Well, I'm pretty pissed off tonight so I need somewhere to vent. I've been dating this girl for a couple months now. We never agreed to be exlusive and I've known that she was kind of interested in this other guy that is on my soccer team. Well, we've been getting very close lately and having a great time doing so I might add. I was gone this weekend and I got back today. So I'm talking to her online and she's like "I wanted to talk to you last night about something". And I was like "Oh really, well I was online, where were you?" She says she was at this other guy's house. I ask if anything happens and she says yes, that's what I wanted to talk to you about. So I guess she was at this other guy's house and she made out with him "for a bit". What the heck is that? I flipped and gave her a whole speech about her not caring about our relationship and then I blocked her. We talked more and I told her I forgive her but I really don't, does anyone have any suggestions or comments? I feel pretty crappy right now.
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And Sheperds we shall be / For thee, my Lord, for thee / Power hath descended forth from Thy hand / Our feet may swiftly carry out Thy commands. / So we shall flow a river forth to Thee / And teeming with souls shall it ever be. / In Nomeni Patri Et Fili Spiritus Sa -
Girls are evil dude. Each and every one.
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first find out if she's even sorry. secondly, find out if she even wants to go back to you. then you decide whether or not you are willing to still be with her. it'd be harder to trust her, etc. humans act on impulse and emotion and desire. she was too weak to resist primitive desire. is this a cause for breakup? that's your decision. however, if she doesn't see it as a mistake, then that makes things lots easier, and just forget her cuz she easily forgot you.
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Just the thought of another guy having his tounge in my girlfriends mouth makes my blood boil.
If I were you, I'd go fishing for someone else.Comment
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I have an idea.
make her like you then go screw her best friend.
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DUMP HER. DUMP HER. DUMP HER.
You don't need that kind of crap.
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yes girls are evil but they are good for some things but just can her manComment
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Break his leg, he's got nothing without soccer!"What we have to accomplish at this time is all the more clear: relentless criticism of all existing conditions, relentless in the sense that the criticism is not afraid of its findings and just as little afraid of the conflict with the powers that be."
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Fixed that right upOriginally posted by MiniMag84
HUMP HER. HUMP HER. DUMP HER.
You don't need that kind of crap.
Shhh...I have a....cocker...Comment
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Hahaha, very nice. Although I would dump that chick in a heart beat. Don't even bother with her, she couldn't even restrain herself from making out with some dude even after you agreed to be exclusive. That's just bogus... And impostal22 is right, but she had to be thinking about doing something with this guy if she went over to his house. I mean, it doesn't sound like her intentions were to have a cup of tea.Comment
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i had the same thing happen to me.......this girl said she wanted to be 'together' with me and i agreed and she said she wasn't gonna stop flirting with other guys but she wouldn't hold hands or hook up with them......well one night at my friends house she was there along with a bunch of my friends and one of my friends cuzins and i go back inside to watch like 10 min of a movie...come back out her and my friends cuz r off behind the garage hooking up.....i wanted to dye....i really did i was so upset ask ne of my friends.....but she talked to me and cried on the phone to me.....i thought about it and liked wht we had b4 so i forgave her and we started acting the same just not 'together' and she said the same thing to me 'i wont hook up with other guys or HOLD THERE HANDS(<--importen part), it upset me that she hooked up with a random guy.....but ne way she went to nyc for a week the night she came back she was acting funny.....i go over to play some good ole dpb on the comp.....come back to the couch like 10 ft away from the comp, and shes sitting there holding my friends hand!!!....wht im getting at is DUMP HER NOW GIRLS SUCK!!! THEY HURT ALOT!!!....belive me man no matter how srry she says she is.....shes not just dump her a$$
My wife used to complain that I played every Sunday - I did anyways.
Now I have no wife.
Moral: Now I can play paintball on Saturday and Sunday and afford to do itComment
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Re: Not so FRIENDLY CORNER
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.......
If she's been doing anything with anybody, it's really not your business. The fact that you flipped out on her should give her reason to can you. Make her your girlfriend and then worry about what she does with other guys.Originally posted by spyderkiller
We NEVER agreed to be exlusive....
But yeah, chicks suck, check the sig.http://www.automags.org/forums/showt...light=feedback
My girlfriend said that if i bought another paintball gun, she'd leave me........ I sure am going to miss her.Comment
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forget her.
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I understand the part about her being able to do things with other guys because of us not being exclusive. However, she has told me that she wants us to be more. It just hurts because she knows that there are serious feelings involved here and she just doesn't care. She obviously doens't care about our relationship enough to think before acting. If she's going to go and do stuff with other guys, that's fine but let me know first that there is no chance for us to be anything more than friends. I'm not going to be one of her play things who she chooses at will to do things when she wants. I don't think I'm going to be able to look at her the same for quite a while, or the other guy for that matter. He's supposedly one of my friends and we play soccer together. He knew me and this girl were kind of a thing but yet he makes a move, he better watch his back on the field, I'm pissed.
And Sheperds we shall be / For thee, my Lord, for thee / Power hath descended forth from Thy hand / Our feet may swiftly carry out Thy commands. / So we shall flow a river forth to Thee / And teeming with souls shall it ever be. / In Nomeni Patri Et Fili Spiritus SaComment
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By dating, do you mean you went on a few dates, or this was an ongoing, steady relationship? What do you mean when you say you agreed not to be "exclusive"? I think you need to talk to her, find out where you stand, and then decide what you want to do about it.Comment
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