk about women wrestling in pudding???

Go play with your dollhouse...

Stellar comeback. A+.

In other news, I feel really bad for your wife.

**wad04** · 03-14-2006, 11:09 PM

20 bucks says you're going to own a minivan with a bumper sticker that says "I heart my wife"

**Recon by Fire** · 03-15-2006, 05:38 AM

The problem with early marriages is that one or both of the parties have not fully matured. 110% of the people in this age range will swear up and down they have, blah, blah, blah...including every AO'er here in that group. But then a few years down the road, they find themselves/their partner, or both, as completely different people and they wonder why they ever hooked up with this person and where the person they feel in love went to. The whole scenario is worse if it is only the other party that changes personality wise and you are the one left wanting them back.

Disagree if you must, but you will be and are wrong

**Lohman446** · 03-15-2006, 09:20 AM

Originally posted by Recon by Fire

The problem with early marriages is that one or both of the parties have not fully matured. 110% of the people in this age range will swear up and down they have, blah, blah, blah...including every AO'er here in that group. But then a few years down the road, they find themselves/their partner, or both, as completely different people and they wonder why they ever hooked up with this person and where the person they feel in love went to. The whole scenario is worse if it is only the other party that changes personality wise and you are the one left wanting them back.

Disagree if you must, but you will be and are wrong

I think that is more true than anyone wants to hear. People change over time, and the under 30 time often has a lot of major changes in pesonality / wants / goals, etc. One may find that these changes leave people who were great together incompatible, not through a fault of the parties, just life. Sometimes one party regrets not having the "party" time that some of there friends did when they were young. Well I wish those involved the best of luck to those involved do be aware of the problems often faced.

**warbeak2099** · 03-15-2006, 09:22 AM

Again, how do you know I'm not one of the people that can make it work?

**Lohman446** · 03-15-2006, 09:28 AM

Originally posted by warbeak2099

Again, how do you know I'm not one of the people that can make it work?

Don't. In fact I hope you do and wish you the best of luck. Most of us who have experienced it caution you of the pitfalls. Not because of jealousy, but because we have been there and hate to see people repeat mistakes we have made.

I have never met a teenager who would admit there own personality faults honestly. I have seldom met any that do not see themselves as "perfect". The Emo I whine because its cool crowd doesn't count to me just for the record.

**tropical_fishy** · 03-15-2006, 10:38 AM

Originally posted by Lohman446

Don't. In fact I hope you do and wish you the best of luck. Most of us who have experienced it caution you of the pitfalls. Not because of jealousy, but because we have been there and hate to see people repeat mistakes we have made.

I have never met a teenager who would admit there own personality faults honestly. I have seldom met any that do not see themselves as "perfect". The Emo I whine because its cool crowd doesn't count to me just for the record.

I am not old like these people but I still agree. Except on the making mistakes part, because I am 18, invincible, and do not make mistakes ever.

**SCpoloRicker** · 03-15-2006, 02:15 PM

Originally posted by warbeak2099

Sorry, none of that is backed by empirical evidence. It isn't real science, simply people charading as scientists.

Yes Lohman, I can rate my own level of comittment. Those studies were conducted as case studies. The experimenters collected information from subjects about their personal feelings towards commitment and reciprocity, and documented how long they stayed with their partner. Because I feel such a strong sense of loyalty and comittment and because I tend to ignore the faults of my significant other, I am exhibiting the same type of behavior as the subjects who had the more succesful, long lasting relationships. Now if I were the kind of person who doesn't like to be tied down, I would feel differently. But, my personality and my gf's personality match almost identically with the personalities of the longer lasting relationships in those studies.

I'm just saying that there are more factors in a succesful relationship than the time period you begin dating in. I mean, there are plenty of people who begin dating in highschool and who have succesful marriages. There are plenty of the opposite too. It all depends on the kind of relationship you have and the partners' personalities.

Why am I continuing this!!?? Lol, I love arguing even though this is annoying the crap out of me. Ok Lohman and everyone else. Let's just agree to disagree. You don't think I'm likely to make it and I think I will. Just let me have my confidence!

I love this girl, I'm going to marry her, and that's final!!! Now be happy for me that I've found what a lot of adults can't find! Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

You know, I can rant also. I just don't have to.

/also sure I'm always correct

**Hexis** · 03-15-2006, 02:29 PM

I think what he was trying to say was: "How dare you tell a teenager he is not infallible?!?!?!"

**billybob_81067** · 03-15-2006, 03:02 PM

Originally posted by tropical_fishy

Stellar comeback. A+.

In other news, I feel really bad for your wife.

First off... my comeback was 115% better than his original statement, which isn't saying much since his entire post was utterly retarded.

Secondly you shouldn't feel too bad for my wife since she had the choice to marry me or not.

The people you SHOULD feel bad for is your parents. The only other choices they had other than to take you when you were born were abandonment, and infanticide. Probably the only reason they chose to keep you is because there's laws against abandoning or killing your own child. Though I'm sure if they could do it all over again they would take one for the team, chose the latter, and make the world a better place for everyone.

**SCpoloRicker** · 03-15-2006, 03:11 PM

Originally posted by billybob_81067

First off... my comeback was 115% better than his original statement, which isn't saying much since his entire post was utterly retarded.

Secondly you shouldn't feel too bad for my wife since she had the choice to marry me or not.

The people you SHOULD feel bad for is your parents. The only other choices they had other than to take you when you were born were abandonment, and infanticide. Probably the only reason they chose to keep you is because there's laws against abandoning or killing your own child. Though I'm sure if they could do it all over again they would take one for the team, chose the latter, and make the world a better place for everyone.

*snort*

"Lighten up, Francis."

**Lohman446** · 03-15-2006, 03:13 PM

Originally posted by billybob_81067

First off... my comeback was 115% better than his original statement, which isn't saying much since his entire post was utterly retarded.

Secondly you shouldn't feel too bad for my wife since she had the choice to marry me or not.

The people you SHOULD feel bad for is your parents. The only other choices they had other than to take you when you were born were abandonment, and infanticide. Probably the only reason they chose to keep you is because there's laws against abandoning or killing your own child. Though I'm sure if they could do it all over again they would take one for the team, chose the latter, and make the world a better place for everyone.

Wow... little touchy there billy bob?

**UnicycleMonster** · 03-15-2006, 03:22 PM

Originally posted by Lohman446

Wow... little touchy there billy bob?

hahahgay

**Target Practice** · 03-15-2006, 04:15 PM

Originally posted by billybob_81067

First off... my comeback was 115% better than his original statement, which isn't saying much since his entire post was utterly retarded.

Secondly you shouldn't feel too bad for my wife since she had the choice to marry me or not.

The people you SHOULD feel bad for is your parents. The only other choices they had other than to take you when you were born were abandonment, and infanticide. Probably the only reason they chose to keep you is because there's laws against abandoning or killing your own child. Though I'm sure if they could do it all over again they would take one for the team, chose the latter, and make the world a better place for everyone.

Hahahahaha,

Get boned.

A theatrical/love dilemma

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