Should I talk to this married woman??

[geekwarrior]

Because I made no wedding vows to him, nor have anything defined by friendship. I understand the watch out for your fellow man, and I very generally follow that. However, in the partciular circumstance I don't see it. Remember, I beleive, truly, that marriage is already gone when she looks to cheat - assuming she did. As noted thats not clear.

who's says the marraige is gone? Just because she's out at a bar, or even if you sleep with her, there have been many instances were husbands have forgiven there spouses for their infidelity, and the marraige has come back together. you are interferring with someones marraige. Maybe the woman just had a bad night, and things can get better for them. gonna be a lot harder if she sleeps with someone.

[Lohman446]

who's says the marraige is gone? Just because she's out at a bar, or even if you sleep with her, there have been many instances were husbands have forgiven there spouses for their infidelity, and the marraige has come back together. you are interferring with someones marraige. Maybe the woman just had a bad night, and things can get better for them. gonna be a lot harder if she sleeps with someone.

As a general rule, psychology notes that sexual acts are far more emotionally based for women. I doubt its a "slip in judgement" for just a moment.

[geekwarrior]

As a general rule, psychology notes that sexual acts are far more emotionally based for women. I doubt its a "slip in judgement" for just a moment.

but it doesnt mean the marraige is gone, and you're still interferring

[slade]

yes your OWN sense of morality....so go ahead, do what you want. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying everyone has to believe in some religious teachings. All I'm saying is that alot of this discussion has been argued by thinking of self, and self gratification. your still stabbing the husband in the back, wether you know him or not. but no one seems to have aproblem with that.

remember, you're arguing based on your own sense of morality.

As a general rule, psychology notes that sexual acts are far more emotionally based for women. I doubt its a "slip in judgement" for just a moment.

sources? it makes sense in some regard, but ive known a considerable number of counter-examples.

[geekwarrior]

remember, you're arguing based on your own sense of morality.

and thats the problem with making up your own morales, you can do whatever you want.

[slade]

and thats the problem with making up your own morales, you can do whatever you want.

im sorry, did you just negate your own argument along with mine?

[Triangle]

It really isn't worth the hassle man.
Sometimes it is, and it can be amazing.
But sometimes it's not.
You can make your own decisions, but be prepared to deal with the consequences.

[geekwarrior]

im sorry, did you just negate your own argument along with mine?

simple answer, yes. theres no point in agrueing about it, because you believe what you want, and base your morals on what you feel is right. apparently if there is no written contract or law against it, it than falls to whatever you feel like. So yes, do whatever you want, theres no one to judge you for it.

[SCpoloRicker]

Hit that, bro.

J.C. style.

/I think some of you forgot about J.C.

[Lohman446]

To the watch out for other guys crowd:

If your wife asked someone to sleep with her and they said no solely because she was married, and you found out about it, would it make you feel better?

[stop whining buy a mag]

To the watch out for other guys crowd:

If your wife asked someone to sleep with her and they said no solely because she was married, and you found out about it, would it make you feel better?

I'm not married but....if my wife tried to get with a guy and he said no I would be thoroughly surprised.

This man:
1.Must have not had enough to drink.
2.Is gay which is why he wouldn't want your wife.

Maybe I'm living under a rock but I'm still under the impression that a man will not say no to sex if the woman is at least a 7. (3.5 if you're drunk.)

[slade]

Maybe I'm living under a rock but I'm still under the impression that a man will not say no to sex if the woman is at least a 7. (3.5 if you're drunk.)

ehh, not true. (especially if the guy is in a relationship)

[grEnAlEins]

If your wife asked someone to sleep with her and they said no solely because she was married, and you found out about it, would it make you feel better?

Nope

[beam]

To the watch out for other guys crowd:

If your wife asked someone to sleep with her and they said no solely because she was married, and you found out about it, would it make you feel better?

Yes.

[tropical_fishy]

Blah blah blah, more of the same, men have no control over their genitalia when drunk, etc...



Maybe I'm living under a rock but I'm still under the impression that a man will not say no to sex if the woman is at least a 7. (3.5 if you're drunk.)

Not all men think with sex as a primary goal in mind. Generally, they get out of that rut at about 18/19/20, when booze becomes the primary goal and tail becomes the secondary one. Because jeez, who wants to have sex and a) stay awake through it and b ) remember it in the morning. Duh.

Oh, and also: my roommate will attest to just how hard it is to have sex with a drunk guy. So guys, I'm just sayin', if you can't get it up when you're drunk, it doesn't matter HOW hot she is on a scale of 1-10. And wouldn't that be embarassing.