An update on my life...if anyone cares...(kinda interesting)

[Rather]

Some "family Forum" this is..........

Thought this was a forum where people would help each other out from time to time... This thread right ehre looks similar to something I could scoop out of PBN its that bad...

Everyone seemed to want to help KB out.... but then again mabey the only reason they did that was because they wanted their stuff to no ends... not actually try and help the guy... only person i saw trying to do that was Code MA.



Infinity, I hope you get everything figured out. If your having troubles with some of your deep pshycological problems, shrinks help like oyu wouldn't believe. Provided you talk to them openly about everything. No im not saying your a nut go get therapy. I've done it too when I broke down and was in a similar state of mind as you are. My therapist helped like you wouldn't belive and now im actually doing better. I have a job, brought my grades up to a decent level... and I no longer have woman problems with some skank that I used to be head over heals for.

Your a mess. get yourself cleaned up. Cphillip and Army have some good points. Follow them. Shrinks help but they can't do everything for you.


As for everyone else, that has been inhumane in their words, should you have problems... you reap waht you sew...

[nt2004]

Why dont you shut up? Oh ya, because your a mod and you disagree with me. Your allowed to tell me to "shut up" for no reason. You posted your opinnion, and I happen to think this whole thing is typical teenage drama taken to a ridiculous level. WHICH IT IS. I say again, just stop wasting your time on stupid crap Infinity.

Just because people like to take things ridiculously literal, I will say this. Dont kill yourself; but quit being a damn fool. I dont know you, obviously, but based on your posts you seem like a cool guy, so just stop wasting your life in something as retarded as this.

he was telling you to shut up because your post seemed to suggest suicide. Even if you were joking, thats not something you should tell someone in this state of discussion.

As for this thread, this has turned into quite a flame fest. A person obvioulsy wants HELP or ADVICE, but a lot of the people who posted seem to only offer insults and "tough love." I really hope this isnt how a lot of you conduct yourselves in real life. If a close friend came to you with these problems, would you turn them away? Would you insult them? I dont see how this situation could be any different.

All i see in this thread, besides the few people who lent out a helping hand, is a lot of "holier than thou" b.s. He has a problem, he doesnt need people acting like they are better than him. Everyone makes some bad decisions in their life, but thats not going to change with people telling that person how stupid they are.

A lot of replys in this thread are really PBN quality. I really dont want to see the day where the friendly corner dies as a place where serious problems can be assesed and where people can find some support from their friends. Stop kicking the poor kid while hes down, and act likee a real AO'er. Offer a few words of advice, hes not going to learn from abuse

[-=Squid=-]

he was telling you to shut up because your post seemed to suggest suicide. Even if you were joking, thats not something you should tell someone in this state of discussion.

If my "joke," which DID in fact say NOT to commit suicide, actually drove him to do so, good. NOBODY is that stupid.

[Hasty8]

I pretty much messed up my chance to goto a decent college because I've messed up in school so bad this year. I've went from a's and b's in the beginning of a year, to c's(rare) d's and f's. I feel that my life is hopeless now and don't see much of a point to anything. I really can't blame anyone but myself for all of this. I can't blame my parents becuase they know nothing about my life, I wake up and goto school, I come home, and goto sleep, thats all they know. I know nobody cares about anything I just said, and I'm not looking for help. I just felt like sharing the bull**** in my life. And if anyone on here knew me, I'm not who I was, and I doubt I ever will be that person again.

*Oh ya, I forgot to mention that Louie got tired of her being obsessed with him, he got with his old girlfriend and told her to never talk to him again. Now shes being all nice to me and stuff. But she said that she dosen't like me, not not because I'm fat but because I'm so depressed and I bring her down, and I think thats pretty messed up scince its kinda her fault that I'm like this*

Quick note before I get back to work.

First, women suck. I finally left my sons mother and had to, at the age of 30, move back in with my folks which now has me contemplating murder.

Second, don't worry about the school thing. Get into another school, get your grades back up and transfer out to your top choice school for your sophmore year. No matter how bad it is, it's never that bad.

Dude, I care about what you just said. Email, PM or carrier pigeon me if you need.

Best of luck and good joss to you friend.

[Steelrat]

Why don't you join the rest of the Norcal bunch this Sunday, and forget about your worries while we mow down the rec crowd. While you are there, I can share stories of mine that are strikingly close to yours (minus the drugs and booze) if you so choose.

SCP, Sunday the 13th, be there!

[ZAust]

thats some damn good advice my friend.. i suggest you take it.

[Torbo]

people do care. You just have to let them care. Listen to code ma, army and miscue. People do care, and you will never know how much they care untill you open up and give them the opportunity to help you.

It wont be easy for you, but you can turn around. i wish you the best of fortune, and i hope you have the strength to pull though. Dont waste this time. You cant have it back.

[Restola]

If a close friend came to you with these problems, would you turn them away? Would you insult them?

If a close friend of mine was going through this I'd tell him straight up that he needs to change. I would do this repeatedly in many different ways until he understood, no matter how bad it hurt his feelings. Then I would offer advice and support on how to do it.

