An update on my life...if anyone cares...(kinda interesting)

[Restola]

Much better, refer to above, play some paintball, forgot drugs and drinks for a day, even a week if you can manage it, then go get new friends who play alot of paintball so you can play with them.

Maybe a bowl of icecream and a hug would help too...

He needs to commit to a change of lifestyle. It's the hardest thing he'll ever do, and you know what? He probably won't do it. It's easier to hang out with that disgusting slutty child/girl and his drugged up friends, rule the parks and alleys on their bicycles, and think they are tough crap as they look like total losers...

I knew kids like him in highschool. They rarely change. The few that do are stronger for it. But its a trap, and every direction he turns is darker than the hole he dug himself.

This has nothing to do with kicking him while he's down. He is seriously messing up his life. He needs to realize everything he is doing is incredibly stupid. Sure they can pump him full of anti-depressants, but he still needs to seperate himself from this childish desire to be near total losers (i.e. all of his friends).

[OysterBoy]

Much better, refer to above, play some paintball, forgot drugs and drinks for a day, even a week if you can manage it, then go get new friends who play alot of paintball so you can play with them.

WTF!!! God damn people like you annoy me to know end, you make it sound as easy as flicking on a light switch. ****, you know how many of my friends have tryed quiting their addictions and failed??? God damn, get off your high horse for once and realize that people like him / me to a lesser extent are in need of repair.

[Restola]

WTF!!! God damn people like you annoy me to know end, you make it sound as easy as flicking on a light switch. ****, you know how many of my friends have tryed quiting their addictions and failed??? God damn, get off your high horse for once and realize that people like him / me to a lesser extent are in need of repair.

He's 14. He's approaching the problem like a 14 year old.

InfinityBPS is almost an adult, and also approaching life like a 14 year old. Grow up dude.

[OysterBoy]

Hmm, that seems to be the magic number here, surprise surprise, I am 14.

[MayAMonkeyBeYourPinata]

Infinity you need to take the advice of people like Army and Miscue.

And get some therapy, go to AA, and stay away from those excuses of friends of yours.

[Restola]

Hmm, that seems to be the magic number here, surprise surprise, I am 14.

Some people are more mature than others.

[Rooster]

"Hey rooster, why dont you get the hell out of this thread. "

Don't post bullcrap, and I won't give my opinion on it.

And little Jackie, thats amusing. You always know how to make me laugh.

[-=Squid=-]

Look, stop whining.

Its a highschool relationship; you dont love her and she doesn't love you. RARELY are two people "smart" enough in high school to build a lasting relationship with real meaning anyways.

Call me a jackass, or tell me that im inconsiderate, but you know im right. This is the exact reason teenagers dont deserve opinnions, feelings, hell, even a brain.

In about 10 years you are going to feel REALLY stupid; assuming your not a crackhead on the street.

Why even waste time on an easy hobag 14 year old? Your 18? Not a big enough age difference if you really love her; but you dont and she doesnt. A fourteen year old isnt going to love you back, or treat you how you want to be treated.

Get over it. Oh, may as well throw in the obligatory "I hate teenagers" comment. Which I do.

EDIT: Now that I have read the comments on roosters reply, I suppose I can expect the same.

Go for it, because the only people who will "flame" me are the teenagers who think that they have problems to. Its high school, get the hell over it.

[Python14]

I think Army's post said about everything I was gonna say.

Just drop what is causing the problem and find something better to replace it....plus, highschool relationships are way overrated.

[OysterBoy]

...plus, highschool relationships are way overrated.

...says the guy who never had a date...

lol, jk man, I agree... sounded too funny not to comment on... :)

[paintballrulzs]

All I am going to say is WOW. I just read this entire thread and would have to say I feel some pity and sympathy for you. As many have said you seem very intelligent and also are very young. You have more than enough time to turn things around. I am 18 and can honestly say I have never drank or smoked in my entire life and have no intentions to do so. I can say I dont do it for my family, my friends, my parents......anyone, just myself. I have seen so many people close to me fall down that path, and it always ends the same way, just sometimes takes longer to get there. I am not condemning you or anyone who smokes or drinks just because I don't. I remember you Infinity from way back. I saw the name and instantly was curious where you have vanished to. I know my advice probably isn't the best, but you should show your parents this thread. I know they will more than likely be angry and upset, but they will help you. You are still young and can easily accomplish many great things in your lifetime, you just have to get out of your "slump." Girls can make you do things you never thought you would do. Many times I will drop everything just because my girlfriend calls or wants to hang out. I am not going to tell you I don't tell my girlfriend I love her, but I think i truly do. I have been with her for about a year and everything has just been perfect. Before her I never told a girl I loved her. Now enough about my love life. You have to try and get friends who can truly be friends. If you hang out with people who continuly do these things, it is a matter of time it starts to have an impact on you. I don't know really what to say, but good luck. You can easily pull this around and AO is here for you.

PS sorry if the grammar and spelling is horribe......I AM SO TIRED! (and on the phone with my gf)

Infinity things will get better and people do care despite what you think.

[-Carnifex-]

Mmm, angsty.

[Python14]

...says the guy who never had a date...

Me and the girlfriend just celebrated 16 months. :)

[nippinout]

Something to take into consideration- colleges do look at improvement in your grades.

a few of my buddes went to community college first just to take care of their general classes more cheaply. Then they transferred to the state university.

[MrMag]

"Hey rooster, why dont you get the hell out of this thread. "

Don't post bullcrap, and I won't give my opinion on it.

And little Jackie, thats amusing. You always know how to make me laugh.

Hmm that is interesting seeing how you seem to post non-stop on AO. Are you infering that AO is a load of bullcrap alltogether? jackass...