Should I talk to this married woman??

[RavishingEddie]

Ok, I met this lady at a club this past weekend. First I am 25 yrs old and she is 28 yrs old. We started dancing and after a couple drinks and some laughs she started getting more comfortable with me. When I asked for her number she asked if we could go outside, so we did. Then she tells me that she is unhappily married , I was like and then she asked me if I mind talking to a married woman. I said immediatly said no, but the thing is I never hooked up with a married woman before so I am not sure it was a good response. Do you guys think I should go for it and call her? She kissed me after I got her number so I am sure that I will I kind of feel sorry for her husband though. All I think she wants is a b00ty call. Any advice would be cool specially those who have been or seen what the aftermath this would be. She was an 8 in looks so that is pretty good for me.

[Steelrat]

Ok, I met this lady at a club this past weekend. First I am 25 yrs old and she is 28 yrs old. We started dancing and after a couple drinks and some laughs she started getting more comfortable with. When I asked for her number she asked if we could go outside, so we did. Then she tells me that she is unhappily married , I was like and then she asked me if I mind talking to a married woman. I said no ofcourse, but the thing is I never hooked up with a married woman before. Do you guys think I should go for it and call her? She kissed me after I got her number so I am sure that I will I kind of feel sorry for her husband though Any advice would be cool specially those who have been or seen what the aftermath is. :) She was an 8 in looks so that is pretty good for me.

Don't do it.

[CasingBill]

As a husband, I would prolly go postal on you.

[geekwarrior]

agreed you're asking for trouble, both from her husband and from her. Know if she has kids? Don't do it.

[Papa_Smurf]

woman

walk away man, it happend to my parents, something of the like, and it screwed things up BAD. Dont do it!

[tropical_fishy]

If she's married, she's off-limits.

If she has a boyfriend, she's off-limits.

If she wants you, tell her to leave either or. If she's playing them, she'll play you when she gets tired of the novelty.

[RavishingEddie]

agreed you're asking for trouble, both from her husband and from her. Know if she has kids? Don't do it.

No, I didn't ask. I know I should but I don't know why I didn't. I do know that she teaches dance to little kids at the recreational park. All that went through my head was b00ty call, I would never take a girl like this in any other way.

[SCpoloRicker]

You're 25??

/yeesh
//I'd stay away from women aged 25-32ish in general
///particularly married ones

[Lohman446]

For a short term relationship? Sure.. why not. For something more - yeh right. Experience tells me, if she cheats with you, she will cheat on you. -

[Pacifist_Farmer]

This story reminds me of a guy I knew in college who started dating a girl cause she had a kid, and he thought that meant she put out. It gets real uncomfortable when she takes you home and the kids father is there, or a husband with a gun.

Avoid it until she can show you a death cirtificate for the husband, and then don't eat anything she cooks.

[neppo1345]

get in where you can fit in.

[slade]

i take it you are looking for a one time thing anyway, because it would be quite a bad idea to be in a relationship with a girl like that.

Experience tells me, if she cheats with you, she will cheat on you.

that would also be common sense speaking, but yeah, thats the general idea.

anyway, the kant-esque moralistic response would be that no, you shouldn't do it. you would never want to be in the husband's situation, and you recognize that. its the wrong thing to do.

then again, im guessing you're thinking more along the lines of existentialism, in which case its about the consequences. could you deal with ruining someone elses marriage (which could just be going through a rough spot), with the ensuing drama that could erupt, or with the potential situation of having a man who literally wants to kill you? would you consider it worth those risks? its up to you.

personally i think you should just say to her that if she's unhappily married, she should get a divorce. then again, getting a divorce could be pretty hard and messy, and it could just be a bad point in the marriage. i dont know the specifics, so i cant say.

/if you decide to go through with it, post up your name, so i can keep an eye on CNN.

[Shirow]

Ok, I met this lady at a club this past weekend. First I am 25 yrs old and she is 28 yrs old. We started dancing and after a couple drinks and some laughs she started getting more comfortable with me. When I asked for her number she asked if we could go outside, so we did. Then she tells me that she is unhappily married , I was like and then she asked me if I mind talking to a married woman. I said immediatly said no, but the thing is I never hooked up with a married woman before so I am not sure it was a good response. Do you guys think I should go for it and call her? She kissed me after I got her number so I am sure that I will I kind of feel sorry for her husband though. All I think she wants is a b00ty call. Any advice would be cool specially those who have been or seen what the aftermath this would be. She was an 8 in looks so that is pretty good for me.

The question you should ask yourself is.. how many other guys has she been through the 'unhappily married' conversation with?

BTW her husband has herpes.

[Lohman446]

There is nothing wrong with playing wiht married women. Just... dont expect a meaningful relationship out of it.

/Is shallow
//not scared of getting butt kicked either

[SCpoloRicker]

slade: Please do not use the phrase "kant-esque moralistic response" or "existentialism" again, particularly in all lower caps, and in a thread like this.

/now, get off my lawn