That's exactly what's going on in this thread, with the exception of 2 posters.

[-=Squid=-]

If a close friend of mine was going through this I'd tell him straight up that he needs to change. I would do this repeatedly in many different ways until he understood, no matter how bad it hurt his feelings. Then I would offer advice and support on how to do it.

That's exactly what's going on in this thread, with the exception of 2 posters.

I know your talking about me, but mabe you should put more thought into what I said?

[Restola]

I know your talking about me, but mabe you should put more thought into what I said?

Actually I wasn't talking about you specifically...I didn't read your posts.

[-=Squid=-]

Actually I wasn't talking about you specifically...I didn't read your posts.

Akk... im retarded sometimes.

Carry on.

[InfinatyBPS]

I don't feel like posting my replies to everything yet, I would just like to set 1 thing straight. I'm 17 years old, not 14, I don't know where u get that bs from.

[Trigger_Happy]

I don't feel like posting my replies to everything yet, I would just like to set 1 thing straight. I'm 17 years old, not 14, I don't know where u get that bs from.

Yeah, I tried to post that you were not 14, but my post got redirected to a random thread thanks to a glitch, and I gave up. Here's teh jist...


I remember back when you posted all the time. I've read through your website. Mostly, I can't believe you are still after a girl that did all that. What a faker. She's just in it to get you to react and chase. She says I'm sorry and then scews your friend? FOrget it, she's just playing with you so she can feel "wanted". Best thing to do would be to blow her off and let her see how unwanted her constant BS is. If you're smart, you'll never look back.

I think you need something to do. Stop doing what you've been doing because it's not working out for you. I mean, you don't do stuff because "you just do", you do stuff because you enjoy it. Hanging out with dicks, stealing, and smoking doesn't seem to have left you with an overwhelming feeling of happiness. Why don't you do something you actually like? Just my take on this complicated mess...

[dre1919]

Dude, you know what? YOU need to be stronger than this. Are you serious? Are you really going to let this crazy, whacked out crack-headed chick drop you so low as to make your life meaningless? That's some BS. I'm not dogging on you...hear me out. First thing, High School sucks for everybody and if it doesn't, then you missed the point and your life will probably suck later on. The "really cool" people in my class are bowling alley managers now in my home town, not CEO's and lawyers. High School is a proving ground of sorts...both emotionally and physically to see if you have the stones to make it out in the real world. Trust me...real life is way harder than anything I EVER screwed with in HS. Oh yeah...it's true. Life will roll up and kick you in the jimmy if you let it...the trick is not giving it the chance. You have to go out and make your way...spit back in life's face and tell it no matter what it has it ain't going to be enough to take you down.

You have a golden opportunity in front of you...you have the chance to leave all this BS you're currently mired in and make any changes you want in your life but YOU have to do it. Don't give me this stuff about "I can't"...yes, you can. I did, so can you. I wanted to make lots of changes about myself after HS...step out of my shell and become more popular with ladies, get bigger and stronger, etc. and I did it. First thing you need to do it stop feeling sorry for yourself and letting others drag you down. People like this crazy chick and a labeling society will keep you down as long as you let them. If you don't stick up for yourself, the world will tread on you forever. Why should it stop? If you could just put down the weed, the liqour, and the feelings of dispair and focus on the positive for five minutes you'd be infinitely better. Substance abuse, depression, low self-esteem, weight problem...these are all things you can overcome but you have to get tough. You have to get mean and find the courage to get strong.

Don't do it for your parents, this dumbass girl, friends...do it for YOU. Stop providing excuses why you don't get better and get better. It's as simple as that and anybody who tells you different is selling something. That's one of the biggest things wrong with our society these days...everything is always 'What someone did to me". Stop letting them do things to you...YOU have the power. This girl will continue to hurt you as long as you let her. Become invincible to all outside negativity and you will rise above all the decadence and evil you currently reside amongst. Trust me bro...as bad as you have it now, when you're 25 you'll sit back and think "Why was I so worried? That was nothing." You really will...I promise you. Things could always be worse than they are right now. Think about it, you could have been born into a Ugandan village and starved to death before you were even seven years old. Life gets better, but it does get tougher so you better be ready. Good luck on getting over this stuff man, don't let all this outside crap beat you. You'll let us down! We AO'ers are fighters!

Give 'em hell.

[InfinatyBPS]

Ok, first off I would like to say thank you to everyone who gave me advice. I have an appointment for a phsyciatrist on friday. Hopefully I can get some help and figure out what to do and why I do what I do. I couldn't take the depression anymore, I just about broke, and I told my mom about how I've been depressed for so long and its getting worse and worse and she made me an appointment. I don't know what I'm going to do exactly yet, but I guess I'll just have to see. To those who just had <B>*POOF*</B> to talk, thank you too, you just made me see how many <B>*POOF*</B> there are in the world.

<B>*Warning: No Cussing*</B> -Miscue