I am very depressed, my g/f broke up w/ me.

[AssassN]

Maybe because she thought that because you were so nice you were hiding something. If she doens't see you get really mad or something she might think your faking something and feel weird living with you.

Those people that marry girls and then beat them are always overly nice to them and then when they get married they see the real side of them. You shouldn't pull a ratmonkey and be mean to them but maybe they should see you mad just so they know when you really get mad you don't explode.

That might not of made sence or applied to you but I dunno, I'm just talking.

Sorry.

[Dayspring]

Two options-

1) moving in anxiety
2) another guy (or girl- It DOES happen)

Either way- let it go. Get a beer and find a girl that 'balls. They're much better.

[hostage]

Well I went over to her place to talk to her and to see if she was just depressed. She said she wasn't in love with me any more and she felt like there was something missing. Man I was sobbing like a little girl (no offence to little girls). She spent all her time with me so she couldn't (night and day), I think she just felt that she didn't really love me. It really does hurt, the painful thing, is I am stuck at my college campus and I don't have anything to do but think about it. So that makes everything a lot worst. All of my friends went home for the summer, she is the main reason why I stayed up here for the summer
-Doron

[hitech]

It sucks, it hurts, but in time you will get over it. It is one of those painfull things all people must go through. You seem like a nice "kid", and it's always harder on the nice "kids".

Try to do something nice for yourself. That helps a little. Remember that it will take time to get over this. And it will hurt. But it will get better. Did you ever figure out of the new fullauto board from Centerflag will work in a Boo-yaah?

[Scary]

well if its sexual tention u awlays got ur clappers hehehehehhehe .........try to find the humor in it theres humor in everything have fuhn

[hawpunch]

hostage,

i feel for you man. my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after she moved to san franscisco just a year before i went off to law school. she said she wanted to experience new things...it hurt like..well there's really no description for the kind of pain you feel. we both had plans to get married; a lot of dreams kind of dissolved. i was heartbroken for years...i still am to a certain degree. it will take time to heal up. find someone to talk to besides her; in fact, its probably better to just distance yourself a little from her and let the healing process start. you're going to feel hurt, lonely, angry etc...these are all normal feelings. and you're going to cry; don't feel bad about that. when you feel like talking, find someone to talk to, even if it is a school counselor or something; it helps tremendously. don't hide your emotions. and as soon as you feel comfortable, get back into the game. what i say may sound hollow, but the hurt will pass and there will be another girl in your life. just think of it is as a lesson learned and God saying that he thinks there's someone more suited for you. good luck man and hang in there.

aloha,

jae park

[hostage]

thank you guys, this does make me feel a lot better. The worst part I see so many things that keep reminding me of her. I can't wait till i feel better.

hightech, no go on the booyaah centerflag project, they wouldn't take it.

-Doron

[hitech]

That sucks. You should get yagrmiestr to rewrite the software on the boo-yaah for you.

[FutureMagOwner]

yeah its not being too nice or being a jerk etc if your "nice" then your a push over is the way i see it stand up for yourself from time to time nothing that will hurt them(physically or otherwise)

[logamus]

sorry to hear that man. as hard as it is, dont be bitter, just move on. girl/boyfriends come and go, crawling back usually makes it worse so just try to accept it and jump back in the saddle.

[MagAl]

My only suggestion to you is not be afraid to let your feelings out, When my grandpa past away 2 Months ago I tried to keep it in when the rest of my family was griefing... When it came time to go back to daily life.. school etc... I couldn't I felt depressed.. sad.. not wanting to see my friends and generally bad... Then when I came in touch ( sorry for being to femanine) with my feelings then I felt a lot better and The healing finally started to begin... things happen for a reason... better not letting things go farther then getting hurt further down the road, like divorce.. splitting up the children... talk about it with somebody!!! Cry!!! Egg and TP her House!!! You will feel alot better after...(especially after you egg and tp her house )

[Dave]

Like many others, I know how it feels man. And its so easy to blame yourself, or to analyze it like crazy to try and figure out why she did it, why why why...but don't worry man, because even if you never do find out (kinda like my case) its all good still, cause all it means is there is someone out there that will appreciate you all the more

One of the hard things for me was thinking that she was just right for me, there couldn't be any other girl, or how am I gonna find one, is the cycle gonna end, etc...but don't worry about that, cause once you take the time you need to get out your emotions out (and yes, we cry, and freely admit it ) then you can get back to being confident and outgoing and nice and soon you will find that girls will take notice once again.

Right now I'm not in a dating situation, but I'm keeping an open mind on it...but I do have to admit, I have extremely high standards. When I though about what I was looking for, it all fit into 3 categories: Passion, Commitment, and Maturity. Passion, not like physically, but as a whole, and in my case, their spirituality, someone whos heartfelt, has guts, and has an overall passionate personality. Commitment, someone who's willing to stick w/me through it all, and have dedication on a real level. And maturity, so that I know has the same goals in mind, and are looking for the same thing out of a relationship.

It might be a good idea to make a list or to think about something along the lines of what your looking for, so that when it does come time for the process again, it will help to make it clearer and easier.
Oh ya, and its a plus if she 'balls

-Dave

EDIT: Something you can do right now is do what another suggested, kinda have a 'celebration' in a way, not that its a celebration, but then you have an excuse to bust out the xbox and eat your favorite cereal, etc

[hostage]

Good news guys, I just placed a personal on yahoo, hopefully I can meet someone.

Dave you reminded me of a joke

A guy was walking on a beach and god spoke to him. God said you've been such a good guy I will grant you 1 wish. The guy replied I wish there was a road from here directly to Hawiia (sp?). God persuaded him to make a different choice since it would be difficult blah blah blah to make that road. The guy then replied, in that case I would like to understand women instead. God said to do you want that road one lane or two?

Thanks again guys!
-Doron

[Star_Base_CGI]

I went through the exact same thing 10 years ago. You have to convince yourself its for the best and you will be better off. In my case my Girlfriend broke up with me on My 23rd Birtdhay and yes girls are sneaky. She could have another boyfriend or something.

We all have to go back in a time warp and remember the simpler times when people just went for walks instead of movies. Dating has gotten way to complicated and people demand too much $#!t from relationships.

[muirtach]

I would heartily advise going out and doing something special for yourself. Whether it be a party, trip, paintball gear, or something else that means something to you. Back in January I had a similar situation and the one thing I did specifically for myself and no one else helped more than I thought it would.