I am very depressed, my g/f broke up w/ me.

[Star_Base_CGI]

Originally posted by muirtach
I would heartily advise going out and doing something special for yourself. Whether it be a party, trip, paintball gear, or something else that means something to you. Back in January I had a similar situation and the one thing I did specifically for myself and no one else helped more than I thought it would.

Yeah when my GF and I broke up I played Paintball for the first time.

I actually had money for paintball. LOL

[MagMan5446]

I blame emo for your depression...

[aaron_mag]

Wow! Hot topic. I suppose heart break and the one that got away is something we all carry with us. Still I would like to suggest that some of you put way too much thought into these things. A girl once told me that "men and women its all the same" and I still think that this is true. Shartley's comment about nice girls often choosing the wrong type of guy and vice versa rings true....

[shinobidice]

Originally posted by Tunaman
There are plenty of fish in the sea....laugh at her and move on...

not where i live... oh well i have other things to deal with than girls. i've never had much luck, then again, im 13 so that might have something to do with it. at an age like this, its normally nothin serious or anything thats gonna last. i figure when i go to college or whatnot, then maybe i'll finally "catch a fish"

[Torbo]

i was about to ask a girl out today. Literaly 2 seconds before i was going to do so, she informed me that she had just hooked up with one of the middys on our team, who happens to be a friend of mine. And a couple months ago, i was about to do the same thing. I was walking between classes with another friend, who said "omg laurens going out with fred!!!" Its hard too, bc i see her all the time,like everyday, and its really hard not to like her for more than a friend.
couple years ago, i was fixing to ask another girl, as i walked uo to her, she told me that i scare her. And walked away. And didnt talk to me for 9 months. (she is now. we are friends) I just dont know why i seem to have a habit of getting shot down BEFORE i ask. Sorry to ramble, i just kinda feel crappy.
While we are at it, my life sucks because of that, and because i have a fractured neck, no money and cant play paintball.

[Jonno06]

my girlfriend broke up with me last sunday...so im hitting on all her friends!!!!
muahahah..im evil..she deserves it though.


i was depressed this whole week..and i got tired of being sad..

listen to Thrice...thrice makes me happy.

[Dave]

hehe, funny joke

Yeah, thats another thing I didn't think of...music. Don't listed to sad, whiney type stuff. Especially not emo...it takes the wrong attitude about it all. Quite honestly, I was in an unhappy mood, and I put on the hardest harcore I had, and it felt great! That was just me personally, but whatever music does that for ya, go for it!

We're all here for ya man, AO's family ya know! In any case, I know you'll be feeling better about all this real soon.

-Dave

[Scary]

yea, i guess u can awlays say a saying i know
...............damn Biatches...........LOL keep it real man just take it easy and well play paintball!!!!!!!!!

[GT]

Originally posted by hostage
I am stuck at my college campus and I don't have anything to do but think about it. -Doron

WTF college do you go to? Good god man get the hell out of your apt and hit the club. Throw a party at your crib. I had a girl break up with me when I was at school, she was still in HS. Guess what in college I forgot about her the next day and started "making the rounds" that next night. Your to young to screw around with some girl that wants to play you around.

let me clear up a few things.
1. love is not some luvy dovy tingling feeling that you get, its a choice plain and simple.
2. never ever have a girl live with you, unless your married.
3. marriage is a buisness decision. You can lectaure all day about "finding the one" and other rediclious crap, but when it comes down to the tough times it was a clear cut decision that you both made to stick it out. In the buisness merger of marriage everything is taken into consideration, eductaion background, potential earnings, family status. Then it is a through decision based on reason and quatifible traits not "ohh she makes me feel warm inside"
4. Dont use the yahoo personals, just go out and meet some people. GET INVOVLED IN YOUR CAMPUS!!


jb

[Miscue]

Originally posted by gtrsi


WTF college do you go to? Good god man get the hell out of your apt and hit the club. Throw a party at your crib. I had a girl break up with me when I was at school, she was still in HS. Guess what in college I forgot about her the next day and started "making the rounds" that next night. Your to young to screw around with some girl that wants to play you around.

let me clear up a few things.
1. love is not some luvy dovy tingling feeling that you get, its a choice plain and simple.
2. never ever have a girl live with you, unless your married.
3. marriage is a buisness decision. You can lectaure all day about "finding the one" and other rediclious crap, but when it comes down to the tough times it was a clear cut decision that you both made to stick it out. In the buisness merger of marriage everything is taken into consideration, eductaion background, potential earnings, family status. Then it is a through decision based on reason and quatifible traits not "ohh she makes me feel warm inside"
4. Dont use the yahoo personals, just go out and meet some people. GET INVOVLED IN YOUR CAMPUS!!


jb

Word.

The lovy-dovy thing is unreliable. One minute you're all in love... and you want her SO bad. You get her, you're happy for a while. Then one day... it's gone. You don't know how you're gonna feel about someone in the future, as sure as you are at the time.

Living with a girl is a cardinal sin. Frequent sleep-overs are fine though... but you both need your own place. Oh, and don't ever leave anything valuable/important at her place... and don't let her leave stuff. Nothing is certain.

If the business side of a marriage doesn't work out, then people get frustrated with each other... and stuff falls apart. You need to both be on the same page.

My philosophy is: Both of you should be able to live well independently. Neither 'needs' the other. But both choose to be together because life is mutually more enjoyable.

[GT]

Originally posted by Miscue


Word.

The lovy-dovy thing is unreliable. One minute you're all in love... and you want her SO bad. You get her, you're happy for a while. Then one day... it's gone. You don't know how you're gonna feel about someone in the future, as sure as you are at the time.

Living with a girl is a cardinal sin. Frequent sleep-overs are fine though... but you both need your own place. Oh, and don't ever leave anything valuable/important at her place... and don't let her leave stuff. Nothing is certain.

If the business side of a marriage doesn't work out, then people get frustrated with each other... and stuff falls apart. You need to both be on the same page.

My philosophy is: Both of you should be able to live well independently. Neither 'needs' the other. But both choose to be together because life is mutually more enjoyable.

Dam,
First time I can agree with you miscue! I had donned the flame suit after my post and was plesntly suprised.

jb

[shartley]

Originally posted by Miscue
Living with a girl is a cardinal sin. Frequent sleep-overs are fine though... but you both need your own place

[hitech]

Originally posted by gtrsi
love is not some luvy dovy tingling feeling that you get, its a choice plain and simple...Marriage is a business decision. You can lecture all day about "finding the one" and other ridiculous crap...

I feel sorry for you. I don't mean that as a flame, I'm truly sorry that you haven't experienced love. After things fell apart with my high school sweetheart I started thinking the same way. Even got married and still thought that way. My first wife and I divorced and I'm now married to my high school sweetheart. I don't think that way anymore!

[Miscue]

/me wonders what you found disagreeable in the past.

[Miscue]

Originally posted by shartley

Well... I'm not talking religiously. And, it was kind of a joke to mention living together as a 'cardinal sin' but confusingly sleep-overs are ok.

BTW... what did you think I meant by sleep-over? Slumber party in separate rooms... what were you thinking?!