I am very depressed, my g/f broke up w/ me.

[hostage]

This may seem out of place, but I have no where else to go

I've been feeling horrible since yesterday, when my girl friend out of the blue said she wanted to break up with me. We have known each other for over 2 years and have been "officially" steady for over 4 months. She said that she didn't love me any more. We were planning on moving in together next month. She said it wasn't me, that I was too good to her. I don't understand at all, I think she was depressed and said some stuff that she didn't mean. I haven't spoken to her since yesterday, I will give her another day or so before I call her. Its just wierd how she did this out of the blue, it was like a wierd mood swing. She was happy and excited about moving in together earlier that day. I am just confused and in pain. Dang it sucks being senstive.
-Doron

[AutomagRT1483]

I hear ya bro, we're here for ya.

[Miscue]

Welcome to the club.

Sorry to hear it...

[LIGHTEMUP]

well u know what tehy say whoever they is

*it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all*

im stuck in the never loved at all part. There is this chick in my drivers ed class and i havent had the balls to go up and talk to her

ne way dont worry bout it dude it happens to us all

[ratmonkey]

always remember to be at least a little bit of an <B>*POOF*</B> to her. its what keeps women coming back. they always leave the too nice guy but stay with the jerk forever, ya just have to find the right mix that you feel comfortable with in the future.

<B>*Warning: No Cussing*</B> -Miscue

[Tunaman]

There are plenty of fish in the sea....laugh at her and move on...

[shartley]

Originally posted by ratmonkey
always remember to be at least a little bit of an <B>*POOF*</B> to her. its what keeps women coming back. they always leave the too nice guy but stay with the jerk forever, ya just have to find the right mix that you feel comfortable with in the future.

<B>*Warning: No Cussing*</B> -Miscue

[-J�ker-]

the line 'your to nice to me' is the most over used crock of poo ive ever heard... give her a few days then grab the tackelbox throw the poles in the back of the truch and make sure you your boots...your goin fishin

[-Carnifex-]

I bet she's just having anxiety about moving in together; probably insecure about something. Bring her some flowers or something. Then again, I don't know her, so use your best discretion.

[aaron_mag]

Shartley is totally right. Don't have anything to add except this....

When a girl used to break up with one of our friend's in college we used to have a "freedom celebration". Didn't really make people feel too much better (yes I had to have one once myself) but it is the right attitude. Pining away is not going to help. Go hang out and have fun because no one wants to be around someone constantly talking about how lost and alone they are from losing their gal. Did I follow my own advice when I was in your shoes? Of course not! Looking back on it, however, I wish I had. Unfortunately there will be greater trials and tribulations in life so live it up.....

[langrage]

yeah shartley was right, be glad that you didn't invest more into the relationship. It is better that she broke it off instead of just moving in with you and hoping her feelings change. After awhile you may still miss her but you will realize you will be okay. I know after i break up with someone I find that i miss the companionship. When I was younger I foundd out that I just missed my steady piece of butt and not the person.

Good luck

[WicKeD_WaYz]

forget her dude. If your anything like me when its over you will care for about 10 minutes then move on to the next one.

[LittleKrems]

its a chronic desease girls have that i like to call....

PMS

youll get over it dont worry

[ZSigErik]

I know exactly where he is coming from and it is at events like this a man will make or break himself. It it in these desperate times in which a man is confided only in himself to rejoice and fight back the emotion that falls from his eyes. This, my friends, is what it all comes down to. If a man has the real fortitude to move on or to stay slain by one lost love.

Love is a chemical reaction, brought on by an addcition through with all traits of withdrawl are formed. You can either give in to the withdrawls and fight back for a girl you once had or you can turn away and find a new "Drug". Though, the new drug may not be as strong at first, it will gradualy become stronger and leave you with a feeling of harmony. It is these exact moments in our lives that we feel alive, alive enough to win the war in our own mind.

We are all so very fragile, existing to exist, but it is the purpose of most, if not all, to find our own significat other. To finally venture out and find a mutual addiction. To find, love...

[ccarrigan]

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