A theatrical/love dilemma

[gimp]

....
.... I also found out that the guy she's doing the scene with is gay. .....

Pete

hahaha, I knew it!

[Recon by Fire]

"It's okay that he is dry humping my leg, he is gay." Hmm, I don't know...that "gay" line seems like it has been used on a lot of people. Unles you see him with his boyfriend, he is is not gay. LOL

I think you are freaking out a bit here though, this is a play afterall not a porn flik.

[Cameo]

My advise to everyone..
never get married untill after both parties are 21.... turning 21 gives the person free reign to do things that previously were not allowed... the best of high school sweethearts can have major problems with this (unless of course you are mormon and stright egde).
but hey, I am a life long bartender and I see alot, so you really don't have to take my word for it.

[Lohman446]

Wait a minute, so in this play she seduces people...

She acts in a manner, that likely gets her.. umm worked up, without going further

And then after the play she comes to you?

I'm sorry. Wheres the problem again?

[SCpoloRicker]

I'm nodding my head, but my number would be 30, maybe even higher.

My advise to everyone..
never get married untill after both parties are 21.... turning 21 gives the person free reign to do things that previously were not allowed... the best of high school sweethearts can have major problems with this (unless of course you are mormon and stright egde).
but hey, I am a life long bartender and I see alot, so you really don't have to take my word for it.

[Hexis]

I'm nodding my head, but my number would be 30, maybe even higher.

I think mid twenties is ok, but at least live with her/him for a while before getting engaged. I'm kinda of an extreme case, I dated my now Wife for 7 years before we got married. We lived together for a few years and after getting engaged it still took us about another year to plan the whole wedding.

[UnicycleMonster]

if you are goin to post that after every post you make... things are going to get ugly around here.

Ugly like your mom, hahaha!!!

UNICYCLEMONSTER HAS SPOKEN!

[Lohman446]

We talked, and smoothed it out. I found out that the scene isn't as bad as I thought. I also found out that the guy she's doing the scene with is gay. I'm

Not saying this is the case but this is funny. My ex said the same thing about one of the boyfriends she had well we were married.

[warbeak2099]

Ok ok ok, the matter is over. We talked it out. No need to keep posting in this thread about whether the guy is gay or not, he is, trust me. I asked for advice from people who have experience with theater and this kind of thing. I didn't ask for people to give me their opinions on relationships. I frankly don't care about when you think marriage should occur. Once again, problem solved, let it go.

[Lohman446]

Look.. you got your use out of the thread Now let us have our fun. Fair?

[warbeak2099]

Hahaha, fair enough. Let's see, what tangent will this run off on now lol?

[warbeak2099]

My advise to everyone..
never get married untill after both parties are 21.... turning 21 gives the person free reign to do things that previously were not allowed... the best of high school sweethearts can have major problems with this (unless of course you are mormon and stright egde).
but hey, I am a life long bartender and I see alot, so you really don't have to take my word for it.

Oh, and whatdya mean you have to be straight edge? You can have a perfectly healthy sexual relationship without full blown intercourse. My gf and I are doing pretty well, we're very mature about it. We're gonna wait till marriage to go all the way, just so the whole baby thing isn't a problem lol. But for now, there's plenty of other stuff you can do to keep your relationship healthy. We are open with each other about it and we really exhibit more maturity on the subject than most adults do. Hell, we have a more mature relationship overall than most 30yos. Example, we settled the matter I started this thread about in a 15min phone convo. I'm going to meet the guy she's doing the scene with and possibly even get a video recording of the scene at practice before I see the real show. Like I said, working things out and talking is important. I think everyone here is looking at me like one of those stereotypical kids that don't have the maturity to hold a long lasting relationship. Trust me, if you're thinking that, you really don't understand lol.

[Lohman446]

Oh, and whatdya mean you have to be straight edge? You can have a perfectly healthy sexual relationship without full blown intercourse. My gf and I are doing pretty well, we're very mature about it. We're gonna wait till marriage to go all the way, just so the whole baby thing isn't a problem lol. But for now, there's plenty of other stuff you can do to keep your relationship healthy. We are open with each other about it and we really exhibit more maturity on the subject than most adults do. Hell, we have a more mature relationship overall than most 30yos.

Meaning going out clubbing, drinking, hitting bars etc sometimes changes people and they begin to feel "tied down" and regret marrying / committing early. Sometimes it causes problems. With people with a strong faith, or straight edge (which I find lesser) this is less likely. Its part of life... its part of having a stronger relationship (for many people) when they are older and after they are done "partying".

[warbeak2099]

Got whatcha mean. Well, I'm not striaght edge, but I do have strong faith in my beliefs and morals. Sure they aren't really strict Christian ideals, I'm a Deist not a Christian, but they're mine and I believe in them. Because of them, I'm really not the kind of person that gets committment scared. I'm really loyal and I stick to something after I start it. I can't stand when anyone does anything less. That's why I'm joining the military, I want to work in an environment with people who behave the same way. I know exactly what you're talking about though. I'm just not one of those people. And that's ok, I mean, if they didn't take a step back and reconsider their committment they might make a big mistake. They might not have the maturity at that stage in their life to have a serious relationship. I do though, I'm ready for that already. Different people have different comfort zones.

[Lohman446]

They might not have the maturity at that stage in their life to have a serious relationship. I do though, I'm ready for that already. Different people have different comfort zones.

Not to say this will be the case, and I wish you the best of luck. I thought the same things when I got married at 19... you have almost managed to word my thoughts.