When a girl tells you 'No', does it always mean 'No'?
Answer below.
Yes. It always means NO.
Recently a friend of mine was in a situation where a guy was trying to kiss her, put his hands on her.
She resisted several times.
She told him that he wasn't going to get anything from her, not a kiss or otherwise.
After she resisted more he gave up,'I'm going to bed then'.
He Left her dorm-but not before giving her a slap on her rear.
I asked her how hard, and she told me,"It was a sexual thing, it wasn't to cause pain".
This was in her dorm room, with the door open.
This girl, I've known her for several years.
She can be a flirt, but she has never led anyone on that I've ever been aware of.
The kind of flirting where a guy says something, the girl quips back-nothing more after that.
Further more, she is a well...Jerk<insert 'B' word here>. When something bothers her, she lets you know. She is clear, and is loud.
There was nothing lost in translation, she was verbal regarding his actions.
I told her no means no. I told her not to hang around with him one-on-one anymore.
I told her you don't cross the line when you don't get what you want.
I told her that it doesn't matter, you don't touch a girl--No. you don't touch a person that doesn't want to be touched.
This should be Added.
He has tried to kiss her twice before.
I asked her why why hung out with him a third time.
"because I defused the situation before it got out of hand and he wasn't aggressive about it. Furthermore, while I got the impression that that's what was happening, and he was definitely closer than I was comfortable with, he always let it go after I moved away. I figured since he didnt pursue it those times, a 'no' the next time will be taken the same way."
What about you AO?
What would you tell the girl who came to you?
Do you think she's overreacting to his actions?
Smart *** comments and the like wont be welcome in this thread, or any of that rubbish.
Answer below.
Yes. It always means NO.
Recently a friend of mine was in a situation where a guy was trying to kiss her, put his hands on her.
She resisted several times.
She told him that he wasn't going to get anything from her, not a kiss or otherwise.
After she resisted more he gave up,'I'm going to bed then'.
He Left her dorm-but not before giving her a slap on her rear.
I asked her how hard, and she told me,"It was a sexual thing, it wasn't to cause pain".
This was in her dorm room, with the door open.
This girl, I've known her for several years.
She can be a flirt, but she has never led anyone on that I've ever been aware of.
The kind of flirting where a guy says something, the girl quips back-nothing more after that.
Further more, she is a well...Jerk<insert 'B' word here>. When something bothers her, she lets you know. She is clear, and is loud.
There was nothing lost in translation, she was verbal regarding his actions.
I told her no means no. I told her not to hang around with him one-on-one anymore.
I told her you don't cross the line when you don't get what you want.
I told her that it doesn't matter, you don't touch a girl--No. you don't touch a person that doesn't want to be touched.
This should be Added.
He has tried to kiss her twice before.
I asked her why why hung out with him a third time.
"because I defused the situation before it got out of hand and he wasn't aggressive about it. Furthermore, while I got the impression that that's what was happening, and he was definitely closer than I was comfortable with, he always let it go after I moved away. I figured since he didnt pursue it those times, a 'no' the next time will be taken the same way."
What about you AO?
What would you tell the girl who came to you?
Do you think she's overreacting to his actions?
Smart *** comments and the like wont be welcome in this thread, or any of that rubbish.
Comment